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By *oney2Couple 5 days ago
NorthWest |
Won’t name and shame the club
but …..
The whole place stunk of B.O. there’s no suitable windows in the back bed room type areas and where they have the smoking area at the front of the club the doors was wide open so that area stinks of smoke too.
It was just horrible smelly environment to be in !!
We had paid a hotel and travelled a bit but decided to try make the best of it and try to socialise and mix, but the whole place was extremely cliquish and stunk!
When we had called it a night we tried to ring a taxi unfortunately the main-taxi firm had gone on strike as of midnight onwards so we were stuck on how to get back to our hotel
( we got a taxi to the club early in the evening 20mins drive from our hotel. )
We asked behind the bar and club staff if they knew any other numbers or if anyone was willing to offer a lift and we would pay them and we were just ignored snubbed and pushed out of the club. No one would answer us just kept telling us to leave and go.
No cared for our safety whatsoever. We had never been this town/club before. The fact we had just paid entry and paid for our drinks….no one cared.. Just used …
Quite a few of us from the club were left at the side of the road trying to flag any black taxis we could but hardly any came… the clubs on quite a dark estate type place too !
Me and my partner began to walk back to our hotel ( on foot the maps showed it was hour & a half walk. )
After what seemed forever … walking … we managed to flag a black hackney cab …
The club is in a very obscure place it stunk and we will never be going back again !
This was around September/October 2022 time.
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Been to loads of different clubs and haven’t had a really bad experience but have seen some questionable things happen at some that raises an eyebrow
One such time was at a club where it’s open play and a lady was getting fingered by a random wanderer whilst she was blowing her partner and she couldn’t stop the stranger because she only had one leg and couldn’t shut them !!!! I had to go get help !
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Tried two clubs in the North, after hearing some raving reviews. Both a massive disappointment, for a variety of reasons, and nowhere near the hype that surrounded them. Or maybe we are just too spoiled by our more local clubs? The worst experience though was in a club that, as far as I'm aware, doesn't exist any more. Dingy, with layers of dust with a lot of places, particularly the dungeon area. Very narrow corridors. Needless to say, we did not stay long. Luckily, it was free entry for couples, so we only wasted some time and petrol. |
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"Won’t name and shame the club
but …..
You should name and shame, it's the only way any establishment will take notice and make changes."
This 
Name and bloody shame them, it’s supposed to be a community at least ask a few regulars if they could help. |
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"Won’t name and shame the club
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You should name and shame, it's the only way any establishment will take notice and make changes."
It's better to identify them and give constructive feedback, preferably directly. This gives them the opportunity to be informed, understand and potentially to improve. It's not easy to manage a club and all of us will have different perspectives and interests. |
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By *oney2Couple 5 days ago
NorthWest |
I put up a review on an old account to them back when it happened so Duno if they dealt with it then ???
I don’t want the club to come for us as it did happen nearly 2 years ago now but I just wanted to join in the topic. |
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Arrived, checked in, walked into the bar.. to witness a guy walking around naked, used condom hanging off his erect cock and an ankle tag… classy joint.
When the men’s toilets overflowed I decided to call it and had an early night. |
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Eurekas in Kent, was supposed to be an event night but it was dead mostly single guys. Really bad vibe most people were excessively drinking and it stank of cannabis. A guy was having an argument with a woman as I walked past he tried to fight me. We went with another couple but nobody else there even acknowledged us. Vowed never to go back. |
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By *oney2Couple 5 days ago
NorthWest |
"Arrived, checked in, walked into the bar.. to witness a guy walking around naked, used condom hanging off his erect cock and an ankle tag… classy joint.
When the men’s toilets overflowed I decided to call it and had an early night. "
Vomit! |
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"Arrived, checked in, walked into the bar.. to witness a guy walking around naked, used condom hanging off his erect cock and an ankle tag… classy joint.
When the men’s toilets overflowed I decided to call it and had an early night.
Vomit! "
No, I think it was someone’s really big poo |
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"Arrived, checked in, walked into the bar.. to witness a guy walking around naked, used condom hanging off his erect cock and an ankle tag… classy joint.
When the men’s toilets overflowed I decided to call it and had an early night.
Vomit!
No, I think it was someone’s really big poo"
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100% DV8 in Kent. We visited last year, and literally walked in and left 10 minutes later. It felt dirty and seedy. The sofas were old and dirty, the place was run down and felt dirty. Another couple arrived and left right away. Definitely on the lower end of the scale, it’s no wonder they don’t have a gallery on the website. Strange place. |
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"Been to loads of different clubs and haven’t had a really bad experience but have seen some questionable things happen at some that raises an eyebrow
One such time was at a club where it’s open play and a lady was getting fingered by a random wanderer whilst she was blowing her partner and she couldn’t stop the stranger because she only had one leg and couldn’t shut them !!!! I had to go get help !
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The lady with one leg... that must have been a difficult one  |
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We were at a club having a bit of fun between us he between my legs using his tongue as that’s what he’s good at. Me play with me nipples and watching the shocking porn……
when this bloke leans over the back of the seat and starts to try playing with my boob without asking I tell him no so try’s again….. again I push his hand away …. Third time of trying…. I shout fuck off and push his hand away again…. Finally gets the message but this stops him with his tongue when I was so close to…. “O” …..
The rules are written on the wall in the club in a few places…. We told the staff and they said they would have words with him then the senior staff member (we found out later owner) said oh he’s ok he’s a regular let him stay… |
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"Been to loads of different clubs and haven’t had a really bad experience but have seen some questionable things happen at some that raises an eyebrow
One such time was at a club where it’s open play and a lady was getting fingered by a random wanderer whilst she was blowing her partner and she couldn’t stop the stranger because she only had one leg and couldn’t shut them !!!! I had to go get help !
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hope you told the bloke to hop it. |
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Had a locked door kicked in by two blokes who said “it wasn't fair they couldn’t watch.
A man wanking in the changing room and winking at me before I’d taking my coat off.
A woman who didn't say a word. Slid of over a bed out of my eye line and clamped onto my boob like a limpet. I gave her a WTF look and she sloped off. Not a word was spoken.
A man who burst into tears when i said I wasnt interested. Floods of tears.
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Sitting comfortably?
Infusion in Blackpool. Absolutely barren but for 20 older single guys who followed us relentlessly. Freezing cold. Tried to hide and play in a corner. When we were done some angry pensioner looked my partner dead in her eyes, hands on his cock and angrily asked her "what am I supposed to do with this?" ...dip it in the grey hot tub water? Bonus points to the guy on tag. Infusion has always been full of d up/massively d*unk people who can't consent and wander in off the front.
Club Play in Blackpool - had loads single guys pressing and kicking on the door to get in and have a look. Another time, there was one guy who other guests had threatened with violence who would NOT stop aggressively staring at women. Else, the creepy old guy who was trying anything for a bit of brushing past skin on skin contact with my partner in the halls. We love the club but upstairs is rarely, if ever policed.
A club near Liverpool that we can't name on Fab. Male half was sexually assaulted at the front desk in front of staff by a d*unk woman at a private hire, like it never happened. Another time d*unk woman tried to forcibly undress female half, restraining her and tried to put her fingers inside of her. Reported. Nothing happened.
Paid a ridiculous amount for an "event" at No.3 which was a bog standard party but for £5 worth of Iceland spring rolls. It absolutely stunk, the whole place, it was inescapable. Music was on CD which kept being changed and it was when we watched 15 single guys surround a couple playing whilst Sweet Caroline blarred out that we decided it maybe wasn't for us.
Cupids, had some guys pretend to not speak English so they could force their way into play.
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"Sitting comfortably?
Infusion in Blackpool. Absolutely barren but for 20 older single guys who followed us relentlessly. Freezing cold. Tried to hide and play in a corner. When we were done some angry pensioner looked my partner dead in her eyes, hands on his cock and angrily asked her "what am I supposed to do with this?" ...dip it in the grey hot tub water? Bonus points to the guy on tag. Infusion has always been full of d up/massively d*unk people who can't consent and wander in off the front.
Club Play in Blackpool - had loads single guys pressing and kicking on the door to get in and have a look. Another time, there was one guy who other guests had threatened with violence who would NOT stop aggressively staring at women. Else, the creepy old guy who was trying anything for a bit of brushing past skin on skin contact with my partner in the halls. We love the club but upstairs is rarely, if ever policed.
A club near Liverpool that we can't name on Fab. Male half was sexually assaulted at the front desk in front of staff by a d*unk woman at a private hire, like it never happened. Another time d*unk woman tried to forcibly undress female half, restraining her and tried to put her fingers inside of her. Reported. Nothing happened.
Paid a ridiculous amount for an "event" at No.3 which was a bog standard party but for £5 worth of Iceland spring rolls. It absolutely stunk, the whole place, it was inescapable. Music was on CD which kept being changed and it was when we watched 15 single guys surround a couple playing whilst Sweet Caroline blarred out that we decided it maybe wasn't for us.
Cupids, had some guys pretend to not speak English so they could force their way into play.
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infusion.... Fella in there once walking around bollock naked. I swear he stank so much he had a visible aura around him. You could almost chew it.
Followed by a man in a high Viz jacket who I think had just come from servicing lorries. His hands were black with oil. His intro (with hubby sat next to me) was straight to him as if I wasn't there "can I have a go of your missus"
We lasted all of 20 min.
On the way out they were in the process of letting a single fella in who was so d*unk he could barely stand up.
We won't be going back..... |
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By *r. MacMan 4 hours ago
Bexleyheath |
I was in a sauna in the club this man was making friendly chat to me talking about what were here for (it was my first time at a club) after a few crude remarks I felt a little uncomfortable thinking I'm over my head and when I'm leaving the sauna he grabbed my cock telling me how nice it was I had to tell him no countless times and had to move his arm from it |
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By *anenkamCouple 4 hours ago
manchester |
It's a wonder anyone ever attends these clubs. We only ever go on a Couples only night and only very occasionally now with all of this ID required rubbish but even they are hit and miss as you get single blokes with a "partner" in tow who is obviously been paid to partner them. |
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I was quite surprised to see our favourite local club (Infusion) mentioned more than once (so far) in this discussion.
We go every week to this club and fortunately we have never encountered anything close to what has been described.
Worst we have had has been some unwanted touching in the hot tub but that was stopped by just a stern "no thanks", and maybe the odd knocking on the door or trying the door handle of the private room. Really not much different to our experiences in other clubs.
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By *oney2Couple 4 hours ago
NorthWest |
"I was quite surprised to see our favourite local club (Infusion) mentioned more than once (so far) in this discussion.
We go every week to this club and fortunately we have never encountered anything close to what has been described.
Worst we have had has been some unwanted touching in the hot tub but that was stopped by just a stern "no thanks", and maybe the odd knocking on the door or trying the door handle of the private room. Really not much different to our experiences in other clubs.
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