Hey all,
For a while now iv been thinking about attending a swinging club for a while but as a single male, feel a little hesitant to go alone.
Was thinking of potentially checking out flirts as I feel this might be a good place to start for a more social setting with a little naughtiness.
Any advice for a single male, let it be known, I'm all ears |
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"Hey all,
For a while now iv been thinking about attending a swinging club for a while but as a single male, feel a little hesitant to go alone.
Was thinking of potentially checking out flirts as I feel this might be a good place to start for a more social setting with a little naughtiness.
Any advice for a single male, let it be known, I'm all ears "
The only way to know is to go. Speak to the club of your choice, make sure you can attend as some clubs have waiting lists for single men. Honestly you have nothing to worry about unless you act like an arse! Lol |
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"Hey all,
For a while now iv been thinking about attending a swinging club for a while but as a single male, feel a little hesitant to go alone.
Was thinking of potentially checking out flirts as I feel this might be a good place to start for a more social setting with a little naughtiness.
Any advice for a single male, let it be known, I'm all ears "
Flirts itself is a good starting point. The whole Xtasia team are awesome and very welcoming and it'll be an easy first intro to a club. The bar is just like any other - tables, chair, pool table and of course a bar. The play cinema areas are well laid out and always clean and you'll be shown around so you know what's where.
There's no guarantee how busy it will be, who will be there and if any play is happening. Many staying onsite or going to Xtasia will use Flirts for pre-drinks and socialising prior to hitting the main club so it's also useful for networking.
My best advice? Just go with no expectations. Ask questions of the staff and just be social with any other members.
Odds are if you enjoy it, you'll want to then get full membership for Xtasia.
By far our favourite club and just a pity it's so far from home.
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"Hey all,
For a while now iv been thinking about attending a swinging club for a while but as a single male, feel a little hesitant to go alone.
Was thinking of potentially checking out flirts as I feel this might be a good place to start for a more social setting with a little naughtiness.
Any advice for a single male, let it be known, I'm all ears
The only way to know is to go. Speak to the club of your choice, make sure you can attend as some clubs have waiting lists for single men. Honestly you have nothing to worry about unless you act like an arse! Lol"
I can't always guarantee that haha
I may drop em a message or a call just to be at ease |
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"Hey all,
For a while now iv been thinking about attending a swinging club for a while but as a single male, feel a little hesitant to go alone.
Was thinking of potentially checking out flirts as I feel this might be a good place to start for a more social setting with a little naughtiness.
Any advice for a single male, let it be known, I'm all ears
The only way to know is to go. Speak to the club of your choice, make sure you can attend as some clubs have waiting lists for single men. Honestly you have nothing to worry about unless you act like an arse! Lol
I can't always guarantee that haha
I may drop em a message or a call just to be at ease "
Well if you act like an arse then I'd save your money and stay home cos you ain't going to get very far |
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"Hey all,
For a while now iv been thinking about attending a swinging club for a while but as a single male, feel a little hesitant to go alone.
Was thinking of potentially checking out flirts as I feel this might be a good place to start for a more social setting with a little naughtiness.
Any advice for a single male, let it be known, I'm all ears
Flirts itself is a good starting point. The whole Xtasia team are awesome and very welcoming and it'll be an easy first intro to a club. The bar is just like any other - tables, chair, pool table and of course a bar. The play cinema areas are well laid out and always clean and you'll be shown around so you know what's where.
There's no guarantee how busy it will be, who will be there and if any play is happening. Many staying onsite or going to Xtasia will use Flirts for pre-drinks and socialising prior to hitting the main club so it's also useful for networking.
My best advice? Just go with no expectations. Ask questions of the staff and just be social with any other members.
Odds are if you enjoy it, you'll want to then get full membership for Xtasia.
By far our favourite club and just a pity it's so far from home.
A"
Sounds like what I'm looking for. Iv had plenty of swinging experiences over the years and met some great people hence why I'm more interested in the social aspect and meeting new folks  |
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"Hey all,
For a while now iv been thinking about attending a swinging club for a while but as a single male, feel a little hesitant to go alone.
Was thinking of potentially checking out flirts as I feel this might be a good place to start for a more social setting with a little naughtiness.
Any advice for a single male, let it be known, I'm all ears
The only way to know is to go. Speak to the club of your choice, make sure you can attend as some clubs have waiting lists for single men. Honestly you have nothing to worry about unless you act like an arse! Lol
I can't always guarantee that haha
I may drop em a message or a call just to be at ease
Well if you act like an arse then I'd save your money and stay home cos you ain't going to get very far "
Obviously I was joking, I'm looking to meet new people not offend them haha |
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Always daunting going if you are a non arrogant and non pushy nice person. I found the key was to network before attending and feel comfortable with a couple of people...made it easier to integrate into the local club....as nobody really wants to talk to the guy stood in the corner...I actually found this to be a myth and everyone was friendly and welcoming |
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"Always daunting going if you are a non arrogant and non pushy nice person. I found the key was to network before attending and feel comfortable with a couple of people...made it easier to integrate into the local club....as nobody really wants to talk to the guy stood in the corner...I actually found this to be a myth and everyone was friendly and welcoming "
Do you know if there are any online groups for networking with like minded people?
From what I'm hearing everybody seems to be very welcoming which has put me at ease a little. |
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Thanks for all the advice, first club visit happened today and it was good fun. The staff and other attendees were very friendly (although we were helped in seeing a familiar face there) and the venue was really nice. Was interesting as well as an enjoyable visit! My only criticism was that the couples lounge was so boiling hot! |
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