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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi. Me and my BF are set to visit a club on Sat but it happens to be bi sexual night. The BF is not into blokes at all
Is it best to avoid this particular night?
Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just be aware that your partner may well be approached by other guys.
Any bi nights myself and my partner have attended are exactly that - for bi people.
If he will feel uncomfortable about this you’re probably better choosing another night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it’s the club in Chatham, we’ve been a few times and it didn’t matter we felt very welcome and Dora was very appreciated.
I’m not bi either and there were a lot of other “straight” men there.
We picked up some hate on here before though for mentioning we’d attended a bi night when I’m not bisexual believe it or not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just be aware that your partner may well be approached by other guys.
Any bi nights myself and my partner have attended are exactly that - for bi people.
If he will feel uncomfortable about this you’re probably better choosing another night."
Thank u that's useful to know x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it’s the club in Chatham, we’ve been a few times and it didn’t matter we felt very welcome and Dora was very appreciated.
I’m not bi either and there were a lot of other “straight” men there.
We picked up some hate on here before though for mentioning we’d attended a bi night when I’m not bisexual believe it or not. "
People love an opinion  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it’s the club in Chatham, we’ve been a few times and it didn’t matter we felt very welcome and Dora was very appreciated.
I’m not bi either and there were a lot of other “straight” men there.
We picked up some hate on here before though for mentioning we’d attended a bi night when I’m not bisexual believe it or not. "
Any abuse on here for what you choose to do is totally wrong.
I’m genuinely interested though as to why you would go to a bi night when only one half of you is bi.
I’m part of a bi couple and if we got chatting to you with a view to playing it would be hugely disappointing to then be told the make half isn’t bi.
There are so many other club nights to choose from. |
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My partner is straight yet he went to the bi night at Jaydees with me last Friday, and stayed all night, because, in his own words, he was "desperate for the hot tub". I did warn him he may see things that could be out of his comfort zone but he was absolutely fine and enjoyed the night. So much so, that we now have tickets to another event, at a different club, that happens to be a bi night but we just could not miss the Rocky Horror Show theme. |
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Coming back to OP: bi nights, in my opinion, are the most relaxed club nights. There is a lot of banter (at least at my regular club), a lot of laughing, lots of dancing for some, as well as some very hot action. And, as on any other night, if you get propositioned by someone you don't feel attracted to, a simple "thanks but no, thanks" is more than enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it’s the club in Chatham, we’ve been a few times and it didn’t matter we felt very welcome and Dora was very appreciated.
I’m not bi either and there were a lot of other “straight” men there.
We picked up some hate on here before though for mentioning we’d attended a bi night when I’m not bisexual believe it or not.
Any abuse on here for what you choose to do is totally wrong.
I’m genuinely interested though as to why you would go to a bi night when only one half of you is bi.
I’m part of a bi couple and if we got chatting to you with a view to playing it would be hugely disappointing to then be told the make half isn’t bi.
There are so many other club nights to choose from."
What may be even more disappointing for you is that we don’t need to explain our reasons for anything to you or anybody else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it’s the club in Chatham, we’ve been a few times and it didn’t matter we felt very welcome and Dora was very appreciated.
I’m not bi either and there were a lot of other “straight” men there.
We picked up some hate on here before though for mentioning we’d attended a bi night when I’m not bisexual believe it or not.
Any abuse on here for what you choose to do is totally wrong.
I’m genuinely interested though as to why you would go to a bi night when only one half of you is bi.
I’m part of a bi couple and if we got chatting to you with a view to playing it would be hugely disappointing to then be told the make half isn’t bi.
There are so many other club nights to choose from."
We have been on bi-nights before purely because it happens to be our one free night that month. As long as you know what you’re walking into why would you not go?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What may be even more disappointing for you is that we don’t need to explain our reasons for anything to you or anybody else. "
It’s not disappointing to me at all.
This is a forum and I enjoy discussing things.
Your prerogative if you don’t wish to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have been on bi-nights before purely because it happens to be our one free night that month. As long as you know what you’re walking into why would you not go??"
I’ll reiterate again. I’m only interested in why people choose to go.
Thanks for explaining why. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To be honest it is the nearest club and we've not been before. We have a weekend together and want to go. We would rather it wasn't a bi night but its a night we are both free x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest it is the nearest club and we've not been before. We have a weekend together and want to go. We would rather it wasn't a bi night but its a night we are both free x"
Go and enjoy. Hope you both have a great evening  |
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