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By (user no longer on site) OP 7 weeks ago
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I live minutes away from the club so very nervous about going and one being spotted and two being recognised inside although I guess once you’re in the recogniser is there for the same I guess. Any advice |
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Most nerve-racking part is going through the door but it's really social and everyone respects each others privacy so don't worry about that.
Drop the club a text message on their phone and they will send you all the info or even pop onto their website x |
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"Most nerve-racking part is going through the door but it's really social and everyone respects each others privacy so don't worry about that.
Drop the club a text message on their phone and they will send you all the info or even pop onto their website x"
All of this is true.
Once youre inside, none of us care. Its very social and everyone has a laugh.
Only advice I can give you is just try to interact with people, be respectful of the club rules and its members and don't go with any expectations, especially on your first night.
And yeah you probably will see faces you know and you're right..no one cares. Just keep it to the club.
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By *JohnMan 7 weeks ago
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Some people with this fear will choose to visit clubs further away - and end up bumping into people they know who were doing the same.
It has been repeated to the point of cliche now, but that's because it's true - they're there for the same reasons, and what happens in the club stays in the club. We're all grown-ups, and having a sex life is not shameful.
There are people in my life that I wouldn't want to watch playing. If I ever met one of them at the club, we'd just arrange mutual blocking on fab, try not to be in the same play rooms, and not talk about it in the outside world.
It hasn't happened yet, after I don't know how many years. There are a lot of people in the 'real' world, and very few of them attend clubs. It's not worth worrying about until it happens, and if it does happen it's not that big a deal. |
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