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By *x cplCouple 14 weeks ago
North of Oxford |
You don't have to play with anyone else at clubs it's not a must. Take her don't push her and let her just enjoy a social event. A lot can depend on the club your going to and what's on that night. Ide certainly say avoid a greedy girls or gang bang event. Also look at clubs with plenty of social areas. |
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By *otsuredorsetCouple 14 weeks ago
Sturminster Newton, but travel all over UK |
Lots of people go to clubs just to soak up the atmosphere, there are clubs for everything you could want.
Day spas where you strip down to a towel or lingerie and spend the day chilling in a pool or hot tub, clubs that require a more formal dress code, open in the evenings where you can choose to dress down, or not. You can choose to play or not to play, that is entirely up to you.
At clubs the ladies are firmly in charge. If they say no, then it’s a no. Consent is so important in clubs it means no touching without permission, so she’s safer there than in a normal nightclub
K loves that aspect of it, and it means she can be picky who we play with. |
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"Lots of people go to clubs just to soak up the atmosphere, there are clubs for everything you could want.
Day spas where you strip down to a towel or lingerie and spend the day chilling in a pool or hot tub, clubs that require a more formal dress code, open in the evenings where you can choose to dress down, or not. You can choose to play or not to play, that is entirely up to you.
At clubs the ladies are firmly in charge. If they say no, then it’s a no. Consent is so important in clubs it means no touching without permission, so she’s safer there than in a normal nightclub
K loves that aspect of it, and it means she can be picky who we play with."
A day spa like Kestrels at Heathrow is a relaxing couple of hours with no pressure. Sunday afternoons are popular. |
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By *otsuredorsetCouple 14 weeks ago
Sturminster Newton, but travel all over UK |
"Lots of people go to clubs just to soak up the atmosphere, there are clubs for everything you could want.
Day spas where you strip down to a towel or lingerie and spend the day chilling in a pool or hot tub, clubs that require a more formal dress code, open in the evenings where you can choose to dress down, or not. You can choose to play or not to play, that is entirely up to you.
At clubs the ladies are firmly in charge. If they say no, then it’s a no. Consent is so important in clubs it means no touching without permission, so she’s safer there than in a normal nightclub
K loves that aspect of it, and it means she can be picky who we play with.
A day spa like Kestrels at Heathrow is a relaxing couple of hours with no pressure. Sunday afternoons are popular."
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That's fine. Just take her and be happy she wants to go see with you. Plant the seed and hope its grows (which it may or may not). It's far more likely to grow and for her to want to return if you let her go at her own pace and explore without pressure. If you pressure her or lean on her with expectations it's a sure way to kill her vibe and not won't to return. |
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