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over a year ago
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I've been several times as a single male and also as part of a couple. It's a relaxed friendly place where singles males are limited in numbers but certainly not frowned upon. Take the time to chat and socialise with people in the bar and lounge area and the chances are you will be invited to play, you only get out of it what you are prepared to put in. Later in the evening the hot tub is the place to be to get to know people and strike up conversation. That's certainly been my experience.
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over a year ago
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Another thing while I think about it, when you are chatting to a couple, make sure you chat to the guy too, he's just as important, after all it's his partner or wife you will be hoping to have fun with so it's important he likes you too.
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Fruit fusion has it right
We find the VA a great place and we now go on Fridays because the respect and politeness of the single males has renewed our faith in them
Jump in and join the fun - and the hot tub is something special hehe  |
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I attended my first swingers club last night and all I can say is, socialize, be yourself and get to know people, you won't get anywhere following people around and bothering them,
Don't go with the attitude that you will get sex because if you do have that attitude you probably won't,
And sometimes you have to be at the right place at the right time lol! As I found out twice last night!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just going for a look really to see what its all about, flick said she would show me round etc which is kind of her.
Been trying to get a couple of girls to come with me ,but there not really keen 
Would be nice to have a regular to go with ,
Will see what happens on the night.
Thanks for the feed back , just got to figure out what I'm wearing now lol |
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over a year ago
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well im going on sat 2nd with my female friend,this will be her first visit to a club,she is of course very nervous but excited....she is wanting to play with me and another woman hopefully..))))) |
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Would be nice to make Friday into a meet than be on my own, so ladies. I'm open to offers 