Has anyone seen a rise in this? My partner and I have only just started going to clubs. We're quite new to the scene and have met some wonderful people (couples and single men). In the three club experiences we have had (same club) there has been an unsettling trend of numerous men with this 'creepy and intrusive' behaviour. It borders on predatory and we are thinking that perhaps this particular club (even though we love the facilities) is not for us. We love the blackout room but it has become too aggressive and no longer fun. I realise clubs have bills to pay and need the membership but there must be something they can do to limit this type of behaviour. We go to the club to have fun and enjoy ourselves with singles and couples. I don't want to spend the night slapping away hands and telling people to f*$k off. |
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Unfortunately, it depends on the event at the club, that’s why we’re gravitating towards ‘hosted’ evenings. This seems to be better as there’s more event communication before hand and more emphasis on consent. |
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We’ve certainly noticed it a little more of late - do you mind saying where the club you went to is? It’d be good to know if it’s a trend across all of them, or just one on particular! Our regular club also has great facilities, but some of the single guys recently clearly have no idea of how to behave! |
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Yes someone mentioned we should look out for hosted/organised events. I guess we'll watch out for those. We would prefer to go on nights where there are some single men as the dynamic feels different to the couples nights. We love the club (swimming pool etc) and it will be a shame to stop going. |
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