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Essex's lack of clubs... discuss
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Why is Essex so very poorly served for swingers clubs?
Other than Monkey Business in Wickford (which we've been to and enjoyed) we're not aware of another established venue in the county.
Which is remarkable considering it has a population of about two million.
Is it just NIMBYism, aggressive obstacles put up by local authorities, or something else?
We really like going to the VA when we can but we really do not enjoy the three-hour round trip to the midlands.
So fingers crossed a few more clubs will pop up soon and help us all put the sex back into Essex! |
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This is why we helped start the Ipswich and Suffolk Socials. It's not just Essex that has no clubs!
Being on the border we have a catchment across both counties and they have become very popular. We regularly get over 100 at the Ipswich social! The Suffolk Social will have its first event on the 6th July and the numbers are looking very similar.
It just shows how many people there are who enjoy the lifestyle in this part of East Anglia. |
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"Couldn't tell you why but it sounds like a good enough reason to never relocate to Essex 
We are spoilt for choice up here in the Midlands.... long may it continue   "
Your cup really does runneth over up there - you lucky fuckers!  |
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"This is why we helped start the Ipswich and Suffolk Socials. It's not just Essex that has no clubs!
Being on the border we have a catchment across both counties and they have become very popular. We regularly get over 100 at the Ipswich social! The Suffolk Social will have its first event on the 6th July and the numbers are looking very similar.
It just shows how many people there are who enjoy the lifestyle in this part of East Anglia. "
We like the sound of those socials (if not the trek up the A12!). Where can we find more info, please? x |
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"This is why we helped start the Ipswich and Suffolk Socials. It's not just Essex that has no clubs!
Being on the border we have a catchment across both counties and they have become very popular. We regularly get over 100 at the Ipswich social! The Suffolk Social will have its first event on the 6th July and the numbers are looking very similar.
It just shows how many people there are who enjoy the lifestyle in this part of East Anglia.
We like the sound of those socials (if not the trek up the A12!). Where can we find more info, please? x"
There are two profiles for them.
Suffolk Socials is one, the first event is on the 6th July and is full for single men, there are still a few spaces left for couples and ladies.
The other is Ipswich Social which has been running for a while now and is always well supported. |
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"This is why we helped start the Ipswich and Suffolk Socials. It's not just Essex that has no clubs!
Being on the border we have a catchment across both counties and they have become very popular. We regularly get over 100 at the Ipswich social! The Suffolk Social will have its first event on the 6th July and the numbers are looking very similar.
It just shows how many people there are who enjoy the lifestyle in this part of East Anglia.
We like the sound of those socials (if not the trek up the A12!). Where can we find more info, please? x
There are two profiles for them.
Suffolk Socials is one, the first event is on the 6th July and is full for single men, there are still a few spaces left for couples and ladies.
The other is Ipswich Social which has been running for a while now and is always well supported. "
Thank you. We have just added both of those profiles to our Hotlist and will keep an eye out. Happy to buy you a thank-you drink if we ever see you there! |
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Be lovely if there was a club in Essex and in Cambridgeshire. When work takes me oooop north, I sometimes attend Quest in Hunslet; crackerjack club with great staff, facilities and a splendid ambience.
Natt x |
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By *os19Man 25 weeks ago
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Many years ago there was a club in Colchester I think it was called Mingles.Now Essex has Monkey Business in Wickford and if all else fails now we have some good weather there is a nudist beach in St Osyth where I believe there can be adult fun to be had. |
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We are new to the scene and also find the lack of essex clubs annoying. Ww go to op4f as it's not too bad in an uber but if we go further afield it means a hotel and a drive as we both need a little dutch courage.this lifestyle is expensive! We went to the Monkey Business weekender which was great but still spent nearly £300 with food, drink and accommodation. A local club somewhere like Brentwood or Chelmsford would be epic |
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"Couldn't tell you why but it sounds like a good enough reason to never relocate to Essex
We are spoilt for choice up here in the Midlands.... long may it continue "
Interesting- so many people at chameleons from all over |
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"Be lovely if there was a club in Essex and in Cambridgeshire. When work takes me oooop north, I sometimes attend Quest in Hunslet; crackerjack club with great staff, facilities and a splendid ambience.
Natt x"
jaydees on beds camb border is a great club |
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Brentwood couple here and yes annoying that we have a lack of clubs being as all quiet country places hidden away, there would be loads of suitable places!!
Eureka is just the other side of Dartford crossing and pretty close only about 20 miles away, never tried monkeys but would like to!
We tend to use jaydees mostly as we have a motor home and can stay over night there! They also do accommodation |
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"I'd like to find a luxury house or apartment to rent for the weekend and host an epic essex party. Sadly I can't find what I'm looking for on air bnb. Any ideas? Boutique hotel takeover maybe?"
A friend did this and when the owner found out it went from a few hundred for the weekend to thousands as they thought they could make money off the organiser. |
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"I'd like to find a luxury house or apartment to rent for the weekend and host an epic essex party. Sadly I can't find what I'm looking for on air bnb. Any ideas? Boutique hotel takeover maybe?
A friend did this and when the owner found out it went from a few hundred for the weekend to thousands as they thought they could make money off the organiser."
Legally you are on very thin ice holding parties this way, have you got insurance in place for any damages etc etc! There is also licence issues if you're charging to cover the costs!  |
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"I'd like to find a luxury house or apartment to rent for the weekend and host an epic essex party. Sadly I can't find what I'm looking for on air bnb. Any ideas? Boutique hotel takeover maybe?"
bear us in mind if you do please I’ve sent freind request
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Two or three years ago, we got invited to look at premises by a small consortium that were looking to open a club in Pitsea.
I couldn't go but Frisky went with a friend.
They showed her plans for the layout and she made a few suggestions.
Anyway it all went quiet and then a while back I drove past the premises, it's now a dog fertility clinic... |
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"Ah thanks but you've got no face pics on your profile and you won't send them either. Sadly that's a red flag for us"
we’re just cautious happy to send face pics in private just not on profile no red flags
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