Generally, all is good  . Many clubs have events that are more exclusive, largely catering to bi people, so all action is very much more likely. Some places are stronger on vetting people, so that straight single men, for example, don't get what they think is a free ticket to see lots of woman on woman action, whilst possibly making curious guys feel inhibited, with them being around.
But, you asked if same gender action is fine at clubs generally. It will be for most and for most people, in my opinion. There are always going to be some people who are perhaps homophobic etc but they aren't going to hold much sway, if things are within club rules and sex isn't in the wrong spots, such as behind the bar
If in doubt, I'd find a club that is very vocal about its inclusiveness policy, including also having events for same gender etc sex. |
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There was a club, probably over 10 years ago, that was explicitly against any same gender sex ever occurring. I can't recall the name of it but I'd never visit such a place, as I'd find it abhorrent |
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FF - yes, and encouraged/sought after
MM - sadly usually limited to bi events or private rooms. Not because it's discouraged by clubs, but because club goers don't like to see it and either comment loudly or even complain to management. |
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Depends on the club.
Our local club Shhh in Newcastle is fine for bi play. They very often have bi porn on, TVs attend any night and I've never seen them judged.
That said, plenty of couples won't play with bi guys for a variety of reasons.
I'm openly bi in the club and despite it not been to everyone's taste I've never had any issues at all.
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I think in general bi male play openly is becoming more widely accepted just over the few years we've been on the scene. It's so sad that we still talk in terms of becoming accepted in this scene of all scenes. However we've still seen some people who react quite negatively when they bi male activity, even with overt disgust. I don't think (and hope) that no club would stop you, however I can imagine that is not a nice or safe feeling environment.
I think it terms of general club nights clubs very in terms of their hospitality and openness to bi or gay male activity (clubs have always been bi/gay female activity freindly). Some clubs are very proactive in openly supporting same sex free environments and some others no so much (we've seenmany different clubsover the years). So first it depends on the club. Because bi men will generally only play (and/or out themselves as bi) in a very safe bi environment you need to find the right space. Thus generally your best bet would always be a specific bi night or a club with a very good reputation for always being Bi guy freindly every night. |
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