Clubs are just like pubs except the people in them dressed for fun , they have a lot of social spaces where people meet up and chat before any fun begins , the biggest step is walking through the doors , most will give you a tour , we were even nervous as a couple , but see single fems or guys manage them ok |
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By *bi HaiveMan 22 hours ago
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Many clubs require membership. Unlikely a woman will want to sign up with a complete stranger.
Also there's no benefit to one teaming up as entry prices are cheaper for single women, or often free on nights when men are allowed in.
Bite the bullet and go alone. Everyone gets nervous, but women tend to prefer guys confident enough to walk through the door on their own, rather than one that needs their hand holding. |
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"Would like to visit a club for the first time in the near future but don't really want to look like Billy no mates, is there anyone in the same position that would like to pair up?"
Most single women I know would never take a guy to a club that they didn't already know and trust. If the guy acts like a dick at the club and I've attended with them as a couple, it puts my membership and reputatiob at risk. Guys often tend to expect play will happen (despite assurances that they wouldn't!). And for me there's nothing worse than being stuck with a limpet clinging onto me all night and getting in the way of other options I want to pursue.
I get at least 10 messages a day from guys asking me to babysit them for the first club event. Its not sexy to need a hand hold to walk into what is essentially a bar. If you can't walk into a bar, buy a drink, and mingle, then you're not likely to turn up to a hotel to fuck someone's wife or to get stuck in to an orgy 🤣 |
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