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What's your preference- clubs or your own social meets?

By *awtyNymphCpl OP Couple over a year ago

Worthing

I guess my questions are, what do you prefer and why? Is a club easier for a shy couple or would you suggest meeting a small group in a local pub?

We're really keen to experience two or more extra guys but don't really know the best way to go about it.

The female half is really keen to experience a club scenario whereas the male half thinks doing or own thing would be easier.

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By *ink vixenCouple over a year ago

Medway

Privately arranged meets are good for meeting single guys but fab is full of nut jobs and no shows so filtering needs to be on point

We’d love to do a group thing too at an air bnb and get some video but it’s a nightmare to organise

The best group fun we’ve managed so far was in a club cinema and that’s worked well a couple of times.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I think meeting a group in a pub is harder. You have to make contact with suitable people, arrange a convenient time and location for you all. If you decide to take things further where do you go or do arrange a different time ?

In a club, on a single men night, there will be lots of suitable candidates. In a club you could approach men you fancy in tge bar and strike up a conversation. Or as you are a couple you could start playing together in a public room and lots of single men will approach you.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Big group socials with well run pre chats are mine and my wife’s favourite now!

Also specific, organised club nights! Especially if they’re queer friendly or focused!

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple over a year ago

Fylde Coast

For us clubs are far easier. No pressure and no expectations. We do what we want and whatever happens, happens. Private meets are good once we know people.

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By *etro1940sCouple over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

clubs for us ... no hassle, amenity, security, choice of play partners and the control of multiple scenes ... (pool, cinema, bedroom etc) x

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By *arried ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Newark

We’ve had a handful of great private/hotel meets but also a lot of time wasted, so it’s now clubs only for first meets for us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I guess my questions are, what do you prefer and why? Is a club easier for a shy couple or would you suggest meeting a small group in a local pub?

We're really keen to experience two or more extra guys but don't really know the best way to go about it.

The female half is really keen to experience a club scenario whereas the male half thinks doing or own thing would be easier."

Chat to a few verified gents close by and invite them round for a social. If you click have some fun. Clubs are good but you might not like many men trying it on.

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