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I have been to 7 now and can say that ALL of then have been completely different. From the set up, style, party goers, atmosphere.
I'd say have a think about what sort of environment would suit you and then look for that type of club. |
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"I have been to 7 now and can say that ALL of then have been completely different. From the set up, style, party goers, atmosphere.
I'd say have a think about what sort of environment would suit you and then look for that type of club. "
I'd like to know more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"I have been to 7 now and can say that ALL of then have been completely different. From the set up, style, party goers, atmosphere.
I'd say have a think about what sort of environment would suit you and then look for that type of club.
I'd like to know more"
Me too .. how could I guage the club without visiting?
Look at the website? |
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"I have been to 7 now and can say that ALL of then have been completely different. From the set up, style, party goers, atmosphere.
I'd say have a think about what sort of environment would suit you and then look for that type of club. "
This 100% agree. I have tried a few myself and I found my favourite the one I go to regularly.
I feel comfortable, safe and included. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"I have been to 7 now and can say that ALL of then have been completely different. From the set up, style, party goers, atmosphere.
I'd say have a think about what sort of environment would suit you and then look for that type of club.
This 100% agree. I have tried a few myself and I found my favourite the one I go to regularly.
I feel comfortable, safe and included. "
Wow.. nice.
I got cold shouldered being a single guy.
Think it's because they thought me being sociable they thought I was going to jump on them.
The male half of a couple I know scouted a club out, doing s reconisance ..
He got cold shouldered too, until he took his wife and they were all chatty to them.
His wife asked them why they cold shouldered her husband. |
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All diffrent that we have been to but all nice, the club reviews are ok but they are peoples opinions so only realy relevent to the author.
All you can do is try clubs. If you like them then go back , if not then dont x |
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Absolutely. I'd even go as far as saying the same club is massively different depending on the night and crowd. Even the same themed night can be totally different depending on who turns up.
I'd say you need to go 4/5 times to get a real feel. |
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By *yphodMan 52 weeks ago
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There are a few things to consider.
The Venue itself. Are you looking for a spa based club, do you mind rough and ready or a more high class venue. I prefer a spa based club as I find it easier to start up a conversation when naked in a hot tub.
Then the night itself.
Most will have couples only nights.
Then you have a general party nights and then things like gangbangs, etc.
I've been to gangbangs and didn't actually enjoy myself, I prefer something a little more intimate but for that you have to work a lot harder.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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Thanks for the replies..
Not nocking their attitude towards me. If they don't want to socialise with me then fair enough.. I left after about 2 hours 30 mins .. didn't want to stick around if not welcome |
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There are cliques in some clubs and weirdness. Also not keen on some clubs as you get single women who follow you round and crowd round me when I am playing like it's a personal show for them. Often touching and trying to get involved |
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Ahh don't forget the cliques!
That is those people who regularly attend a club and know other people there or have pre-arranged to meet others specifically; that can always have the affect of making you feel unloved and unwanted.  |
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Every club we have been to has a different vibe/atmosphere.
Personally the one we enjoyed least was a couples only night, the club itself was gorgeous but found it really difficult to chat to anyone else.
We have most conversations in the smoking/vaping areas. Then around the bar area.
In terms of striking up conversation sometimes it’s better just to let it all happen naturally. Don’t flit round the room with eyes on stalks looking for the next opportunity to chat. Be like you would at any pub/bar/club. Chat to someone while you are waiting at the bar, just a friendly “are you having a good night?”
Most importantly don’t go piling in with compliments, sure fire way for us to feel uncomfortable and for us to feel like because we are in a club we are easy.
Recently at Club F we toured with one other couple and two single girls, none had been to a club before, we made sure to speak to them later see how their evening was going etc.
Every club we have been to has one thing in common, lovely social vibe.
If you go to a club expecting to get lucky it will nearly always end in disappointment, go with the view to having a good time amongst likeminded liberated people. |
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