Go without too many expectations, just enjoy the view and chat to people if you can. Don't be afraid to chat to other single guys (even though you're straight) - they're probably as nervous as you and it's a better experience if you have someone to talk to. Although scary at first, clubs are an amazing experience! |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Don’t be a dickhead.
Be yourself (unless you are dickhead).
Go in hope, not expectation.
Don’t put pressure on yourself or the situation. Relax, chat, engage, take it as it comes.
Worst case, you will have had a new experience.
Best case - Sky’s the limit.
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Just go…. Take a deep breath and take the plunge…. Be friendly and not be afraid to talk with people, it’s really not much different from going to a bar or the pub….. remember, if you pulled your dick out in a bar, you’d be thrown out so just use the same practice in a swingers club….. disrespectful behaviour is never acceptable and won’t be tolerated.
Just don’t go with expectations….. if you manage to not act like a desperate borderline sex offender then you might be able to enjoy some of the fun. |
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Definitely go with no expectations as many Men go home disappointed. Most of the Men who have fun in club's are chatty and speak to people, the one's who sit on their own or walk around not speaking to people generally will go home disappointed. Of course just because people talk it doesn't mean they'll go in a playroom with you, however most people are happy to have a chat.
(There'll be someone along in a bit to tell you how unwelcome Men are in club's, best listen to lots of opinions though  ) |
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By *8585Man 16 weeks ago
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I know to go with zero expectations etc but what sort of play do people get up to please ? I'm not interested in sex as can very occasionally get that anyway on a night out. I'm looking for jerking in front of a few people, giving a facial, watersports, face sitting. Is that realistic or unrealistic please. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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‘What do people get up to’ is an impossible question to answer. As the Germans say, ‘alles kann, nichts muss’ - more or less ‘anything goes but you don’t have to do anything’. Consent is everything. So maybe ask politely? Worst case is they say ‘no’. |
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