Morning everyone!
I’ve not been to a club yet, but have been thinking about going for the first time recently.
how many people normally go? Are there any smaller starter places?
Looking around the Winchester way, but I’m not sure what to expect lol x
Any advice / info is welcome x
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If you have never been to a club before then, what we would recommend is a club that doesn’t have membership fee (The big posh clubs are great but expensive membership).
As then if you don’t like the club sense you haven’t spent a lot or committed to something. A good club for this is the Attic in Derby. Also don’t go on a Saturday party night as it’s to over the top for newbies. Possibly Saturday day time.
Chams is good on a Sunday for chill and quiet time break yourselves in but need membership (look on their website) we highly recommend this club.
Chams tho is what’s known as dress down clubs. So Underwear or towel.
Plus if going with someone else know each other’s play boundaries before you go that’s mega important. These can change overtime as you visit more clubs and get into the lifestyle etc.
Plus also chatting to a couple you want to play with get to know there boundaries to.
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Have a look at Swindon swingers for their events, not too far from you and always a good crowd there & very helpful owners & staff)
Go mingle and follow the basic rules of any club & general lyfestyle.
1 Chat and mingle, be polite.
2 Always ask before touching anyone. (this is one that lots of single males let themself down on)
3 No means no.
4 Don't get pissed (personally this is a massive turn off for us)
There are more unwritten rules that you will find out as you go along.
Good luck & stay safe.
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Club VA2(vanilla alternative) is a very socialble place as it has a lovely bar area ..
Annual membership is £20...
Have a look at tye clun website..
Appreciate it's not local to you, but people travel from all over to attend the club.
Good luck on your journey...
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