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Northwich sauna bi event 6th Sept
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After being unable to get to the August event (bloomin school holidays!) And the disappointment of a late-called board meeting resulting in missing a planned trip last Wednesday I'm soooooo looking forward and hoping I can keep Friday 6th clear of work!  |
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"It’ll be my first time going. Unsure what to expect."
Best to go with no expectations and to just go with the flow. But go at your pace! Don’t do something you’re not happy with. No means no. Any concerns then please see a member of staff. The venue and staff are amazing!! The people that go are great and on a whole respectful. Best bi event we have attended! |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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Really wanting to go to this but just wondering how it all works?
Is it eyes meet eyes then you have to be good at 'chatting up'?
Will the women and couples take the lead even if you are just an ordinary guy?
Do you have to be VWE to join in any group play going on?
Appreciate any honest answers |
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"Really wanting to go to this but just wondering how it all works?
Is it eyes meet eyes then you have to be good at 'chatting up'?
Will the women and couples take the lead even if you are just an ordinary guy?
Do you have to be VWE to join in any group play going on?
Appreciate any honest answers"
If you've been to other clubs, it's similar, except that the focus is on it being very bi welcoming, so the closest match is a club's bi event/night. It has more facilities than most clubs, including saunas and it also has private and public engagement areas. Like a pub, you can chat anywhere, especially the more social places.
People like men and women of different shapes and sizes. Their preferences will determine who they get on with as well as like physically. Getting consent for anything first is the only priority.
You'll catch people's eyes and smiles. Be sensitive and sensible to the vibes around you.
Go for the facilities, which are great. And anything else is a bonus. |
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"Really wanting to go to this but just wondering how it all works?
Is it eyes meet eyes then you have to be good at 'chatting up'?
Will the women and couples take the lead even if you are just an ordinary guy?
Do you have to be VWE to join in any group play going on?
Appreciate any honest answers
If you've been to other clubs, it's similar, except that the focus is on it being very bi welcoming, so the closest match is a club's bi event/night. It has more facilities than most clubs, including saunas and it also has private and public engagement areas. Like a pub, you can chat anywhere, especially the more social places.
People like men and women of different shapes and sizes. Their preferences will determine who they get on with as well as like physically. Getting consent for anything first is the only priority.
You'll catch people's eyes and smiles. Be sensitive and sensible to the vibes around you.
Go for the facilities, which are great. And anything else is a bonus."
Perfectly worded fella |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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Think I'm bailing on this...
Signed up to the proper Northwich sauna forum and it doesn't speak well about single guys who attend this event at all. Looks like it's a closed shop for couples.
Absolutely gutted!  |
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"Think I'm bailing on this...
Signed up to the proper Northwich sauna forum and it doesn't speak well about single guys who attend this event at all. Looks like it's a closed shop for couples.
Absolutely gutted! "
There's plenty of single guys that go and are more than welcome to the event. I know _iss pleasuring will agree with me on this as she craves the attention of bi single men at Northwich |
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By *PG!Man 3 weeks ago
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sadly won't attend, but I can confirm tgat single guys are more than welcome, from previous visits I actually believe there is more single guys attending than couples. def best bi event in north of england |
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"Think I'm bailing on this...
Signed up to the proper Northwich sauna forum and it doesn't speak well about single guys who attend this event at all. Looks like it's a closed shop for couples.
Absolutely gutted! "
I'm on the forum and I've seen nothing of the sort. |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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"Think I'm bailing on this...
Signed up to the proper Northwich sauna forum and it doesn't speak well about single guys who attend this event at all. Looks like it's a closed shop for couples.
Absolutely gutted!
I'm on the forum and I've seen nothing of the sort. "
It says that single men follow couples around like lost puppies...like they've never seen a woman before!
Also seen someone say that most couples all meet in the bar area then head upstairs! |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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"sadly won't attend, but I can confirm tgat single guys are more than welcome, from previous visits I actually believe there is more single guys attending than couples. def best bi event in north of england"
Exactly! Not enough fun to go around! |
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"Think I'm bailing on this...
Signed up to the proper Northwich sauna forum and it doesn't speak well about single guys who attend this event at all. Looks like it's a closed shop for couples.
Absolutely gutted!
I'm on the forum and I've seen nothing of the sort.
It says that single men follow couples around like lost puppies...like they've never seen a woman before!
Also seen someone say that most couples all meet in the bar area then head upstairs!"
Sounds like a normal swingers club to me 🤷 |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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"Think I'm bailing on this...
Signed up to the proper Northwich sauna forum and it doesn't speak well about single guys who attend this event at all. Looks like it's a closed shop for couples.
Absolutely gutted!
I'm on the forum and I've seen nothing of the sort.
It says that single men follow couples around like lost puppies...like they've never seen a woman before!
Also seen someone say that most couples all meet in the bar area then head upstairs!
Sounds like a normal swingers club to me 🤷"
Depends what your looking for I suppose...but I ain't driving from Manchester just for a game of pool... |
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"Think I'm bailing on this...
Signed up to the proper Northwich sauna forum and it doesn't speak well about single guys who attend this event at all. Looks like it's a closed shop for couples.
Absolutely gutted!
I'm on the forum and I've seen nothing of the sort.
It says that single men follow couples around like lost puppies...like they've never seen a woman before!
Also seen someone say that most couples all meet in the bar area then head upstairs!
Sounds like a normal swingers club to me 🤷
Depends what your looking for I suppose...but I ain't driving from Manchester just for a game of pool..."
You get out what you put in. Expecting to go and be guaranteed a lay, you're better off with a brothel |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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"Think I'm bailing on this...
Signed up to the proper Northwich sauna forum and it doesn't speak well about single guys who attend this event at all. Looks like it's a closed shop for couples.
Absolutely gutted!
I'm on the forum and I've seen nothing of the sort.
It says that single men follow couples around like lost puppies...like they've never seen a woman before!
Also seen someone say that most couples all meet in the bar area then head upstairs!
Sounds like a normal swingers club to me 🤷
Depends what your looking for I suppose...but I ain't driving from Manchester just for a game of pool...
You get out what you put in. Expecting to go and be guaranteed a lay, you're better off with a brothel"
Ahh playing the 'be sensible' card
I don't want to be sensible, I'm sensible 24/7 in my normal life...I want to be erotic! |
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"Think I'm bailing on this...
Signed up to the proper Northwich sauna forum and it doesn't speak well about single guys who attend this event at all. Looks like it's a closed shop for couples.
Absolutely gutted!
I'm on the forum and I've seen nothing of the sort.
It says that single men follow couples around like lost puppies...like they've never seen a woman before!
Also seen someone say that most couples all meet in the bar area then head upstairs!
Sounds like a normal swingers club to me 🤷
Depends what your looking for I suppose...but I ain't driving from Manchester just for a game of pool...
You get out what you put in. Expecting to go and be guaranteed a lay, you're better off with a brothel
Ahh playing the 'be sensible' card
I don't want to be sensible, I'm sensible 24/7 in my normal life...I want to be erotic!"
Try finding out who's going and start making conversations with the ones that you'd like to meet. I'm guessing you're going for female only play and not interested in playing with men? Just a question as there's alot of action when I've been in the past but I like to chat to people before letting them stick there dick inside me. Try showing abit of respect for the opposite sex, then you might get somewhere
If you go with the attitude of a guaranteed fuck you'll come across as desperate and follow people around and become annoying. The bar area is the perfect place to chat and it's not just about playing pool, it's treating people with respect. That way you might get some fun. I'm not there till next year but I know I'll miss not going as my mate _iss pleasuring will tell me all about the fun she's had and she's a single female |
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Just read your profile, the way you're commenting on here you are the total opposite of what you've wrote yourself up as
It's not the sensible card as you put it, it's being polite and going there to explore and make new friends. Everyone is friendly |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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"Just read your profile, the way you're commenting on here you are the total opposite of what you've wrote yourself up as
It's not the sensible card as you put it, it's being polite and going there to explore and make new friends. Everyone is friendly"
Ok...I'm wound up...just that when I read the Northwich forum the event didn't come across as the 'free for all' it's made out to be.
And as wanting fun with just women...you do know what my user name means don't you? Just not mm but mmf
Anyway I won't spam the thread any more |
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"Just read your profile, the way you're commenting on here you are the total opposite of what you've wrote yourself up as
It's not the sensible card as you put it, it's being polite and going there to explore and make new friends. Everyone is friendly
Ok...I'm wound up...just that when I read the Northwich forum the event didn't come across as the 'free for all' it's made out to be.
And as wanting fun with just women...you do know what my user name means don't you? Just not mm but mmf
Anyway I won't spam the thread any more"
Nothing in swinging is free for all, I don't know where you got that impression from |
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"Just read your profile, the way you're commenting on here you are the total opposite of what you've wrote yourself up as
It's not the sensible card as you put it, it's being polite and going there to explore and make new friends. Everyone is friendly
Ok...I'm wound up...just that when I read the Northwich forum the event didn't come across as the 'free for all' it's made out to be.
And as wanting fun with just women...you do know what my user name means don't you? Just not mm but mmf
Anyway I won't spam the thread any more"
You come across as the type of person who wouldn't fit in and be welcome at any swinging club. People would also prefer men who are open to sex with the same gender, especially as many women like to watch and join in with this. The venue is generously provisioned with facilities that are the ideal goal for visitors, with any friendly engagement l, a major bonus.
It strikes me that you would struggle to get anyone to consent to anything with you anywhere in the scene |
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"I may go but feel that I may now be a bit old and past experience suggest that I am possibly not as well endowed as most people attending like. "
Don't be so daft. It's a fantastic venue. There's a huge diverse age range who attend let alone size of anything. So less of the daft talk. Go and enjoy all the great facilities and crowd of peoples   |
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Don't miss out because of this Don't forget you decide and who you play with and at worst you may have a poor day and otherwise you may have the best time of your life lol ... ps I am hoping to attend lol x |
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