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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
"S and I are off to our first club night tomorrow. I have absolutely no idea what to wear or what to expect. Any advice for some newbies? "
read the club website details - they will guide you - and remember ... for a guy less is more ... for a lady you can disrobe and strip off progressively as the evening / visit warms up sensually xxx have a great time
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As above, have a look at the clubs website. Some clubs are dress down, some aren’t.
Would recommend taking a change of underwear incase you feel like changing, and some comfy flats for the end of the night. Enjoy! |
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I've been reading the club website but it didn't say much about dress code over than wear something sexy lol. I'm going to re read the entire website to check I've not missed anything.
Flats is a good idea though, thank you
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"S and I are off to our first club night tomorrow. I have absolutely no idea what to wear or what to expect. Any advice for some newbies? "
If it's the club that's on your status, I don't think you need to worry too much, as long as you feel comfortable.
For the lady, I'd suggest something like sexy lingerie (such as a babydoll or bodysuit, perhaps), a lace/silk robe (to complement your lingerie), and a pair of flats (for later, as suggested).
For the gent, nothing beats a good, well-fitting shirt and trousers, although you can probably get away with smart black jeans at some clubs, in all fairness. Some 'mengerie' might also add a bit of flair to a man too - feel free to peruse my public gallery for inspiration
Whatever happens, enjoy yourselves, even if that means just socialising and getting some experience of swingers clubs; if you have some fun or a play, whether that's by yourselves or with others, that's a bonus, not an expectation.
Remember, not all club nights are the same, so definitely don't treat your first visit as the norm.
In the meantime, I hope you both have a great time, OP!  |
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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago
St Neots/Wisbech |
Smart casual for the fellas, I used to go in shoes, shirt and trousers.
Mrs used to wear lingerie under a see through dress with heels.
There's always the option to get changed into something a bit more daring. |
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"S and I are off to our first club night tomorrow. I have absolutely no idea what to wear or what to expect. Any advice for some newbies?
If it's the club that's on your status, I don't think you need to worry too much, as long as you feel comfortable.
For the lady, I'd suggest something like sexy lingerie (such as a babydoll or bodysuit, perhaps), a lace/silk robe (to complement your lingerie), and a pair of flats (for later, as suggested).
For the gent, nothing beats a good, well-fitting shirt and trousers, although you can probably get away with smart black jeans at some clubs, in all fairness. Some 'mengerie' might also add a bit of flair to a man too - feel free to peruse my public gallery for inspiration
Whatever happens, enjoy yourselves, even if that means just socialising and getting some experience of swingers clubs; if you have some fun or a play, whether that's by yourselves or with others, that's a bonus, not an expectation.
Remember, not all club nights are the same, so definitely don't treat your first visit as the norm.
In the meantime, I hope you both have a great time, OP! "
It is indeed the club on our status. I presume we "normal" clothes and undress at a later point...
I think I'm more nervous being under or over dressed and not fitting in but I'm probably over thinking it and I'm sure it will all be fine once we are there.
Thank you for your helpful tips  |
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"S and I are off to our first club night tomorrow. I have absolutely no idea what to wear or what to expect. Any advice for some newbies?
If it's the club that's on your status, I don't think you need to worry too much, as long as you feel comfortable.
For the lady, I'd suggest something like sexy lingerie (such as a babydoll or bodysuit, perhaps), a lace/silk robe (to complement your lingerie), and a pair of flats (for later, as suggested).
For the gent, nothing beats a good, well-fitting shirt and trousers, although you can probably get away with smart black jeans at some clubs, in all fairness. Some 'mengerie' might also add a bit of flair to a man too - feel free to peruse my public gallery for inspiration
Whatever happens, enjoy yourselves, even if that means just socialising and getting some experience of swingers clubs; if you have some fun or a play, whether that's by yourselves or with others, that's a bonus, not an expectation.
Remember, not all club nights are the same, so definitely don't treat your first visit as the norm.
In the meantime, I hope you both have a great time, OP!
It is indeed the club on our status. I presume we "normal" clothes and undress at a later point...
I think I'm more nervous being under or over dressed and not fitting in but I'm probably over thinking it and I'm sure it will all be fine once we are there.
Thank you for your helpful tips "
You will be fine, I get you don't want to appear over dressed or underdressed but I suggest you wear what you feel the most confident in. That will help hugely, once your there the vibe will kick in and you will feel good |
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