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Wondering a)- what to wear? and b)- if there should wristbands for nervous newbies hahahaha!
Speaking to loads of people on Fab who say come speak to us but as soon as you arrive you don’t recognise anyone from the FAB profiles
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"Wondering a)- what to wear? and b)- if there should wristbands for nervous newbies hahahaha!
Speaking to loads of people on Fab who say come speak to us but as soon as you arrive you don’t recognise anyone from the FAB profiles
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We do have wrist bands if you would like to use them this way ? Xx |
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"Wondering a)- what to wear? and b)- if there should wristbands for nervous newbies hahahaha!
Speaking to loads of people on Fab who say come speak to us but as soon as you arrive you don’t recognise anyone from the FAB profiles
We do have wrist bands if you would like to use them this way ? Xx "
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"Any advice for newbies to the scene?! This will be my first swingers event! Any do’s or don’ts a newbie should be aware of?  "
Dont get too d*unk, relax and talk to people and have fun & remember no means no |
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Original OP here- interesting you do have wristbands- my husband and I always joke that a wristband system would be great! Especially for Newbies - come talk to me we are nervous  hahaha
The difficulty will be working out what different colour wristbands would stand for …
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Hi everyone, myself and Tara are looking forward to this, very excited and very nervous!! It’s our first club event , so Tara surely will be taking advantage of the newbie bracelet! Haha. We probably will be the shy couple at the bar, please come and say hi! Let’s see if you can spot Tara’s back tattoo we are shy, but we are naughty. We are looking forward to meeting some new faces and making new friends xx |
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"Yes. We are nervous ( don’t have a couples profile ). Biggest worry for us is if we see someone we know  "
Just remember if you do then your are all here for the same reason just respect the privacy of others peoples “Public Life” so we can all keep enjoying their “private lives”
I will make sure we have wrist bands ready for newbies should they wish to wear one that is xx |
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By *izredCouple
over a year ago
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"Any advice for newbies to the scene?! This will be my first swingers event! Any do’s or don’ts a newbie should be aware of? "
Don't get too d*unk.
Saying No really works.
Try to talk to as many people as you can.
Set your own boundaries but be aware that you may want to flex them on the night.
There will be a lot of new/ relatively new people there so don't think you are on your own.
Chat to a few people on here first so that you have some friendly faces to look out for on the night.
Should be an amazing night, we can't wait |
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That's a great list for newbies 
We would add.. Think of it as a house party that some people choose to have sex at, later. It's up to you if you do. Do as little or as much as you want.
Just chat to some sexy people and go home. All fine. Try out a playroom, just the two of you. Fine. Or invite others to join you. Also fine. It's all up to you. No pressure to do anything you don't want to. And if anyone is a bit too forward or is pushing one of your boundaries, a simple no thanks is all it will take.
You'll have a lovely evening, whatever you choose to do |
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"That's a great list for newbies
We would add.. Think of it as a house party that some people choose to have sex at, later. It's up to you if you do. Do as little or as much as you want.
Just chat to some sexy people and go home. All fine. Try out a playroom, just the two of you. Fine. Or invite others to join you. Also fine. It's all up to you. No pressure to do anything you don't want to. And if anyone is a bit too forward or is pushing one of your boundaries, a simple no thanks is all it will take.
You'll have a lovely evening, whatever you choose to do "
What sound advice. Totally agree, love to attend one of your house party's.  |
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The best way to see is it come for the social, stay for the swing. Always discuss boundary’s not just yours but the people you are planing to play with then you can be confident in play you all agree. There should never be any pressure to play so most importantly enjoy yourselves xx
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We are really looking forward to it! Only the second venue we have been to! Knowing the super sexy hosts from other events is making a lot less nervy! Can't wait for some sexy fun! Meeting new people and some faces we already know!!! We are staying at Exeter Court, breakfast the next morning will be hilarious!  |
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"Original OP here- interesting you do have wristbands- my husband and I always joke that a wristband system would be great! Especially for Newbies - come talk to me we are nervous hahaha
The difficulty will be working out what different colour wristbands would stand for …
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Just as an aside, I'm severely colour blind. So colour coded wrist bands are a nightmare for me |
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Our first event was a nightmare... we both drank way too much! The 2nd event we met J hosting and had an amazing times and we've been friends ever since. We always try and speak to people especially if it's their first time. Look forward to meeting you all |
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By *issy_69Woman
over a year ago
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Thank you for all the great advice everyone certainly getting more excited as the days are going on! I’m also staying at the Exeter Court Hotel, so will no doubt be seeing some of you there before hand. Feel free to say Hi, as I’m attending as a single lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've just booked the Exeter court hotel (surprised there was any rooms left lol) Anyone want to share a taxi from there to utopia let us know "
Not looked into taxis but definitely up for sharing as also staying there |
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Just a pre warning there are a few people claiming to be on our guest list that aren’t. The chances are if they are not verified they won’t be coming ( but feel free to message and double check if you have any concerns).
Just a reminder only people on the guest list will be allowed entry. Also please don’t share the address details with anyone as they would have got them directly through us xx |
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"Thank you for all the great advice everyone certainly getting more excited as the days are going on! I’m also staying at the Exeter Court Hotel, so will no doubt be seeing some of you there before hand. Feel free to say Hi, as I’m attending as a single lady "
Hey hun
Few of us single girls are sharing a taxi. Would you like to join us? Drop me a message x |
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"Our first event was a nightmare... we both drank way too much! The 2nd event we met J hosting and had an amazing times and we've been friends ever since. We always try and speak to people especially if it's their first time. Look forward to meeting you all "
Ah we’ve all done the ‘drank too much’… my husband did the first time I took him to a party when we were dating (I was on here as a single girl). He fell asleep on the hosts bed! It was funny!
It’s very common as you’re having a great time and nerves sometimes help to be calmed with a drink or too…
I tend to drink a glass of water in between my alcohol ones now.. and find it helps with my head the next day anyway!
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"Our first event was a nightmare... we both drank way too much! The 2nd event we met J hosting and had an amazing times and we've been friends ever since. We always try and speak to people especially if it's their first time. Look forward to meeting you all
Ah we’ve all done the ‘drank too much’… my husband did the first time I took him to a party when we were dating (I was on here as a single girl). He fell asleep on the hosts bed! It was funny!
It’s very common as you’re having a great time and nerves sometimes help to be calmed with a drink or too…
I tend to drink a glass of water in between my alcohol ones now.. and find it helps with my head the next day anyway!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I gather there is quite a few of us staying in exter Court Hotel.. so could taxi share ! "
I’ve messaged the lovely Club and they said they’re trying to figure out how many of us roiled like the taxi ride from them…
So it’s worth us all messaging them and saying you’d like a ride |
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Going to be a fantastic night at Utopia! My advice for the nervous newbies, is to enjoy those nerves, nothing more thrilling and where’s the fun without that buzz!
Don’t overthink it, wear what you’re comfortable in, and relax, there’s never any pressure to to do more than have a good time whether that’s just chatting, people watching or enjoying sexy times with your partner or with new friends!
We’re all friendly & sociable folk, we started our journey at one of J&G’s parties and now have an amazing network of fab friends, who we can’t wait to catch up with! See you there, can’t wait x |
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"Wondering a)- what to wear? and b)- if there should wristbands for nervous newbies hahahaha!
Speaking to loads of people on Fab who say come speak to us but as soon as you arrive you don’t recognise anyone from the FAB profiles
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Hahaha so true! We had a small house party on sat night and it happened there , so we haven't got a hope in Hell we will remember anyone . X
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were wondering if anyone had plans to get near and then watch the rugby? "
Hoping to watch it in the bar at the Exeter ct Hotel where quite a few of us are staying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We realise people can be nervous as we are how about ice breaker games any thoughts
Spin the bottle? "
I done that at club in past so fun definitely breaks the ice and before long everyone was naked and the fun started will never forget that night. |
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"Hiya
We are also at Exeter Court Hotel, so more than happy to share a mini cab / Coach !!
Judging by the numbers apparently staying there
A&S x"
im 90% sure the club are offering a pick up & drop off service if taxis not available |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just spoke to the Exeter court hotel and they will have to give out keys to people getting back after 11pm. Hope they've got a few! "
That’s funny
And whose wedding party are you going to?  |
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It's incredible how excitement this is creating. Fab has come alive! Starting to wonder who's left that isn't coming. What a great opportunity to connect with new people. And hopefully the first of many Utopia nights to come.. A new venue is born |
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"Just spoke to the Exeter court hotel and they will have to give out keys to people getting back after 11pm. Hope they've got a few! "
We might need a mega WhatsApp/telegram group so those who don't get keys can text the group and hope someone is awake to let us in |
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"Just spoke to the Exeter court hotel and they will have to give out keys to people getting back after 11pm. Hope they've got a few!
We might need a mega WhatsApp/telegram group so those who don't get keys can text the group and hope someone is awake to let us in"
That's a good idea! |
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"Just spoke to the Exeter court hotel and they will have to give out keys to people getting back after 11pm. Hope they've got a few!
We might need a mega WhatsApp/telegram group so those who don't get keys can text the group and hope someone is awake to let us in
That's a good idea! "
I'm happy to try and set something up on one of those platforms |
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"Just spoke to the Exeter court hotel and they will have to give out keys to people getting back after 11pm. Hope they've got a few!
We might need a mega WhatsApp/telegram group so those who don't get keys can text the group and hope someone is awake to let us in
That's a good idea!
I'm happy to try and set something up on one of those platforms "
Include us please |
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"Just spoke to the Exeter court hotel and they will have to give out keys to people getting back after 11pm. Hope they've got a few!
We might need a mega WhatsApp/telegram group so those who don't get keys can text the group and hope someone is awake to let us in
That's a good idea!
I'm happy to try and set something up on one of those platforms "
Add me hun x |
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By *EandLLCouple
over a year ago
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"Going to be a fantastic night at Utopia! My advice for the nervous newbies, is to enjoy those nerves, nothing more thrilling and where’s the fun without that buzz!
Don’t overthink it, wear what you’re comfortable in, and relax, there’s never any pressure to to do more than have a good time whether that’s just chatting, people watching or enjoying sexy times with your partner or with new friends!
We’re all friendly & sociable folk, we started our journey at one of J&G’s parties and now have an amazing network of fab friends, who we can’t wait to catch up with! See you there, can’t wait x "
Excellent advice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just spoke to the Exeter court hotel and they will have to give out keys to people getting back after 11pm. Hope they've got a few!
We might need a mega WhatsApp/telegram group so those who don't get keys can text the group and hope someone is awake to let us in
That's a good idea! "
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By *ooianCouple
over a year ago
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"Just spoke to the Exeter court hotel and they will have to give out keys to people getting back after 11pm. Hope they've got a few! "
We are also staying at the Exeter Court hotel so would appreciate being included in the WhatsApp for keys and more
Don’t fancy sleeping in the car x |
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By *issy_69Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok I'll set it up on telegram, then people don't have to share their phone numbers.
If you want to be added, please message me your telegram name
Sent telegram to you x"
I’d like to be added but don’t have telegram  |
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By *ooianCouple
over a year ago
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"Ok I'll set it up on telegram, then people don't have to share their phone numbers.
If you want to be added, please message me your telegram name
Sent telegram to you x
I’d like to be added but don’t have telegram "
Can you message us please as we can’t message you as outside your range I’ve set up telegram x |
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"Ok I'll set it up on telegram, then people don't have to share their phone numbers.
If you want to be added, please message me your telegram name
Sent telegram to you x
I’d like to be added but don’t have telegram "
If you have a smartphone it's really easy to down load and set up.
Anyone whose said they'd like to be added. I've messaged you the joining link |
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By *issy_69Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok I'll set it up on telegram, then people don't have to share their phone numbers.
If you want to be added, please message me your telegram name
Sent telegram to you x
I’d like to be added but don’t have telegram
If you have a smartphone it's really easy to down load and set up.
Anyone whose said they'd like to be added. I've messaged you the joining link "
I’ve just downloaded telegram, please can you send me through the link |
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"Ok I'll set it up on telegram, then people don't have to share their phone numbers.
If you want to be added, please message me your telegram name
Sent telegram to you x
I’d like to be added but don’t have telegram
If you have a smartphone it's really easy to down load and set up.
Anyone whose said they'd like to be added. I've messaged you the joining link
I’ve just downloaded telegram, please can you send me through the link"
I can't message you |
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We remember our first club as newbies, deer in headlights comes to mind! Looking forward to tonight, we love chatting and making friends so looking forward to a good social and maybe some play if we meet the right people. If not we will enjoy some ourselves. See you all later and feel free to chat. X |
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"We remember our first club as newbies, deer in headlights comes to mind! Looking forward to tonight, we love chatting and making friends so looking forward to a good social and maybe some play if we meet the right people. If not we will enjoy some ourselves. See you all later and feel free to chat. X"
Literally how I feel... I'm talking myself out of going lol |
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"We remember our first club as newbies, deer in headlights comes to mind! Looking forward to tonight, we love chatting and making friends so looking forward to a good social and maybe some play if we meet the right people. If not we will enjoy some ourselves. See you all later and feel free to chat. X
Literally how I feel... I'm talking myself out of going lol"
Nooooo you'll be fine! Plenty of friendly people and some lovely single ladies on this thread. We can all band together (what's a group of single ladies called?).
Are you staying at the hotel? Plenty of people to pre-medt with. Think of it as a regular party. Where people might take their clothes off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We'll both be there.
Hopefully the newbies all have a good first experience, all of the single guys are super respectful and on their best behaviour but most importantly everyone there all has a great time socially with the possibility of more if they want too 
Know some people have put in some hard work to make the new Utopia club and opening night happen so big thanks to all of them as often it's a thankless job so big thanks and good luck as we are looking forward to meny more events to come
Looking forward to seeing friends and hopefully making a few new ones so If you fancy saying hello to us then please feel free. |
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Congratulations to J & G for evidently organising a fab party. We didn't go but we'll be there for the fetish event next month.
I'm assuming as its in Chudleigh it was held at the venue that we used to go to 7/8 years ago?
Glad everyone seems to have had such a great time x |
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