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Which club do we visit first
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We've decided to perhaps visit a club as a couple.
Prefer away from SW where we are from.
Any suggestions and advice please?
M is a BBW I am an average body.
Both played solo before but want to try other things and watch what others get up to and join in if feel it's right.
M has mentioned being blindfolded in a club experience being a turn on.
Love to hear stories and reasured we can ease into things. |
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Well being as you're in Plymouth your best options are over near Torquay. I can vouch for Within Temptations being a very welcoming and well equipped venue. Been a couple of times and always had fun |
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Kestrels in Heathrow is very relaxed (but still fairly busy) on a Sunday afternoon, else AbFabs in the same venue has a good crowd on Saturday nights. We adore VA, but it’s open play only which might not be great for a first club visit (on the other hand, it might be perfect!) x |
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Definitely recommend Hellfire or Xstasia not too far from SW (easy transport links at least).
Both have grope boxes and glory holes which may be interesting option instead of blindfold, you can monitor from outside too. |
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May sound a bit silly but what's "grope box" ?
We are going to have a very long open chat as to where we are thinking of going and exactly what we would definitely like to do or not do.
But I've a feeling once in the right situation who knows lol.
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What sort of ratio are the clubs?
Just imagine walking in and it's all guys we would feel a bit under pressure?
Rather not be the focus and "feel our feet" look about then see what's we each fancy being a part off is our expectation, probably little questions all new couples have going to a club for the first time have.
Messaging M, today as we work, she sounds more relaxed on trying this than me and it's always been more my suggestion, interesting,  |
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A grope box is what you probably expect it to be - a box you stand in with holes for people to grope you. It might not be for everyone, but we find them fun!
Sounds like you’d prefer a couples night, rather than somewhere that admits single guys. We left Hellfire after about an hour last time we visited because there were single, grabby men everywhere. It wasn’t a positive experience, sadly. Shame, because we’ve had fun there in the past.
You might want to check out Bristol Gardens in Brighton which is a naturist spa with play areas. It’s a good ‘first’ venue because it’s not foremost a swinging venue. Nice place, great fact, friendly crowd x |
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Thank you again for your info, ultimately I will probably let M make the final decision, I work away alot so home at weekends.
I can see us having great fun reading through all these places.
M won't go on Fab these days because of a few idiots and a fear of recognition.
So both of us have stuck to playing with a fwb or two each, hence my surprise a little when M decided she wants to dip a toe in the clubs, I can see the first place we go being importan. |
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Most clubs and the clientele are open to all body shapes, very few of the attendees conform to one shape or another. That variety makes clubs fun.
As others have said look for the couple only nights (normally Saturdays in the clubs that offer them) if you are worried about too many single guys, although most clubs do try and control the numbers and I think it is only clubs in Blackpool (from information I have read on websites etc) that have no limitations on single guys.
Our personal preference is for a few single guys as they tend to create an appreciative audience and the exhibitionist nature of the lifestyle is what gives us our kicks rather than swinging. |
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That's great info cheers,
A Saturday suits us better anyway with our work commitments.
We have a more Stag n Vixen type relationship, and have done for a good while, but new experiences,places I think all a little unsure of our selves at first.
Good to hear there's normally a good mix of body types in that respect.
Need to change the apprehension into horny excitement and just relax into it. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 52 weeks ago
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"That's great info cheers,
A Saturday suits us better anyway with our work commitments.
We have a more Stag n Vixen type relationship, and have done for a good while, but new experiences,places I think all a little unsure of our selves at first.
Good to hear there's normally a good mix of body types in that respect.
Need to change the apprehension into horny excitement and just relax into it. "
Xtasia is couples and single gke women only on a Saturday and has theme nights and accommodation on site. Check the website for the calendar of events.
It's a good club starting point for many as it's not a compulsory dress down club.  |
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"Birmingham is fairly ease travelling, would we be better picking a BBW type theme/event? As M is a BBW and probably more at ease with a good mix of people."
There is definitely no reason to just go for bbw events. You all find all types of body type at clubs. Bbw is a great event tho as you are surrounded by lots of beautiful fuller figure ladies. |
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