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I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious"
How people manage their sexual health only becomes my business if they intend to involve me.
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious"
Why is it worse that none of the women seemed to be bothered? Odd thing to say |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
Why is it worse that none of the women seemed to be bothered? Odd thing to say "
Please do not focus only to the last part of my post. Women can get pregnant on top of disease. I hope you are aware of that. Hence my quote |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
Why is it worse that none of the women seemed to be bothered? Odd thing to say
Please do not focus only to the last part of my post. Women can get pregnant on top of disease. I hope you are aware of that. Hence my quote"
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
Why is it worse that none of the women seemed to be bothered? Odd thing to say
Please do not focus only to the last part of my post. Women can get pregnant on top of disease. I hope you are aware of that. Hence my quote"
Well yes, as someone with a uterus I am aware of pregnancy aswell as STIs. I just thought it was an odd part of your entire post.
However, I assume you're aware alot of people who opt for group/orgy rooms have also all spoken in group chats etc. Usually those who are looking for BB play have all agreed prior. That's pretty standard behaviour. We went out Saturday to Xtasia, the group room was very busy, a mix of condom users and BB, there is always a Telegram group chat and many making their own group chats elsewhere too to organise who they are playing with.
Everyone knows the risks, condoms aren't 100%. It's up to those individuals to make their own minds up on what they are comfortable with and not really anyone else's business. |
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"Is this the same group you commented on yesterday OP? "
I'm assuming a different one as the first one he posted about was about 10-12 people and this one is about around 20 people.
OP has had a very busy weekend! |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
Why is it worse that none of the women seemed to be bothered? Odd thing to say
Please do not focus only to the last part of my post. Women can get pregnant on top of disease. I hope you are aware of that. Hence my quote"
The way I look at it. You saw first hand they aren't the type you would like to play with.
Don't focus on what they did between themselves in what I'm assuming was a fully consensual setting.
The women in question may have been on contraception and as you didn't imprégnant them. Any pregnancy wouldn't be your responsibility. |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
Why is it worse that none of the women seemed to be bothered? Odd thing to say
Please do not focus only to the last part of my post. Women can get pregnant on top of disease. I hope you are aware of that. Hence my quote
The way I look at it. You saw first hand they aren't the type you would like to play with.
Don't focus on what they did between themselves in what I'm assuming was a fully consensual setting.
The women in question may have been on contraception and as you didn't imprégnant them. Any pregnancy wouldn't be your responsibility. "
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"Is this the same group you commented on yesterday OP?
I'm assuming a different one as the first one he posted about was about 10-12 people and this one is about around 20 people.
OP has had a very busy weekend! "
It was 20 ish. Yes it was a busy weekend |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
Why is it worse that none of the women seemed to be bothered? Odd thing to say
Please do not focus only to the last part of my post. Women can get pregnant on top of disease. I hope you are aware of that. Hence my quote
We're you invited to join in?"
We're is different than were so i assume you meant the latter. Yes i was there but i didn't feel like going in for the reasons i explained. I would have contradicted myself. Don't you think? |
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As many have said condoms aren’t 100% I’d just like to say that a reduced risk is better than no reduction.
While I’d like to think that all my partners try and reduce their risks, I can’t be certain. So I regularly test and practice safer sex. Tests also aren’t 100% but nothing in life is. We just need to reduce the risk factors where we can and be adult about it.
If the people playing on the bed test regularly and are aware of what they’re potentially exposing themselves to, it’s none of your concern. |
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"Thank you all for your contribution with this matter. It was a rant
What’s the point in that? "
I guess he's not happy about what consenting adults do when he's not involved? Strange isn't it, what some people opt to rant about |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
Why is it worse that none of the women seemed to be bothered? Odd thing to say
Please do not focus only to the last part of my post. Women can get pregnant on top of disease. I hope you are aware of that. Hence my quote
We're you invited to join in?
We're is different than were so i assume you meant the latter. Yes i was there but i didn't feel like going in for the reasons i explained. I would have contradicted myself. Don't you think?"
If you weren't invited to join in, what they were doing didn't impact on you. Presumably no-one in the group tried to coerce you.
I'm not seeing a problem here. |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
Why is it worse that none of the women seemed to be bothered? Odd thing to say
Please do not focus only to the last part of my post. Women can get pregnant on top of disease. I hope you are aware of that. Hence my quote
We're you invited to join in?
We're is different than were so i assume you meant the latter. Yes i was there but i didn't feel like going in for the reasons i explained. I would have contradicted myself. Don't you think?
If you weren't invited to join in, what they were doing didn't impact on you. Presumably no-one in the group tried to coerce you.
I'm not seeing a problem here."
I feel he wanted people to agree with him and condemn the actions of those he is referring to.
I love a good rant but I'm also not seeing how their actions directly impacted on you and your safety. |
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"Is this the same group you commented on yesterday OP?
Yes it was but i lost track of it and i thought it was deleted"
If you click the green arrow next to your name it will take you to the last 35 threads you contributed to |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
How people manage their sexual health only becomes my business if they intend to involve me.
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You know how diseases spread right - through multiplication via contact between other people.
The more people that are spreading it amongst the population increases the chances of you getting something in the future. So I’d care about what others do. Also just for their own sake, they should be careful. |
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And most often it's the same people sanitizing their hands constantly with chemicals and wearing masks on their faces to avoid the common cold and would kill, if they could; anyone who didn't.
If you sleep with one of them - you've slept with them all.  |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
How people manage their sexual health only becomes my business if they intend to involve me.
You know how diseases spread right - through multiplication via contact between other people.
The more people that are spreading it amongst the population increases the chances of you getting something in the future. So I’d care about what others do. Also just for their own sake, they should be careful."
How does me looking after my own sexual health mean I'll contract an STI in the future?
As I said: "How people manage their sexual health only becomes my business if they intend to involve me"
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"And most often it's the same people sanitizing their hands constantly with chemicals and wearing masks on their faces to avoid the common cold and would kill, if they could; anyone who didn't.
If you sleep with one of them - you've slept with them all. "
Oh cool - in that case I've slept with far more people than I thought I had. |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
Why is it worse that none of the women seemed to be bothered? Odd thing to say
Please do not focus only to the last part of my post. Women can get pregnant on top of disease. I hope you are aware of that. Hence my quote"
Oh women can get pregnant as well as catching stds? Well that's ground breaking breaking news 
Imagine if someone invented contraception other than a condom... |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious"
You stayed to watch though huh  |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
You stayed to watch though huh "
Hey, he counted the exact number of penises that were unwrapped. And calculated the average numbers of women using the implant, IUDs, the pill etc to work out how many will be potentially buying the morning after pill on Sunday  |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
You stayed to watch though huh
Hey, he counted the exact number of penises that were unwrapped. And calculated the average numbers of women using the implant, IUDs, the pill etc to work out how many will be potentially buying the morning after pill on Sunday "
Were you there? |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
You stayed to watch though huh "
Yes because it was my first time to witness an orgy and i was naturally curious. Is there something wrong with it? Tell me |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
You stayed to watch though huh
Hey, he counted the exact number of penises that were unwrapped. And calculated the average numbers of women using the implant, IUDs, the pill etc to work out how many will be potentially buying the morning after pill on Sunday
Were you there?"
You haven't said we're you were past "famous club" so chances are, most people will default to no or I don't know if they were out over the weekend. I've stated were I was though |
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I wrote this post with the intent of talking about something serious which can concern ALL of us but i can see that instead of interacting in a constructive way only few of you which i thank, most of you have decided to make fun of me. This shows the kind of respect you give to other members. |
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"I wrote this post with the intent of talking about something serious which can concern ALL of us but i can see that instead of interacting in a constructive way only few of you which i thank, most of you have decided to make fun of me. This shows the kind of respect you give to other members. "
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"I wrote this post with the intent of talking about something serious which can concern ALL of us but i can see that instead of interacting in a constructive way only few of you which i thank, most of you have decided to make fun of me. This shows the kind of respect you give to other members. "
Along as each as you are looking after your own fertility and sexual health, what others do isn't a concern to you or anyone else. We all have our own bodies to look after, some people also have their partners.
You have options such as vasectomy, condoms, dental dams, refraining from group play etc. Others will choose methods that work for them. |
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"I wrote this post with the intent of talking about something serious which can concern ALL of us but i can see that instead of interacting in a constructive way only few of you which i thank, most of you have decided to make fun of me. This shows the kind of respect you give to other members. "
Your condescending tone may have got in the way of a constructive conversation. |
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"I wrote this post with the intent of talking about something serious which can concern ALL of us but i can see that instead of interacting in a constructive way only few of you which i thank, most of you have decided to make fun of me. This shows the kind of respect you give to other members. "
I'm very wary of bb as I've got compro.ised health issues. I do understand where op is coming from and it is an open forum where you can express your personal views after all?? |
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"I wrote this post with the intent of talking about something serious which can concern ALL of us but i can see that instead of interacting in a constructive way only few of you which i thank, most of you have decided to make fun of me. This shows the kind of respect you give to other members.
Your condescending tone may have got in the way of a constructive conversation."
I would rather focus on the content of the thread rather than how it is written especially when written by a non British native like me who might struggle when writing in English |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious"
I am very safe but damn that sounds fantastic. I would struggle in the face, on the face, of that kind of display of wantonness. |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
I am very safe but damn that sounds fantastic. I would struggle in the face, on the face, of that kind of display of wantonness. "
Damn you. Thinking about 20 writhing bodies. Cocks and holes everywhere. Stop it. That cannot be safe.
By the way, I have got new kitten. |
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What's odd is the fact you feel like you have to create a post about other people's business. Maybe they all got tested and had negative results and so they carried on with the orgy maybe none of them cared or gave a thought about STDs or maybe just maybe it's none of my business and I'll stay out of it |
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"I think most people are concerned about STD only in theory. What happened last sayurday in the naked room of a,famous club was a disgrace i think. Roughly 20 people doing an orgy and NO ONE using a condom!!! And what worse was that none of the Women seemed to be bothered by that. A potential and very dangerous situation who could easily escalate into something serious
Why is it worse that none of the women seemed to be bothered? Odd thing to say
Please do not focus only to the last part of my post. Women can get pregnant on top of disease. I hope you are aware of that. Hence my quote"
Huh women can get pregnant from sex how have I not heard this |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"As many have said condoms aren’t 100% I’d just like to say that a reduced risk is better than no reduction.
While I’d like to think that all my partners try and reduce their risks, I can’t be certain. So I regularly test and practice safer sex. Tests also aren’t 100% but nothing in life is. We just need to reduce the risk factors where we can and be adult about it.
If the people playing on the bed test regularly and are aware of what they’re potentially exposing themselves to, it’s none of your concern. "
Totally, and it's nothing for those to cry about later, one of those I told you so or should've known better. Life is full of risks but are they worth the Gamble |
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Whether it's 20 x 2 or a large group of 40 or more, having consensual bareback, is ultimately for the individuals concerned to decide upon.
Just as the sexual health management aspect of our own life is for the rest of us to be responsible for. It's what you do that counts. Swingers are notoriously good at sexual health management, including testing and prophylactic treatment. We're in good company. If concerned, you don't have to have sex with anyone else. And you can continue with your management of your own preferences and sexual health matters. It's really simple. As for watching a large group of people, with such scrutiny that you'd know the very precise details of how each individual interacted, I'm surprised that many weren't very uncomfortable, especially if they sensed any disapproval.
I'm uncertain whether clubs are the right arena, for someone who's not especially supportive of swingers' adult rights and freedoms. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I agree OP, it isn't something we would have done, however if other people wanted to then obviously that is their right
To anyone this applies to, can we have a constructive debate rather than continuing to attack the OP, he is allowed to write this just as much as people are allowed to play BB if they want to. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I just hope that each other do get tested and have been honest with each other even afterwards in case of any symptoms otherwise it's like going back to the 80s
Acute HIV infection can cause symptoms within 2–4 weeks of exposure. Not all people recognize or have symptoms of an acute HIV infection. The best way to determine whether a person has an HIV infection is through testing. People can also take PEP to prevent HIV infection within 72 hours of exposure. |
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"I wrote this post with the intent of talking about something serious which can concern ALL of us but i can see that instead of interacting in a constructive way only few of you which i thank, most of you have decided to make fun of me. This shows the kind of respect you give to other members.
Your condescending tone may have got in the way of a constructive conversation.
I would rather focus on the content of the thread rather than how it is written especially when written by a non British native like me who might struggle when writing in English "
Okay, so to bring it back round to your intial post why is it more shocking that the women were okay with it?... Why would pregnancy possibly come into it?... Or is it that you were just judging the women to a different standard to the men involved? |
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