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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you saw someone at a swinging club and you had seen them before with a different person surely you wouldn't say anything right? Even if you had spoken to that person.
I used to swing with an ex, broke up, met a girl who seemed really straight and when asked if I had done anything kinky I held back on swinging.
Now she wants to go to a club (in the North East) and yes I know, honesty is the best policy and all that but it's not like I was going to clubs behind her back. It's about 18 months since I last went to a swinging club and I've been seeing this girl three months.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sage advice Hopey but I didn't owing to the fact that when we first talked about it she was all butter wouldn't melt etc and now it turns out she is rather game, to say the least.
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over a year ago
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why not just tell her you have been before, explain you didn't mention it because you didn't think it was her thing, though I'm sure if you were recognised nobody would say necessarily you were there previously with ex, but lady might be concerned if people know your name.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Butter wouldn't melt? Lol, people say that about me.
But I wouldn't tell all to someone I had known a few weeks outside off here.
Wouldn't want him to go running.
Guess it's up to you, you ain't lied, but if someone does recognise you and it all comes out in front of her? Then what?
Though highly doubt anyone would say anything.
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"why not just tell her you have been before, explain you didn't mention it because you didn't think it was her thing, though I'm sure if you were recognised nobody would say necessarily you were there previously with ex, but lady might be concerned if people know your name.
Honesty is always the best policy"
That's sound advice.  |
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