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By *ehw OP Woman
over a year ago
Whitby |
Hi everyone. I'm a 26yo lesbian and want to experience the club scene. Nervous about going alone and about if there are enough bi women at events. Curious as to how you think I should proceed? Confident in nearly everything else in life but going to a club alone feels strange. I'm thinking of maybe meeting a nice couple beforehand and going with them? TIA, K x |
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I often do clubs alone but I meet both men and women so it's probably easier. When I first started going I'd often tag along with couples I'd met previously, and they helped me build my confidence going.
I find it's easier knowing people who are going but if you don't, just chat to people. Everyone is always friendly I've found and you can find people to chat to.
There is often a mix of people but I couldn't guarantee other women would attention events unless I'd pre arranged to meet other women there. There will likely be more men than women. Although some clubs do women only or couples and single women events. It may be best to start with one of those.
And have fun when you go. I'm sure you'll have an amazing time. Just enjoy yourself when you go. Dance, chat, have fun. |
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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago
Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me |
Whichever club you chose to visit let them know it's your first time.
Theyll ensure you have a tour the club I host at (club play) let's you stay dressed till 10pm upstairs so you can explore the facilities nerve free.
Some clubs have chat groups ask if you can join you may find you'll make more connections before your visit.
Maybe try a bi night we have a lot of attendees for this night although you will find most ladies are playful.
Last but not least remember your not alone feeling this way(even us seasoned vetrans) we all have first time nerves even when trying a new club.
Just relax and enjoy your night and there is ALWAYS NO PRESSURE to play xx
Hope you have a fabulous time where ever you decide to go xx |
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Going with a couple beforehand is one way, as at least you'll have someone you know. It can be lucky dip as you might find the couple with a bi female isn't interested in a setup where the guy can't get involved.
Alternatively, check out Skirt Club. They have female-only play parties in different locations around the world including the UK so if you want a venue/event that's gay/bi ladies only, then that might be your best bet. D goes to their events occasionally and absolutely loves them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd suggest have a look for clubs that have women only nights as your first venture. If you don't mind travelling, Townhouse at Merseyside has a women's only night once a month on a Friday night called Ruby Slippers. |
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