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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The original op did make me smile, took me back to my own first time. - very nervous and apprehensive!
First things first? Swinging clubs are not seedy, filthy places, full of old men in long coats. They tend to be well run, clean and safe environments of which everyone is expected to be respectful and majority if not all. - operate a no bull policy! Any problems and you’re gone!!! And to right as well!
If you choose VA as your first, it’s a good choice, VA is clean, good facilities and great clientele. Management are always watching to make sure no undesirables are present and any sign of trouble, they’re on it very quickly.
While it’s more open than most clubs, the play areas are spacious, and they do off a couples only retreat, should you wish to have some time out 
The bar is well stocked and hand a very friendly vibe, at weekends it offers some music, creating a more club like feel to it.
As any single, couple etc, the key to any successful and memorable attendance is communication. Talk to people, everyone’s friendly, no one’s going to be rude. Even if there’s no play involved, it’s about talking. the amount Of single guys, females and couples I chat too and they say, no one talks to them! it’s a two way thing, engage and people will engage back. And IF you wish to engage in more, ask! It’s as simple and straight forward as that “would you like to play?” And if it’s a no thanks, then fine, don’t take it personally - couple be for many reasons. As well as they don’t feel a click, or they may just be there to watch, or perhaps have Already played and are knackered!
Go with an open mind, no one judges, all body types are excepted and wear what you feel comfortable in. Usually women dress down, but no always. Men tend to wrap a towel around themselves.
There are clubs up and down the county, but the mind set tends to be the same. Relax, enjoy, no means no! And talk!
Enjoy guys |
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