We have been keen to try liberty Elite as its quite local to us, but after speaking to a few couples off here we are told its very cliquey, is this true? as it will be our first time to a club we really dont want to feel left out. Can anyone please share their experience with the club
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Hello,
I have been a handful of times and honestly it’s a great club, yes you get people who know each other but that isn’t a bad thing and on the other hand you’ll always find people who’s first night it is. Everyone has always been nothing but respectful and made time to chat, any club visit is what you make of it and I always see who’s potentially going and maybe someone you have spoken too before could be going so you have a start point of having conversations and then go with the flow. Go with an open mind and make your mind up as going with a pre-conceived idea is maybe going to make you look for things to put you off rather than enjoying the great club it is. |
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100% not cliquey but of course attended regularly by the same people who are (very) familiar with each other. Be open, receptive and wear a big smile and you can chat to anyone there.
Sit in the corner, watch from afar and avoiding eye contact and you’ll come away having talked to no one. |
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By *p4fun60Couple
over a year ago
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"100% not cliquey but of course attended regularly by the same people who are (very) familiar with each other. Be open, receptive and wear a big smile and you can chat to anyone there.
Sit in the corner, watch from afar and avoiding eye contact and you’ll come away having talked to no one. "
Sounds like you on your first visit lol
Seriously this is spot on, all clubs will seem cliquey to the first timers as many people will be regulars & know one another, but that doesn't mean you won't be welcome don't panick & sit in the corner wide eyed, stay at the bar area & make a point if introducing yourselves, or go get in the jacuzzi, it's amazing how suddenly being naked can liberate people into chatting lol - a good idea is to put up on the meets page you're going & trying & pre arrange a meet, I'd also advise as newbies going to the liberty Elite V2V event as this is specifically for first times, & finally, relax & enjoy & go with no expectations of play & you'll have a great time  |
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We've been to libs on different nights and don't think it's cliquey at all. Different nights have different vibes, hot wife night we found that some couples were less social but that's because we obviously weren't what we they were looking for. V2V is very social and un cliquey, the night we went everyone made a special effort to be extra friendly to newbies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have been to Libs manny times and on different events and have never experienced cliquey. Normally, always really friendly, accepting and sociable. Never been to a hot wife’s event only, so can’t comment on that. But, generally always have a great night x |
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