Hi all I really want to try a club I'm not new to swinging but I'm now single and have never been to a club is there anyone here that would maybe advise me or even better invite me lol plz I need help lol xxx |
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"Hi miss Tinkerbell I'm not sure what to do or expect I just wanted to do some homework before I dived in and upset someone for doing the wrong thing xx"
As long as you act like a decent human being you'll be okay. No touching without asking, don't stand or hover over someone having a wank, no means no. It's basci manners OP. Tell the hosts your new too, they'll give you a tour of the club and answer any questions  |
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"Thankyou miss Tinkerbell could I possibly inbox you I'd love to ask you more questions if that's ok but you will have to add me as I don't meet your parameters lol xx"
Feel free to ask on here but my filters are there for a reason. |
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"Ok here goes I'm looking for a woman that likes the same things as me and I have some kinks but I need to know if it's acceptable to want my kinks in a club xx"
Maybe just go to the club, chat, socialise and maybe meet some people.
Possibly talk about kinks if the situation arises and it's appropriate. I wouldn't lead with it.
It's just a place that will be populated with people from the lifestyle. Other than that it's just like any other social situation.
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"Ok here goes I'm looking for a woman that likes the same things as me and I have some kinks but I need to know if it's acceptable to want my kinks in a club xx"
Look for nights that cater for your tastes. Lots of clubs have a chat forum so you can feel things out beforehand and make connections or look for the threads in the club section and reach out to people posting on them. If you do a little groundwork beforehand it will pay dividends in the long run and build your confidence and connections. |
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