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By *ife2010 OP Couple
over a year ago
Kirkcaldy |
We can be sitting there, looking and smelling great!
Her hair took an hour to do, believe me!
And we can be chatting to a couple, then comes the question;
‘Are you bi?’
As K is not bi, the conversation usually falters there as the other couple sees a friend ‘over there’
Repeat all night!
And we sit alone!
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I've always imagined it's difficult for straight female couples. To some extent it seems also women on the scene are assumed Bi until proven otherwise, which can cause awkward situations (so at least your encountering women who ask before acting). In our experience straight female couples are rare and naturally I think most Bi women like the variety and extra possibilities that come when you can enjoy both parts of a couple. However sometimes (sadly) the desire for woman on woman play seems to far more of a deal breaker for their male partner than the woman herself. |
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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago
Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders |
"It can be the same the other way, when they find the males is bi. It seems generally accepted if the female is bi but not when the male is bi, even though they can play straight.
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Totally agree with that. There is this feeling that all females in the lifestyle are bi, when it's not necessary always the truth. However on the other side for some male beeing in close proximity to bi male might be uncomfortable. It always strucked me as double standards but everyone has an absolute right to own opinions and preferences. |
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By *ife2010 OP Couple
over a year ago
Kirkcaldy |
"It can be the same the other way, when they find the males is bi. It seems generally accepted if the female is bi but not when the male is bi, even though they can play straight.
Totally agree with that. There is this feeling that all females in the lifestyle are bi, when it's not necessary always the truth. However on the other side for some male beeing in close proximity to bi male might be uncomfortable. It always strucked me as double standards but everyone has an absolute right to own opinions and preferences. "
I always say I’m 99.99% straight, the only cock I like is my own!
I’ve walked around clubs, hard, and I enjoyed the compliments! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"It can be the same the other way, when they find the males is bi. It seems generally accepted if the female is bi but not when the male is bi, even though they can play straight.
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So much this. 
We've stopped meeting couples now, but still encounter this with single males, despite them being reassured that I've no interest in them and that it's perfectly possible to have a straight MFM.
People, eh..... 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We can be sitting there, looking and smelling great!
Her hair took an hour to do, believe me!
And we can be chatting to a couple, then comes the question;
‘Are you bi?’
As K is not bi, the conversation usually falters there as the other couple sees a friend ‘over there’
Repeat all night!
And we sit alone!
"
Hay don't knock it at least you where spoken to
Mr is over 40, shaven head and has average dad bod build (not fat). Generally if anyone speeks to us their only interested in the female one of us or generally friend zoned instantly so don't even ask questions about sexual orientation because thay have no interest in getting naughty 
Count your blessings  |
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We find this too OP! Me being a straight female seems to be a turn off and a deal breaker to playing with another couple, whether chatting in person at a club, or just on Fab
Its a shame it seems to be the most important requirement to even talk to other couples,but, it is what it is!
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"am totally straight and i once put up a forum post about 'straight night' for straight people. I got slaughted,yet mention 'bi nites'and its fine"
The difference is that by definition of them being bi and able to play with both men and women, bi people can play straight with no issues at all. So a straight night would be pointless.
It doesn't work the other way round though.
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"It can be the same the other way, when they find the males is bi. It seems generally accepted if the female is bi but not when the male is bi, even though they can play straight.
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Red prefers it when the other guys is bi, she’s always found they know what they’re doing a bit more haha. I think she’d prefer me to be bi actually |
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"It can be the same the other way, when they find the males is bi. It seems generally accepted if the female is bi but not when the male is bi, even though they can play straight.
Red prefers it when the other guys is bi, she’s always found they know what they’re doing a bit more haha. I think she’d prefer me to be bi actually "
Ha ha don’t knock it till you’ve tried it  |
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"am totally straight and i once put up a forum post about 'straight night' for straight people. I got slaughted,yet mention 'bi nites'and its fine
The difference is that by definition of them being bi and able to play with both men and women, bi people can play straight with no issues at all. So a straight night would be pointless.
It doesn't work the other way round though.
A"
May be the case for some but we've had issues with both bi men and women taking liberties when boundaries were clearly set so a straight night isn't such a bad idea. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"am totally straight and i once put up a forum post about 'straight night' for straight people. I got slaughted,yet mention 'bi nites'and its fine
The difference is that by definition of them being bi and able to play with both men and women, bi people can play straight with no issues at all. So a straight night would be pointless.
It doesn't work the other way round though.
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May be the case for some but we've had issues with both bi men and women taking liberties when boundaries were clearly set so a straight night isn't such a bad idea."
We've had issues with straight folk taking liberties when boundaries have been set too. Men and women.
It has nothing to do with sexuality and everything to do with some people just being disrespectful.
It's odd that in clubs nobody is worried about straight people attending bi nights and playing straight, yet any form of male to male contact at a club on a non-specifically bi night is frowned upon by many. Of course nobody bats an eyelid about women playing together.
But hey. Nowt queer as folk.
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*no pun intended of course.......  |
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By *redy81Man
over a year ago
London |
OP: I assume, when a couple with a bi-woman goes to a party, they probably want to enjoy that part of the sexuality they can't do at home, and girl-on-girl action is definitely part of that. It's somehow understandable from their point of view. And because bisexuality is way more common among women, straight women more often find themselves out of the criteria of these couples.
Happened to me too, I had a good chat with a couple, then they asked if I'm into guys too. I said no, so it turned out that we were not looking for each other. No hard feelings. Okay, among men, it's not that common, and at least they were honest, and asked me upfront.
And yes, that also happened when I played with a couple, and tho the man didn't cross certain sharp lines, didn't try to touch me, or anything like that, somehow I noticed that he was looking at me in a different way. And honestly, being straight it was a turn-off to me. And the next day I found them here and saw the guy was bi. So yes I also prefer if the man is straight, so we are both on the same side. Then I know, that he is not only "trying to behave" himself, but has zero sexual interest in me. For me, that makes it much more comfortable, but everyone has their own opinion and feelings on this, and that's okay too. |
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By *N4funCouple
over a year ago
Manchester |
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We can be sitting there, looking and smelling great!
Her hair took an hour to do, believe me!
And we can be chatting to a couple, then comes the question;
‘Are you bi?’
As K is not bi, the conversation usually falters there as the other couple sees a friend ‘over there’
Repeat all night!
And we sit alone!
"
Straight wife and Bi curious husband pretty much everyone pass us by except single guys. See lots of couples looking but never get in touch. So I dont worry your not alone with scratching your head about folk  |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
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We can be sitting there, looking and smelling great!
Her hair took an hour to do, believe me!
And we can be chatting to a couple, then comes the question;
‘Are you bi?’
As K is not bi, the conversation usually falters there as the other couple sees a friend ‘over there’
Repeat all night!
And we sit alone!
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Don't knock.it. at least people are talking to you. Try being a single straight bloke. It's why I dropped out of the club scene recently |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
Same here although not in clubs but play on your terms . Don't get pressurised into bi play . We was once tricked into a bi play and all it was to help the other woman's husband to get erection lol Since then we are completely off even trying it as Diva is pretty straight and I don't enjoy watching bifem play as well .
You have your own fun in the clubs  |
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We can be sitting there, looking and smelling great!
Her hair took an hour to do, believe me!
And we can be chatting to a couple, then comes the question;
‘Are you bi?’
As K is not bi, the conversation usually falters there as the other couple sees a friend ‘over there’
Repeat all night!
And we sit alone!
"
Couples who are that bothered about the fem being Bi are probably (in our experience) either looking for a unicorn but can't find a woman on her own, or for just the fems to play together but stick to their own male partners.
We always ask for people's boundaries and play within them. Straight swap?
No problem!
People who view one of us as more important than the other?
Not a chance!
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We can be sitting there, looking and smelling great!
Her hair took an hour to do, believe me!
And we can be chatting to a couple, then comes the question;
‘Are you bi?’
As K is not bi, the conversation usually falters there as the other couple sees a friend ‘over there’
Repeat all night!
And we sit alone!
"
So couples dont ask about just a good old fashioned straight swap of partners ? dammm |
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