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Hey all!
As delicious came up with this genius plan, say in here if you're up for meeting people to go to a club with and where you are based.
I'm down to go to a club with whoever in Manchester for now, but London generally too! |
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"Hello... Looking for Townhouse and Entice friends 
Happy to be a Townhouse friend!
Jx
I'm a Townhouse homie too 
Amazing  "
Excellent, I will stock up on potatoes
I think Obscenity could be one you'd like. It's a kink/swing crossover.
Jx |
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"Hello... Looking for Townhouse and Entice friends
Happy to be a Townhouse friend!
Jx
I'm a Townhouse homie too
Amazing
Excellent, I will stock up on potatoes
I think Obscenity could be one you'd like. It's a kink/swing crossover.
Jx"
Oooo sounds exciting!! |
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"Not been club for a while and not sure when I’ll get there now but Manchester club friend here 
Cupids tonight friend? Haha!
After slagging it off  "
If I went with someone I'm sure it would be ok and apparently tonight is the night!
But yeah ultimately still thought yesterday was tragic |
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"It's been on my profile for a while that I'd love to find a club buddy. I usually go to The Attic in Derby and Liberty Elite in Lutterworth but mainly looking in the East Mids area  "
The attic just reopened right? |
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"It's been on my profile for a while that I'd love to find a club buddy. I usually go to The Attic in Derby and Liberty Elite in Lutterworth but mainly looking in the East Mids area
The attic just reopened right? "
It did! Just last week but haven't been back yet |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read 
J"
You stand around cheering and whooping encouragingly |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J"
You pull someone and establish dominance obvs |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
You stand around cheering and whooping encouragingly "
I can do that. I could bring cheerleader pompoms! 
J |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
You pull someone and establish dominance obvs"
You've met me Joe. This is about as unJulie as it gets
J |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
You stand around cheering and whooping encouragingly
I can do that. I could bring cheerleader pompoms!
J"
I think you would be great at this! I bet you'd bring brilliant snacks too |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
You pull someone and establish dominance obvs
You've met me Joe. This is about as unJulie as it gets
J"
I'm just trying to think about what I wish would happen |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J"
Oh i thought we all pulled together in a giant orgy  maybe i need to research what actually happens at clubs |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J"
You stand at the side, shouting encouragement, suggesting tactics and passing them anything they need |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
You stand at the side, shouting encouragement, suggesting tactics and passing them anything they need "
Oh, like a sex coach? |
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Oh i thought we all pulled together in a giant orgy maybe i need to research what actually happens at clubs
This is exactly what happens. 100%"
We have been to different clubs LB. This has only happened to me once.
J |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
You stand at the side, shouting encouragement, suggesting tactics and passing them anything they need
Oh, like a sex coach? "
Exactly. You can throw bottles of Lucozade into the mix and offer subs on/off if your club buddy seems to be tiring or misses the hole. Sorry, the GOAL. |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
You stand at the side, shouting encouragement, suggesting tactics and passing them anything they need
Oh, like a sex coach?
Exactly. You can throw bottles of Lucozade into the mix and offer subs on/off if your club buddy seems to be tiring or misses the hole. Sorry, the GOAL. "
Is it like Tag?
Taaaaaaggg your in!! |
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"A buddy would be good.
But I have no idea where we’re going. Essex doesn’t have what I’m looking for.
You wanna get your arse oooop North missus "
Yes I do!!! I always happy dance when I get sent oop north with work. |
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"A buddy would be good.
But I have no idea where we’re going. Essex doesn’t have what I’m looking for.
Apparently there's a new dungeon near Me. 
Your shed doesn’t count."
Oi. It's a summer house, not a shed. Pfffft |
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"A buddy would be good.
But I have no idea where we’re going. Essex doesn’t have what I’m looking for.
Apparently there's a new dungeon near Me.
Your shed doesn’t count.
Oi. It's a summer house, not a shed. Pfffft "
Yeah summer house/dungeon…. Not really interchangeable |
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"A buddy would be good.
But I have no idea where we’re going. Essex doesn’t have what I’m looking for.
Apparently there's a new dungeon near Me.
Your shed doesn’t count.
Oi. It's a summer house, not a shed. Pfffft
Yeah summer house/dungeon…. Not really interchangeable "
It would make your eyes water. |
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"A buddy would be good.
But I have no idea where we’re going. Essex doesn’t have what I’m looking for.
Apparently there's a new dungeon near Me.
Your shed doesn’t count.
Oi. It's a summer house, not a shed. Pfffft
Yeah summer house/dungeon…. Not really interchangeable
It would make your eyes water. "
Open the windows then |
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"A buddy would be good.
But I have no idea where we’re going. Essex doesn’t have what I’m looking for.
Apparently there's a new dungeon near Me.
Your shed doesn’t count.
Oi. It's a summer house, not a shed. Pfffft
Yeah summer house/dungeon…. Not really interchangeable
It would make your eyes water.
Open the windows then"
Sorry, that fart was wicked. |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
You stand at the side, shouting encouragement, suggesting tactics and passing them anything they need
Oh, like a sex coach?
Exactly. You can throw bottles of Lucozade into the mix and offer subs on/off if your club buddy seems to be tiring or misses the hole. Sorry, the GOAL. "
I like the idea of a sex coach but what about a caddy to offer tips depending on the placement of the hole and the strength of the wind? |
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By *elloWoman 11 weeks ago
alpha centauri |
I don't mind being a club buddy for someone (F, TV, M) who wants to attend abfabs, I'm going in the 19th , but it would be a case of being a buddy who meet up there, chat and help relieve their nerves, don't want a buddy I attend with as a pair.  |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
You stand at the side, shouting encouragement, suggesting tactics and passing them anything they need
Oh, like a sex coach?
Exactly. You can throw bottles of Lucozade into the mix and offer subs on/off if your club buddy seems to be tiring or misses the hole. Sorry, the GOAL.
I like the idea of a sex coach but what about a caddy to offer tips depending on the placement of the hole and the strength of the wind?"
And presumably they select the club? |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
You stand at the side, shouting encouragement, suggesting tactics and passing them anything they need
Oh, like a sex coach?
Exactly. You can throw bottles of Lucozade into the mix and offer subs on/off if your club buddy seems to be tiring or misses the hole. Sorry, the GOAL.
I like the idea of a sex coach but what about a caddy to offer tips depending on the placement of the hole and the strength of the wind?
And presumably they select the club?"
Touché |
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"This has been highly successful for me Brucie!
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Been shit for me, standard
And there’s your difference of Fab experience between single female and single male "
Genuinely haha! |
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"I don't mind being a club buddy for someone (F, TV, M) who wants to attend abfabs, I'm going in the 19th , but it would be a case of being a buddy who meet up there, chat and help relieve their nerves, don't want a buddy I attend with as a pair. "
All any newbie would hope for, is a friendly regular, or attentive host, to help them feel welcome.
Sadly lacking in pretty much every club I’ve visited, but maybe I’ll buddy up with Brucey down South  |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J"
This is what I wonder when thinking about going to a club with someone. |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
This is what I wonder when thinking about going to a club with someone."
You're over thinking this. You'll be the one who pulls.
I'm looking for a buddy for VA, penthouse, hellfire club, maybe abfabs. Anyone interested in joining me at some point? |
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By *nnCeeWoman 10 weeks ago
East of Eden, West of Hell |
"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
This is what I wonder when thinking about going to a club with someone."
Watch and wank?  |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J"
Hey Julie, I’m with you on the overthinking bit. That’s why I suppose a group of buddies going to the same event would make more sense? In case one pulls there’s always someone else who is going too and over time things will evolve organically? I know I’d like that, in ideal world. |
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"So not having been a club buddy... my brain is obviously overthinking things. What happens when your buddy pulls? I suppose I could bring a book to read
J
Hey Julie, I’m with you on the overthinking bit. That’s why I suppose a group of buddies going to the same event would make more sense? In case one pulls there’s always someone else who is going too and over time things will evolve organically? I know I’d like that, in ideal world."
That's a great idea, why has no one thought of that? Dee, you're a genius. I'd be interested if the group is going somewhere in the London area. |
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" Hey Brucey, and others, hope you don’t mind me setting up a specific London and surrounding areas group to narrow down the searches a bit? It would probably make sense, what do you think? "
I meant separate forum thread but my mind thinks ahead of me because I was thinking of telegram group as well but that’s probably far too fetched. |
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" Hey Brucey, and others, hope you don’t mind me setting up a specific London and surrounding areas group to narrow down the searches a bit? It would probably make sense, what do you think?
I meant separate forum thread but my mind thinks ahead of me because I was thinking of telegram group as well but that’s probably far too fetched. "
A telegram group sounds great, that way you can just say I'm going to abfab on a specific date anyone interested in joining. I think that'd be a great way to get interested parties. No? |
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" Hey Brucey, and others, hope you don’t mind me setting up a specific London and surrounding areas group to narrow down the searches a bit? It would probably make sense, what do you think?
I meant separate forum thread but my mind thinks ahead of me because I was thinking of telegram group as well but that’s probably far too fetched. "
Do whatever just invite me as London based again! |
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By *elloWoman 10 weeks ago
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" Hey Brucey, and others, hope you don’t mind me setting up a specific London and surrounding areas group to narrow down the searches a bit? It would probably make sense, what do you think?
I meant separate forum thread but my mind thinks ahead of me because I was thinking of telegram group as well but that’s probably far too fetched. "
. Sounds good, I've never used telegram though |
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" Hey Brucey, and others, hope you don’t mind me setting up a specific London and surrounding areas group to narrow down the searches a bit? It would probably make sense, what do you think?
I meant separate forum thread but my mind thinks ahead of me because I was thinking of telegram group as well but that’s probably far too fetched.
. Sounds good, I've never used telegram though "
It's just like WhatsApp, but more anonymous, if that helps. |
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"Very likely looking to attend a club on Saturday 20th July (London and close surroundings) if anyone is interested in buddying up."
I'd be interested, which club were you thinking of going to? Probably need to think about clubs where you don't need to be a member.
Any other takers? |
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Im defo in! Pretty much anywhere around North West clubs,some ive been to,others to explore and experience,maybe with someone on my arm to show me more mainstream events,not just typecast events for TGirls and admirers. |
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Hi all Pleasures is our local, we are also members at chams Darleston. Hoping to visit Jaydees when it’s back open again. If a group is set up would be great to be part of it always nice to arrange to meet people there and have a chat |
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Thank you OP and Dee for this thread
This is definitely something I'd be interested
Have been all over the country visiting numerous clubs on my previous profile, but tend to stay more localish nowadays Kestrels, VA, Jaydees (when it opens up again) and Eurekas if I can.
Telegram group sounds like a good idea
Heading to Kestrels tomorrow if anyone else fancies going? |
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"Thank you OP and Dee for this thread
This is definitely something I'd be interested
Have been all over the country visiting numerous clubs on my previous profile, but tend to stay more localish nowadays Kestrels, VA, Jaydees (when it opens up again) and Eurekas if I can.
Telegram group sounds like a good idea
Heading to Kestrels tomorrow if anyone else fancies going? "
Thank you and you’re most welcome
If anyone tech savvy could create a telegram group I’d happily join as well and I hope this works for all the connections! |
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"Thank you OP and Dee for this thread
This is definitely something I'd be interested
Have been all over the country visiting numerous clubs on my previous profile, but tend to stay more localish nowadays Kestrels, VA, Jaydees (when it opens up again) and Eurekas if I can.
Telegram group sounds like a good idea
Heading to Kestrels tomorrow if anyone else fancies going?
Thank you and you’re most welcome
If anyone tech savvy could create a telegram group I’d happily join as well and I hope this works for all the connections! "
So I have just created a telegram group, if you want to join, install telegram and DM your user id. |
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I have not been to a club in ages got made redundant and after trying a few jobs have finally settled into a new one I intend staying so clubs had been put on the shelf.
I work every weekend now so getting to clubs is going to be limited
When I do venture out be nice to meet up with preferably a female as I find male club buddies tend to expect fun involved.
My main club I go to is pandoras but have been to quest cupids and few others I can't remember names lol but wanting to try more when I get my mojo back,be nice not to have to go alone. |
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"I have not been to a club in ages got made redundant and after trying a few jobs have finally settled into a new one I intend staying so clubs had been put on the shelf.
I work every weekend now so getting to clubs is going to be limited
When I do venture out be nice to meet up with preferably a female as I find male club buddies tend to expect fun involved.
My main club I go to is pandoras but have been to quest cupids and few others I can't remember names lol but wanting to try more when I get my mojo back,be nice not to have to go alone. "
Well this is meant to be a group of friends, going to clubs together. It is not an agreement to get a leg over. Hopefully there will be multiple people, so you won't have any issue. If anyone wants to join, install the telegram app and message me your telegram id, probably makes sense to have a similar one to your fab id. |
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"I have not been to a club in ages got made redundant and after trying a few jobs have finally settled into a new one I intend staying so clubs had been put on the shelf.
I work every weekend now so getting to clubs is going to be limited
When I do venture out be nice to meet up with preferably a female as I find male club buddies tend to expect fun involved.
My main club I go to is pandoras but have been to quest cupids and few others I can't remember names lol but wanting to try more when I get my mojo back,be nice not to have to go alone. "
Hello! |
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By *os19Man 9 weeks ago
Edmonton |
I am based in North London and I am a member of OP4F in North London and I go to Rios in North West London.Happy enough to buddy up with any ladies if they feel I am suitable and don’t mind a older guy ( 56 years old) but can’t do drop of a hat / spontaneous meets. |
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Well this is meant to be a group of friends, going to clubs together. It is not an agreement to get a leg over. Hopefully there will be multiple people, so you won't have any issue. If anyone wants to join, install the telegram app and message me your telegram id, probably makes sense to have a similar one to your fab id. "
Club buddies is a great idea. I was thinking of Swindon Swingers(no membership needed). Can't send DM with telegram Id. You seem to have single guys blocked! @_ike112ox4
Can you add me to the group.
Thanks. |
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Myself and a bunch of friends will be heading to hellfire (Sunbury - london ish area) on the 16th August.
Anyone who wishes to attend, drop me a message. Single Fellas in the group are happy to pay for entry, no expectations.
If you have ever wondered what this club is about or wish to go to a club. Drop me a message |
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"I have not been to a club in ages got made redundant and after trying a few jobs have finally settled into a new one I intend staying so clubs had been put on the shelf.
I work every weekend now so getting to clubs is going to be limited
When I do venture out be nice to meet up with preferably a female as I find male club buddies tend to expect fun involved.
My main club I go to is pandoras but have been to quest cupids and few others I can't remember names lol but wanting to try more when I get my mojo back,be nice not to have to go alone.
Hello!"
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"Hey all!
As delicious came up with this genius plan, say in here if you're up for meeting people to go to a club with and where you are based.
I'm down to go to a club with whoever in Manchester for now, but London generally too!"
Definitely up for making friends and having LOTS of fun. Been to Hellfire a couple of times, but as a single guy, it's a deflating experience to say the least.
Happy for couples to reach out to start a line of communication and see where it goes.
I'm based in Bracknell, so clubs in Greater London or the South are ideal. Open to suggestions. |
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"What are everyone’s plans for today/tonight?
Hopefully going to VA tonight, but not sure if it will be too hot"
Thankfully it’s not as hot as last night so I’m sure you’ll have a great time if you go. |
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By *ysizeMan 9 weeks ago
Nottingham |
Will be trying out the new Attic sometime soon if anyone wants a club buddy for their first time?
Definitely club buddy/ buddies, to hang out with, not just someone for a fall back shag if we don't get lucky. |
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Bumping for another user in need of club friends!
Although I'm in too I guess. I like the independence of going by myself but I'm chatty in person. So, happy to share a gingerbeer (or a book!) at Central London events xx
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"Bumping for another user in need of club friends!
Although I'm in too I guess. I like the independence of going by myself but I'm chatty in person. So, happy to share a gingerbeer (or a book!) at Central London events xx
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Just sent you a message regarding this. |
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"We'd happily be a club buddy! We go to chams, Xtasia and now the attic but also looking to branch out to townhouse and penthouse xx
Hi guys i hope we could chat sometimeand as i would love to attend a club with you sometime"
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Usually visit the Attic in Derby day times for cinema days, would love to have a partner to join me ,Also thinking of going this Saturday for the Western theme night ,will be my first visit to a club night and would love to have some company... |
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Hey everyone. I'm looking for a club buddy to attend all manner of events with.
My previous wingwoman got into a relationship and I'm looking to find someone who wants to have a laugh and go to clubs all over the place. I'm based in the midlands but can travel.
Check out my veris. Socials first obviously but we could have alot of fun!
DM me or comment if you're interested and want to know more.
M x |
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