"Go on your own, be friendly and not pushy and you'll be fine.
It just feels weird going to somewhere like that by myself lol "
And going with some total strangers would feel any less weird? What do you think happens in "somewhere like that" to stop you from going on your own? |
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"Just go on your own! I don’t think you’ll find anyone willing to pair up. Going to a club with someone you don’t know would just be awkward."
Exactly this! Especially if they have never been to a swingers club before. |
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If I go to a club as a couple with someone, there has to be a lot of discussion and boundary setting first. Like can I play with others in addition to this person, can I go in an open room without them, can I go in a closed room without them, do we play as a couple with another couple straight or bi. Too much hassle. Easier to go on my own. |
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By *izzy.Woman 22 weeks ago
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" it’s not as if you’re going to the library lol
I met the man who became my husband in a Library !
You weren’t naked and having sex in the library were you? lol "
Maybe chose a club that's not dress down on arrival. Atlantis in Stoke you go in dressed smart, chat to people fully clothed in the lounge or bar and then chose when to undress when you are ready.
You can watch people having sex and may get invited to join in, but the first part of the evening is similar to going to any other nice club.
There are many single women like myself who got specifically to meet guys. If everyone felt like you and coupled up before going, then we are wasting our time going.
Check clubs websites, take your ID and just go.  |
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