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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi everyone.

How was the first experience of attending a club? I’m a single guy, and would love to attend one. But then the nerves kick in and the insecurities start, my body and stuff like that.

I 100% know to not expect any invitations to play etc. I know when and where I’m wanted lol.

Probably a poor post, but thought I’d ask.

Take care

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By *vilgasamWoman  over a year ago

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Those nerves hurt mean you’re a human, I get them and I’ve been several times. They don’t stop so waiting for them to go is just making you miss out

If you treat the evening like a social, you’ll have a great time

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By *vilgasamWoman  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Those nerves hurt mean you’re a human, I get them and I’ve been several times. They don’t stop so waiting for them to go is just making you miss out

If you treat the evening like a social, you’ll have a great time "

Thank you. That’s a good point with them making me miss out.

I mean I’m one of those who’d talk to anyone, but in a club setting I don’t know what I’d be like

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By *amLaraCroftWoman  over a year ago

London

Do you know what club you want to try and what day and time ?

I went with someone the first time and just observed to see how things happened and that was more than two years ago and now I go regularly

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By *vilgasamWoman  over a year ago

The dot in the i


"Do you know what club you want to try and what day and time ?

I went with someone the first time and just observed to see how things happened and that was more than two years ago and now I go regularly "

This is a good way to go, everyone will be pretty friendly and happy to chatter away to you

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