Do your homework first, OP. Have a look on clubs review section the club/clubs you are most interested in attending. Next, check each club's website for their timetable/events, as well as requirements for single men. Some clubs, to apply for membership you have to be already verified, others allow non-verified people to apply for membership. The chances are, as a single man you would need to apply for membership (and have it approved) before you can turn up. Also, as most clubs limit the number of single men on nights they are allowed in, the club's website would clearly state how to apply for the place on the night.
There is a way of attending some clubs without having to take out membership first- as long as you are on a guest list for the event. I know Chameleons in Darlaston does that for BBW events, not sure about any other clubs.
Once you've got your membership sorted/are on a guest list for an event, make sure to check opening hours/last entry, whether the club is licensed or not, the dress code, as well as whether you need cash or can pay by card.
On the day, make sure you're clean, smell nice and have your level head on. Going to the swingers club for the first time can be nerve-wracking. You will, most likely, see people in various states of undress, maybe even having sex in the open. You may even get invited- but don't expect that. Go with the understanding that every single person inside the club came there on their own accord, for their own pleasure, and they are all equal members that deserve the same respect you'd expect for yourself.
Be friendly but please take "no, thank you" for an answer the first time. And as someone else already have said, if you happen to be watching someone have sex, please do it from a respectable distance rather than just millimeters from them.
And enjoy! It can be a very addictive past time.
Also, before someone else says that- club is better with a lady, someone you know and can trust. But it's more than doable as a single guy, as long as you follow some simple rules. |
