We’d suggest go to a smaller Club on a quieter night, assume nothing will happen but make an effort to look nice. Do not get d*unk! Smile and make eye contact. Do not start conversation with “do you fancy a shag”, talk to people and remember that if you are talking to a couple talk to both of them - please try to ask open questions and listen to the answers! We once had a guy talk at us for 20 mins before we could get away - he just talked & talked! 
Swingers Clubs are more friendly than Vanilla Clubs and lets face it everyone there is hoping to have a good time. Just remember that it is likely that you will not fancy everyone there and they might not fancy you. But be friendly and recognise you might need to go a few times, but you can have a whole lot of fun.
M has been to a few Clubs on his own to check them out and always enjoyed himself chatting with people even though he didn’t play. Several times the offer had been there to play and he declined  & I believe him! |
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"Any hints or tips for your first time visiting a club? It all seems very daunting:p"
Amigos in Leicester hold newbie day on Thursday no membership or verification needed xx |
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