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Visiting a club for the first time
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We're an inexperienced couple when it comes to stuff like this, we want to explore and try new things with our sexual fantasies. But never been to a club, but don't know what to expect or if we'd like to try anything on our first time if we went to one. We wouldn't want to be pressured or bugged if that makes sense? We was in a swingers what's app group chat that wasn't very active an would of hoped that would help us out but didn't. Could someone help please it would be much appreciated  ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You get out of clubs what you put into it. Want to sit in the corner and observe, that’s ok. Want to be in the middle of the action, crack on. We love clubs and have never been to a bad one/bad night, you’ll find like minded people of all types that are approachable yet respectful. For your first time maybe try a couples night, they are a little quieter and a little less intimidating for newer couples. Have a look around the club reviews and google some events to see what might suit. |
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By *p4fun60Couple
over a year ago
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As newbies, check out the club events for social meets or something like the V2V at libbs, these are specifically put on to allow newbies to see what it's all about & meet other like minded potential playmates in a unhurried & non pressure environment & is an ideal way to start uour journey into this lifestyle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are brand new on the club scene and found one of the clubs we went to a little 'stand offish' for the first hour, once the drinks flowed and the music went up..so did the action. |
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I think most people will have felt the same way before going to a club for the first time. We’ve found that organised socials are a great way of meeting new people without any pressure. You will find them listed in the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love clubs, I love the atmosphere and the people. I'm also an avid voyeur, so it definitely scratches that itch for me.
I happily go alone too, I've never been made to feel uncomfortable and my experiences have always been really positive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking to make first club visit as meeting on here seems elusive. How is it for a single guy to meet at a club without looking too keen or pervy?
Looking for some helpful advice
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We love clubs. We’ve only ever found them friendly and fun, and we’ve never felt any pressure to do anything we weren’t comfortable with. A good club owner will show you around, give you a rundown of the rules and will keep an eye out for you.
Have fun! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would say your best bet, when you do want to go to a cub, would be to find a Newbies night - as another person also said previously. I live near-ish to Liverpool and go to townhouse. They have regular Newbies nights which are a lot of fun, be it just social or social and play. AND as a newbie you get a guided tour of the place when you arrive, which tends to settle/calm the nerves. |
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I have only been once, I did feel OK being there,the owners made it feel very safe,there wasn't many people there at the time but had some fun, not sure how i would actually feel if it was busy but if I didn't feel comfortable I would just leave, hoping to give it another go very soon  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have only been once, I did feel OK being there,the owners made it feel very safe,there wasn't many people there at the time but had some fun, not sure how i would actually feel if it was busy but if I didn't feel comfortable I would just leave, hoping to give it another go very soon "
Thank you, who knows, we could bump into each other one day haha x |
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