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Ok it's finally happening our first time at any club.
Things that have stopped us last minute so far...
Covid
Long Covid
A cold
No baby sitter
yet another cold
Toothache
Long Covid round two
Baby sitter changes plans
Our son getting appendicitus
No Baby Sitter
Surprise family visit
Please cross your fingers for us. Husband is about to explode and i'm about to change my mind...
TOP Tips please - tell us your ways!
What time should we get there?
Do we bring lube?
Husband is T1 diabetic can he eat biscuits while i'm surrounded by cocks?
Can i just lay down somewhere and have lots of hands give me a nice relaxing massage?
Are there lockers?
Do we need money for lockers?
Can we buy water to drink?
WTF do we do if we bump into family members or neighbours?
How do we say our first hellos?
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"Ok it's finally happening our first time at any club.
Things that have stopped us last minute so far...
Covid
Long Covid
A cold
No baby sitter
yet another cold
Toothache
Long Covid round two
Baby sitter changes plans
Our son getting appendicitus
No Baby Sitter
Surprise family visit
Please cross your fingers for us. Husband is about to explode and i'm about to change my mind...
TOP Tips please - tell us your ways!
What time should we get there?
Do we bring lube?
Husband is T1 diabetic can he eat biscuits while i'm surrounded by cocks?
Can i just lay down somewhere and have lots of hands give me a nice relaxing massage?
Are there lockers?
Do we need money for lockers?
Can we buy water to drink?
WTF do we do if we bump into family members or neighbours?
How do we say our first hellos?
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You will have a great time!
To go down your list...
- Any time you like... although it starts to get busy after 9... then the usual chats and drinks to loosen folk up and lively from after 10
- sure... and a play bag if you want those extras too!
- he can munch while you munch/are munched
- you can. Not to say it will definitely happen, but plenty of spaces open and private where it can
- yes
- yes.. £10 deposit if I remember right
- yep... it is BYOB, but soft drinks, including water, available to buy
- say hello and move on! If you see them, they are 'there' too!
- hang around the social areas, catch people's eyes... mouth hello, wave, do a crazy dance... its up to you  folk there are very friendly and open to conversational approaches
Just go and have a giggle. You will like it!
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Thanks, that's helpful and reassuring
I think we'd had so many false starts we now really just want something to happen... weirdly were both being really relaxed about it... i bet the nerves will kick in as soon as we're through the door though ??
If nothing happens  are we best to just start some fun of our own with an open door and see what we can encourage? |
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"Thanks, that's helpful and reassuring
I think we'd had so many false starts we now really just want something to happen... weirdly were both being really relaxed about it... i bet the nerves will kick in as soon as we're through the door though ??
If nothing happens are we best to just start some fun of our own with an open door and see what we can encourage?"
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What time should we get there? - whatever suits you best, but as early as you can to fit in all the fun.
Do we bring lube? - you may do if you wish
Husband is T1 diabetic can he eat biscuits while i'm surrounded by cocks? - yes he may, but common sense to not leave a mes
Can i just lay down somewhere and have lots of hands give me a nice relaxing massage? - just tell people what it is you want, sure some will oblige
Are there lockers? - yes
Do we need money for lockers? -£5 deposit club is cash only
Can we buy water to drink? £1.50 per bottle
WTF do we do if we bump into family members or neighbours? - say hello, they will want their privacy as much as you want yours.
How do we say our first hellos? - exactly that "hello" |
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 True! We’re so nervous now but also so badly want something to happen while there.
We’ve had a few pms saying it may not be our kind of place. And also a close friend told us it may not be the right place for us but we’re committed to try |
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" True! We’re so nervous now but also so badly want something to happen while there.
We’ve had a few pms saying it may not be our kind of place. And also a close friend told us it may not be the right place for us but we’re committed to try"
its a great club..
Brilliant for newbies as you can stay dressed. Staff keep a very good eye on what's going on..and have to say I've never felt unsafe there, even when I've gone specifically for groups of guys.
They keep the ratios of guys to girls/ couples quite strict on fri/sat night.
Go with no expectations other than having a nice night out.
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Of course you can.... We love the sexy TVs that attend the club. Be bold just come and say hello. We don't bite................... Unless that's what you like Ha! x
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" True! We’re so nervous now but also so badly want something to happen while there.
We’ve had a few pms saying it may not be our kind of place. And also a close friend told us it may not be the right place for us but we’re committed to try"
Why would it not be the right place for you or not your kind of place? |
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" True! We’re so nervous now but also so badly want something to happen while there.
We’ve had a few pms saying it may not be our kind of place. And also a close friend told us it may not be the right place for us but we’re committed to try"
And I hope you visit and make your own mind up rather than listening to others. |
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Had a really great night!!!
In the car: “I guess we’ll just use the rooms and play alone”
10mins after the tour… in the glory hope sucking four cocks
And then we stayed for another 5hrs…
Thankyou everyone. If any of the men we met want to message reply below because we have DMs from men turned off x |
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"Had a really great night!!!
In the car: “I guess we’ll just use the rooms and play alone”
10mins after the tour… in the glory hope sucking four cocks
And then we stayed for another 5hrs…
Thankyou everyone. If any of the men we met want to message reply below because we have DMs from men turned off x"
I'm glad you went and made your own mind up.
Sounds like you had a good night. |
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"Did everyone that went on Friday have fun ? "
We were told it was a very quite night because of the party the following day. It was slow to start with. Though we were just happy to have the chance to have fun together so we dove straight in before having fun with others in the Gloryholes, then the cinema and also in a room. End of the night there were 5 couples in the Couples Room which was nice! |
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