Be social, approach people and chat to them, don’t have any expectation of playing. If it does happen then great. It is very intimidating but put your big boy pants on. At the end of the day the worst anyone will say is that you aren’t for them. Take it on the chin and move on. Most people in the clubs are happy to chat even if you aren’t their type.
Explain it’s your first time and are nervous. Often people will introduce you to others.
Don’t be one of the wanking dead. Lol |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Some clubs need new members to fill in a membership application before they join. It's not universal, and even the clubs that do it will probably have some events that non-members can attend.
So, step one is to visit the web site of the club you're wanting to go to, read everything, and see what they need you to do. Make sure you're in line with their rules - dress code, whatever ID you need, etc.
Also, choose the right night. It is common to have a variety of different events, catering to different people, across the calendar. Don't try turning up to the women-only night if you're a single man.
Basically, do your homework.
When you're in the club, get a tour, and pay attention. Many clubs will have various restrictions in some areas. There might be a couples-only room even on singles nights. You might be required to dress down to enter play rooms. Every club does things differently.
Be friendly and sociable and don't be pushy. Confidence is sexy; arrogance and entitlement are not. Ask before touching. Generally, don't be a dick. Whatever you might have seen in porn, reality is different. |
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