Do you plan how many club visits you do? Or is it a spur of the moment decision?
With rising costs and the merciless charges against single guys does that affect your decisions? I try to do at least one a month. |
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Some people do more, some do less, some do spur of the moment, others have to plan well in advance.
As I don't drive (not to mention work during the day on weekdays), I can't just decide on the day I want to go to a club. Not many clubs are accessible by public transport, at least not in my area. I sometimes wish I lived in Birmingham or Blackpool... |
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Due to my location, it’s quite an effort to get to a club, and being a single, straight, white guy, my options for ‘events’ are limited, so I just look for an occasional visit as a ‘change of scenery’, usually when I’m away from home for the weekend.
The cost is the cost, I mourn the waste of my time more than my money, as you can always get more money…  |
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"Some people do more, some do less, some do spur of the moment, others have to plan well in advance.
As I don't drive (not to mention work during the day on weekdays), I can't just decide on the day I want to go to a club. Not many clubs are accessible by public transport, at least not in my area. I sometimes wish I lived in Birmingham or Blackpool..."
The goid thing about Bedford is ur close to two good clubs VA and Penthouse I have no idea how easy it is to get via Public transport though |
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"Some people do more, some do less, some do spur of the moment, others have to plan well in advance.
As I don't drive (not to mention work during the day on weekdays), I can't just decide on the day I want to go to a club. Not many clubs are accessible by public transport, at least not in my area. I sometimes wish I lived in Birmingham or Blackpool..."
Blackpools great though and something for everyone and a great place to spend a weekend away and I’m lucky that I’ve got it on my doorstep, you should come up 1 weekend and experience it xx |
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"Some people do more, some do less, some do spur of the moment, others have to plan well in advance.
As I don't drive (not to mention work during the day on weekdays), I can't just decide on the day I want to go to a club. Not many clubs are accessible by public transport, at least not in my area. I sometimes wish I lived in Birmingham or Blackpool...
The goid thing about Bedford is ur close to two good clubs VA and Penthouse I have no idea how easy it is to get via Public transport though"
VA- not possible. Penthouse- potentially, but not at 2am.
There is also Jaydees nearby, my favourite club, but it's not accessible by public transport. |
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"Some people do more, some do less, some do spur of the moment, others have to plan well in advance.
As I don't drive (not to mention work during the day on weekdays), I can't just decide on the day I want to go to a club. Not many clubs are accessible by public transport, at least not in my area. I sometimes wish I lived in Birmingham or Blackpool...
Blackpools great though and something for everyone and a great place to spend a weekend away and I’m lucky that I’ve got it on my doorstep, you should come up 1 weekend and experience it xx"
I am hoping to, one day soon. Had a weekend at Blackpool planned last year, accommodation booked and everything, and then my partner's job changed  . So we had to cancel, but we will definitely visit one day, hopefully very soon. Heard way too many good things about Club Play not to try it. |
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Bit of both really. Just to add context pretty much all our swinging is in clubs. With work and family free time for the lifestyle is difficult. So generally it's either a space we know is free booked long in advance (with relevant child care sorted) or completely spur of the moment as a bonus free slot has appeared very short notice. But then one of the beautiful things about clubs is you dont need to plan or arrange anything with others, just turn up. There has been times when one of us is free and the other isn't so one of us has gone alone. Although nice it's just not the same so we find we generally only go to clubs together these days. Going alone doesn't hold the same appeal.
Just wish there was more options daytimes in the week. |
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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
We have only visited Jayden far, we tend to plan in advance when we’re going and like the sound of a theme night. We also do go on a last minute whim but one of us will drive there and back.
We find even with the cost of staying over, outfits and drink (bring your own so it’s as cheap or expensive as you want!) it’s far cheaper than going out locally and we love a drama free night! |
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