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Jaydee's or Tease2
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Recently found out the above clubs are not to far from me.
I've not been to a club before and really don't have a Scooby,or am I that keen on going on my own as a Billy no mates. :0(
If you were going to go to one of these clubs which one would it be ,?
Would you be comfortable going on your own. ?
I've heard that they only let a certain amount of singles in and you have to call up first, I'm guessing that the guys that do go to these clubs are regular ,so would they get preference over someone new like myself .?
Would there be anyone in here that would be willing to buddy up with me for a night to show me round..?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a look at the club reviews.
I've been to one club up here and was lucky to have one of my lovely friends on here go with me to show me the ropes.
I'd say I'd me more happy going as a couple than a single male but that's just my preference
And as for which one, try both and see which you prefer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I was a little iffy but had a good night though it was one of the quieter nights so a lot more single men to fems and couples.
Hence why I'd be more comfortable going as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi hun I been to both . Tease 2was awful. No one spoke to my friend and I . Jaydees rocks! Everyone is friendly. if you inbox me when you want to go I will tell you if I will be there and will show you around if you like.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi hun I been to both . Tease 2was awful. No one spoke to my friend and I . Jaydees rocks! Everyone is friendly. if you inbox me when you want to go I will tell you if I will be there and will show you around if you like. "
I've also been considering Tease 2, but as I'd be turning up as a single man your experience as a pair is off putting. Still planning to try Liberty Elite in Feb  |
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By *rs-buffWoman
over a year ago
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I would suggest you read the reviews off both clubs and note that one club has a lot off reviews from the same people ,have been to both clubs and enjoyed them each offer different things so is down to personal choice... although I do prefer Tease 2 relaxed friendly and clean x H x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And Tease 2 have midweek events, which would ne easier for me. Decisions, decisions. I'll need to give them a call I suppose, but interesting to read others experiences of joining (I am returning to club scene after many years away - not inside!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know a lot of single guys get on great at tease. So you will probably be ok. We as single woman got ignored or followed about we would try there again thou as perhaps was just an off night  |
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tease 2 without a doubt, both clubs are great. I go to clubs as a single female usually on my own....tease 2 staff are friendly and always helpful. When you go to a club though i always find it helps to talk to other people otherwise if you just sit in a corner expecting people to come over they wont .....they think you just wanna be on your own. Look forward to seeing you at tease 2 xxx |
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"tease 2 without a doubt, both clubs are great. I go to clubs as a single female usually on my own....tease 2 staff are friendly and always helpful. When you go to a club though i always find it helps to talk to other people otherwise if you just sit in a corner expecting people to come over they wont .....they think you just wanna be on your own. Look forward to seeing you at tease 2 xxx"
Beg to differ been to tease 2 several times as single and as a couple and was not approached and even when girl I was with went and chatted to others she was blanked brieze block heave or hell you decide ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This probably does not help, but you could also try Vanilla Alternative as well. There is a night being organised there on the 1st Feb by a girl called
Cheekyflick, and if you get your name down on the list it is reduced entry on the night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vaniall Alternative is probably nearer for you than either of the ones you mention.
Never been to Jaydees but have heard good reviews.
VA and Tease are both great clubs but both quite different. VA is more expensive and a little smarter, has a large pool in one of the rooms but just 2 large public rooms. Singlemen on a Friday but as far as I know no need to book but a surcharge for non members.
Tease several small playrooms, cheaper but you will have to join (think it's only a tenner) and single males have to book ahead and can't just turn up.
Both clubs are friendly with great staff. Both have quiet nights though. Have never experienced cliqueyness in either club but all clubs suffer allegations of it.
Like all people you will need to make an effort to mix, if you sit quietly in a corner no one will come and talk to you.
Single guys are an accepted part of the club scene and if people chose to attend on a night when they are allowed then no one is going to think anything of you being there alone.
I'd personally suggest looking for a night when there is a social on as numbers will be much greater. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Beg to differ been to tease 2 several times as single and as a couple and was not approached and even when girl I was with went and chatted to others she was blanked brieze block heave or hell you decide ..."
Reading that, and maybe I'm taking it too literally do you not think your approach may have something to do with it?
You wait to be approached? So you are guilty of what you are complaining others do, ie not approaching people.
And then you say the female approaches people. So what are you doing? Sitting on one of the sofas? Can you not see why this is potentially not going to work? To be honest if we had seen a couple that were sitting there not talking and then one half approached uu we would run a mile. Can you not see how that would be perceived - it screams of a couple having an argument or not happy being there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get your name on chams list ... Best club in uk for singles and lots of nights in the week you can go too... only night you cant is sat when couples .. loads going on there and people make everyone feel welcome not cl icky at all ........... most clubs are i find because same people go alot of the time can be so cl icky and singles feel left out , not there . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chams ..? "
Chameleones look up club listings here ... maybe alot of singles go on fridays but theres alot on offers , others days and nights too there ...
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Out of the clubs you have mentioned we have attended jaydees,have found it very friendly ,we encountered a few single guys in there a few watched and we invited 2 to join us in some fun,but I think you may need to phone them first,as I have been told there is a limit to how many they let in,at least two near to you ,why not try them both,don't think people take to much notice on who is comming in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a tease regular and I love the place, I go just as much for the banter and the fun.as with any club its about being decent and respectful. I havent been to jaycees yet but its on the cards... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the post that said try both and make your own decision,as different things appeal to different people.
you may find it pays to visit each club more than once as I've found no 2 nights have ever been the same and If its your 1st visit to a club it may take you a while to settle in
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with the post that said try both and make your own decision,as different things appeal to different people.
you may find it pays to visit each club more than once as I've found no 2 nights have ever been the same and If its your 1st visit to a club it may take you a while to settle in
very wise words we have yet to try Jaydees but we have tried vanillas. Both are good but for us Tease2 is THE club it meets our expectations and needs for us. And anyway swinging does tend to mean you like variety lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tease 2 is special and the friendliest club i have ever been to if a little quirky (prob why i like it) the staff are great and people friendly generally! I have been often as a single guy and also as a couple. I would say in any club if you are ouutgoing you will have more fun.
I've not been to Jdees but a lot of friends say that is great as well, but hay grab the offer of Mrs and get yourself along.
I am planning to go with friends a week on Wed (6th feb) witj friends so say hello, JimScot |
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