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over a year ago
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We always play together at clubs. Not had the chance to play with others yet as not found anyone we click with. However we do always play in rooms where people can watch. |
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This is one of the reasons my partner and I are a little put off from clubs and some larger private parties too. Sometimes a very large chunk of the people have no intention of playing with anyone else - either just socialising or playing together. Obviously some might if the right people come along but a lot sometimes just point blank not going to with anybody else.
Each to their own but we find that boring and get no pleasure from watching others and having no chance of joining in. We know quite a few other experienced swinging couples who have got fed up with clubs and parties for this reason (and think it has become more common) and just arrange private play sessions instead. |
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By *iot58Couple
over a year ago
Southampton |
We are always looking for new people to play with. Often play first (if there is a physical attraction) and talk later. After all we are here for sexy fun not necessarily to make lifelong friends (although that does happen). Abfab tomorrow then chill out in Kestrels on Sunday. Cum and find us.  |
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"This is one of the reasons my partner and I are a little put off from clubs and some larger private parties too. Sometimes a very large chunk of the people have no intention of playing with anyone else - either just socialising or playing together. Obviously some might if the right people come along but a lot sometimes just point blank not going to with anybody else.
Each to their own but we find that boring and get no pleasure from watching others and having no chance of joining in. We know quite a few other experienced swinging couples who have got fed up with clubs and parties for this reason (and think it has become more common) and just arrange private play sessions instead. "
What an incredibly bad take.
There is a thing call preference and maybe some couples are not ready yet. A club can be quite the sensory overload for some so first timers would want to wait.
For us and I know this with others from talking to other club goers they maybe out looking for something different. No single guy has a god given right with a couple just because he has paid an entrance fee. With that kind of thinking maybe find a local sort.
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"This is one of the reasons my partner and I are a little put off from clubs and some larger private parties too. Sometimes a very large chunk of the people have no intention of playing with anyone else - either just socialising or playing together. Obviously some might if the right people come along but a lot sometimes just point blank not going to with anybody else.
Each to their own but we find that boring and get no pleasure from watching others and having no chance of joining in. We know quite a few other experienced swinging couples who have got fed up with clubs and parties for this reason (and think it has become more common) and just arrange private play sessions instead. "
We have done both at clubs and have just as much fun when me and my husband have went into a private room just us.
We don’t do it for people to watch us that’s not our thing but everyone goes for different reasons.
Definitely never been bored though |
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Really depends on our mood tbh - we love to be watched sometimes- love to join in sometimes and other times it’s just the social experience
Each to their own - that’s what makes the lifestyle so great xx |
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"This is one of the reasons my partner and I are a little put off from clubs and some larger private parties too. Sometimes a very large chunk of the people have no intention of playing with anyone else - either just socialising or playing together. Obviously some might if the right people come along but a lot sometimes just point blank not going to with anybody else.
Each to their own but we find that boring and get no pleasure from watching others and having no chance of joining in. We know quite a few other experienced swinging couples who have got fed up with clubs and parties for this reason (and think it has become more common) and just arrange private play sessions instead.
What an incredibly bad take.
There is a thing call preference and maybe some couples are not ready yet. A club can be quite the sensory overload for some so first timers would want to wait.
For us and I know this with others from talking to other club goers they maybe out looking for something different. No single guy has a god given right with a couple just because he has paid an entrance fee. With that kind of thinking maybe find a local sort.
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I was talking about my experience and preferences as a couple not single guy. However, you are right in that a couple also has no right given paid an entrance fee as well.
Of course everyone has a preference and of course many people are not ready yet. I was just saying this is how we (my partner and I) feel as more experienced swingers when the overwhelming number of people seem to have no intention of playing with others. Our preference in such situations is not to go as often as we might  We know other experienced swinging couples who feel the same and used to go more but less these days for this reason. It's not a criticism of any individual but an observation of dynamics sometimes at clubs and big private house parties. |
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"We always assume we’ll be playing together,
If we meet someone(s) we like that is a bonus and happens about 50% of the time in our limited experience."
So agree with you, but you have a better ‘hit rate’ than us!  |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
We find the environment sexy full stop, love to play with others or by ourselves to an audience and if some of that audience are hot and respectful they are invited to join.. Mrs |
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"We always play together at clubs. Not had the chance to play with others yet as not found anyone we click with. However we do always play in rooms where people can watch. "
This is exactly where we are with it all!! I’m open to it, hence why we started going, other half most definitely is but we haven’t quite got to that point as yet and aren’t even sure how to!! lol so we plod on playing together in open rooms and enjoy the excitement of the whole environment and if anything should eventually happen then amazing, if not I’m still one very happy lady |
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Depends what club and what night and what clientele turns up which you have no control over. We go out to play with others but don't always find the right people we'd choose to play with so sometimes we'll play together or sometimes just go home and have an early night. |
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We visited a few clubs on during our last term in the lifestyle and went with the mentality that we had to find someone to play with and felt let down/disappointed when we didn't and thought maybe clubs weren't for us.
After a lengthy break we're back and have come to the same conclusion, go for the social aspect and expect to play alone. Anything else is a bonus. |
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"This is one of the reasons my partner and I are a little put off from clubs and some larger private parties too. Sometimes a very large chunk of the people have no intention of playing with anyone else - either just socialising or playing together. Obviously some might if the right people come along but a lot sometimes just point blank not going to with anybody else.
Each to their own but we find that boring and get no pleasure from watching others and having no chance of joining in. We know quite a few other experienced swinging couples who have got fed up with clubs and parties for this reason (and think it has become more common) and just arrange private play sessions instead. "
Hmmmmmm that’s a rough one to answer as I do
See it from your point of view. But, not everyone goes clubbing for the same reason and not everyone has the same tastes.
We love clubs as we love putting in a show. We are not adverse to playing with others but our kink is showing off. It’s a shame that others may think that makes us boring but that’s not the case, we are not exclusively dedicated to each other. We just get off on others watching us fuck |
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We generally play together but nearly always in open rooms. We don't have any set plan and the interaction with others will just depend how the evening goes.
But as others have said finding a 4 way attraction isn't always that easy. |
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