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Looking to go to Bitastic at greenhouse next Tuesday
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"Hi looking to attend Bitastic greenhouse in Luton
On Tuesday night it will be my first time at a club and just looking for other people that have been some help please information ? "
What help or information are you looking for? The place is very easy to find, though parking can be a bit of a nightmare (I don't drive so can't give you any tips regarding it). It's a spa-based club so you dress down on arrival. Towels are provided, but you can also walk around in your underwear. I'd suggest some flipflops or similar for your feet at all times, some areas can get wet.
Bring your own condoms and lube, and be prepared for a "sausage fest", with barely any women or couples around. People are (mostly) nice in there, some can get a bit too desperate and turn predatory (unless that only happens to women). If things get too much, there is a TV lounge for relaxation only, or the bar downstairs.
If you have any more questions, you can send me a message. |
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"I’m thinking of going tonight anyone else up for going?
It's not a bi night tonight, just a regular night for gay and bisexual men. Bi night there is on Tuesdays. "
Yes, so there’d be plenty of guys there just no women is that what you’re saying? |
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"I’m thinking of going tonight anyone else up for going?
It's not a bi night tonight, just a regular night for gay and bisexual men. Bi night there is on Tuesdays.
Yes, so there’d be plenty of guys there just no women is that what you’re saying? "
Yes, that's what I'm saying. But as long as you're aware of that and still happy to go, enjoy  . |
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"I’m thinking of going tonight anyone else up for going?
It's not a bi night tonight, just a regular night for gay and bisexual men. Bi night there is on Tuesdays.
Yes, so there’d be plenty of guys there just no women is that what you’re saying?
Yes, that's what I'm saying. But as long as you're aware of that and still happy to go, enjoy . "
Yes, definitely Hun. That’s why I would like to go but I’m a bit intrigued if it was a bi
Surely the women don’t play with the men there anyway, the women play with the women ? |
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"I’m thinking of going tonight anyone else up for going?
It's not a bi night tonight, just a regular night for gay and bisexual men. Bi night there is on Tuesdays.
Yes, so there’d be plenty of guys there just no women is that what you’re saying?
Yes, that's what I'm saying. But as long as you're aware of that and still happy to go, enjoy . Yes, definitely Hun. That’s why I would like to go but I’m a bit intrigued if it was a bi
Surely the women don’t play with the men there anyway, the women play with the women ? "
You have the wrong idea about what a bi night is, I think. Most bi nights/bi events are geared towards bi men, not bi ladies, as ladies play is perfectly acceptable, even sought after, on a regular night, whereas male play isn't, sadly. Therefore, bi nights are meant to be the "safe spaces" for men to play with each other, if they wish, without anyone having any right to complain. |
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"I’m thinking of going tonight anyone else up for going?
It's not a bi night tonight, just a regular night for gay and bisexual men. Bi night there is on Tuesdays.
Yes, so there’d be plenty of guys there just no women is that what you’re saying?
Yes, that's what I'm saying. But as long as you're aware of that and still happy to go, enjoy . Yes, definitely Hun. That’s why I would like to go but I’m a bit intrigued if it was a bi
Surely the women don’t play with the men there anyway, the women play with the women ?
You have the wrong idea about what a bi night is, I think. Most bi nights/bi events are geared towards bi men, not bi ladies, as ladies play is perfectly acceptable, even sought after, on a regular night, whereas male play isn't, sadly. Therefore, bi nights are meant to be the "safe spaces" for men to play with each other, if they wish, without anyone having any right to complain. "
Okay, thank you. I think I understand a bit better now. But you know what some guys are like they will think because they can play with them |
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Every time a female enters the building there’s a train of men following. You do see men playing on occasion but this mainly happens in locked rooms or the gloryholes.
I’ve been on my own a single guy to get a scope of the place and I don’t think I’d attend with mrs unless we agreed to attend with other likeminded couples. I would he way to intense.
I can say this as I’ve seen the herds of men following the one couple or even standing by the window of the couples room jerking off.
Hope this helps |
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"Every time a female enters the building there’s a train of men following. You do see men playing on occasion but this mainly happens in locked rooms or the gloryholes.
I’ve been on my own a single guy to get a scope of the place and I don’t think I’d attend with mrs unless we agreed to attend with other likeminded couples. I would he way to intense. Yes, thank you and I think that standard most men think entitled to women just because they go
I can say this as I’ve seen the herds of men following the one couple or even standing by the window of the couples room jerking off.
Hope this helps "
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By *9smoothMan 39 weeks ago
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"Every time a female enters the building there’s a train of men following. You do see men playing on occasion but this mainly happens in locked rooms or the gloryholes.
I’ve been on my own a single guy to get a scope of the place and I don’t think I’d attend with mrs unless we agreed to attend with other likeminded couples. I would he way to intense.
I can say this as I’ve seen the herds of men following the one couple or even standing by the window of the couples room jerking off.
Hope this helps "
A perfect assessment, arranged meets are the way forward. The wankingdead can very off putting but it's not always like that.
I generally go to enjoy the facilities sauna, steam room, ect, any play is a optional bonus |
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"Hi looking to attend Bitastic greenhouse in Luton
On Tuesday night it will be my first time at a club and just looking for other people that have been some help please information ? "
Car park few minutes walk away. Put Crawley Rd car park in sat nav |
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"Are there many MF couples that go on a Tuesday? We know it’s impossible to predict how busy / many there will be, but just after a rough idea x"
It varies, based on time of day/evening, weather ......... I've been there when no couples were in and when 2 to 3 were in. It's basically a lottery. Best to show interest on this forum beforehand and see if any couples respond. |
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"Are there many MF couples that go on a Tuesday? We know it’s impossible to predict how busy / many there will be, but just after a rough idea x"
Went last week and only 2/3 couples there the time I was there from 12.30-4.30
About 20 blokes in that time
Was NYE though |
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"That’s great thanks all - we just wanted the gay sauna atmosphere where females are allowed in so they can watch their boyfriends / husbands x"
Sadly, you're not very likely to achieve that there. As most men are not bi. |
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Ah ok - thanks for letting us know x
"That’s great thanks all - we just wanted the gay sauna atmosphere where females are allowed in so they can watch their boyfriends / husbands x
Sadly, you're not very likely to achieve that there. As most men are not bi. "
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"That’s great thanks all - we just wanted the gay sauna atmosphere where females are allowed in so they can watch their boyfriends / husbands x
Sadly, you're not very likely to achieve that there. As most men are not bi. "
Did you mean that most of the men there aren't interested in engaging in male on male sex? I know it's a fairly widespread issue, where straight men enter bi spaces, in order to get access to women. |
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"That’s great thanks all - we just wanted the gay sauna atmosphere where females are allowed in so they can watch their boyfriends / husbands x
Sadly, you're not very likely to achieve that there. As most men are not bi.
Did you mean that most of the men there aren't interested in engaging in male on male sex? I know it's a fairly widespread issue, where straight men enter bi spaces, in order to get access to women. "
Exactly that, unfortunately. |
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That’s what we have found - they ‘try’ to play with me but have no chance lol x
"That’s great thanks all - we just wanted the gay sauna atmosphere where females are allowed in so they can watch their boyfriends / husbands x
Sadly, you're not very likely to achieve that there. As most men are not bi.
Did you mean that most of the men there aren't interested in engaging in male on male sex? I know it's a fairly widespread issue, where straight men enter bi spaces, in order to get access to women.
Exactly that, unfortunately. "
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"Whwn ive been there been just guys and lots of mm play "
It should be no surprise on a bi day, that there's MM sex, in the absence of others. It's not a straight club, for the event, it merely introduces other genders, into the MM mix |
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"Whwn ive been there been just guys and lots of mm play
It should be no surprise on a bi day, that there's MM sex, in the absence of others. It's not a straight club, for the event, it merely introduces other genders, into the MM mix"
Absolutely! I’ve seen plenty of bi MMF play when I’ve been there before! Am sure there will be lots today as well! |
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"I’m looking to attend here on Tuesday.
Quick question, what time does this place open for fun on Tuesdays? If 10am, I’m looking to be here from then  "
On Tuesdays, it's open (according to the website) from 10am till midnight. |
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"Thank you Miss Devil
I usually go on Wednesdays but thought I may give this place a go on a Tuesday "
You'll probably have more fun on Wednesdays, when no women are allowed in, as Tuesdays tend to have (or had, when I used to go) loads of straight men and hardly any women or couples. |
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"Thank you Miss Devil
I usually go on Wednesdays but thought I may give this place a go on a Tuesday
You'll probably have more fun on Wednesdays, when no women are allowed in, as Tuesdays tend to have (or had, when I used to go) loads of straight men and hardly any women or couples. "
Oh really? I’ll be honest that’s why I’ve never been on a Tuesday as I hate the thought of guys going and housing women for sex etc. Wanna have a proper good bi time |
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"I’m planning to try this week Tuesday or Thursday. I want to try the glory holes. I have broken ribs so probs safest option to protect them lol
K d"
I'll be there tomorrow, hopefully see you then x  |
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"4th of Feb - thanks for noticing although it got your attending _iss devil didn’t it! "
It may have got my attention, or I was just being picky? Anyway, I am not planning on going any time soon, if at all. |
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"Guy on phone told me because women are allowed to attend this event on Tuesdays, they ask everyone for genuine id for their safety
That put me off attending "
I don't understand what your problem is? I get that some people prefer to be discreet, but the sauna, as a business, have to follow the law, including GDPR. Probably the member of staff should have explained it that way, rather than saying "there are women attending, it's for their safety".
When I attended for the first time a few years ago, they were already asking for ID on first visit, and £1 for membership. Are they now asking for ID on every visit? |
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By *WV9715Man 2 weeks ago
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"Guy on phone told me because women are allowed to attend this event on Tuesdays, they ask everyone for genuine id for their safety
That put me off attending
I don't understand what your problem is? I get that some people prefer to be discreet, but the sauna, as a business, have to follow the law, including GDPR. Probably the member of staff should have explained it that way, rather than saying "there are women attending, it's for their safety".
When I attended for the first time a few years ago, they were already asking for ID on first visit, and £1 for membership. Are they now asking for ID on every visit? "
They don't ask for ID at any other sauna. I stopped going to the Greenhouse because of them asking for ID and much prefer the(long) journey to Northwich. |
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"Guy on phone told me because women are allowed to attend this event on Tuesdays, they ask everyone for genuine id for their safety
That put me off attending
I don't understand what your problem is? I get that some people prefer to be discreet, but the sauna, as a business, have to follow the law, including GDPR. Probably the member of staff should have explained it that way, rather than saying "there are women attending, it's for their safety".
When I attended for the first time a few years ago, they were already asking for ID on first visit, and £1 for membership. Are they now asking for ID on every visit? "
They are entitled to do whatever they want, I really don't care why their reasons are or whether they are justified
All I care about is not having my personal details on someone else server that could one day be hacked and released for all to see. |
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