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By *osie xo OP Woman
over a year ago
Market Weighton |
Hello 
My friend and I are considering going to a club in Leeds for the first time. We are fairly experienced in the swinging lifestyle, we've just never attended a club before.
Just wondered if anybody perhaps had experience of the two clubs in Leeds, and which is best for first timers? We are a little nervous so somewhere friendly would be great where we can just go at our own pace.
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Quest is a smaller club. However Pandoras is a huge club. As to social surprising we've found people far more forthcoming and easy to get on with in Pandoras. Also Pandoras is more of a night out in our experience.
So as for which is better for first timers I think a lot depends on what sort of first time experience you want? Quest is good from a point of view there nowhere to hide and your totally immersed. Pandoras is better if you want to socialise, watch, be involved but also the option to find your own space. Also the wet area in Pandoras (swinging pool and jacuzzi) is a great chilled space to socialise. Especially if your in the mood to dare socialising with others with your clothes off but maybe not ready to take things upstairs. It's a lovely open space next to the bar/lounge area and always a good laugh. Quest has a jacuzzi and it's nice but it's just put out of the way in a dark corner of the club. Quest's wet area just doesn't have the same feel or atmosphere of Pandoras in our opinion.
However either club you'll be fine as newbies and very welcome. Just ensure you let them know this is completely new and get a tour. |
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I find quest can be a bit clicky was ok when I was more on the club scene now I been off it a few years I see what people mean.
I never found that with Pandora.
Both good club’s personal preference is pandora |
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Both are excellent clubs but very different, Pandoras is huge on 3 levels with loads of different rooms but when it's not a party night can feel rather empty and lacking in atmosphere. Quest is much more intimate but is a lovely little club with lovely owners, the only slight criticism of it is occasionally it can feel a bit clicky if a crowd who all know each other are in . For a first time I'd probably go to quest but if Pandoras have a party night on that sounds dun possibly go to that x |
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I went to Pandora's for the first time yesterday, it's a nice place with lots of rooms and fun to be had, however, it was almost dead. Luckily I found a couple of regulars who were very friendly, gorgeous and a lot of fun! So it was well worth it in the end x |
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By *G85Woman
over a year ago
Harrogate |
So I have been to both lots of times and I agree with most comments. I adored quest and it was my go to club however there was an incident with my friend and a guy and it wasn't taken seriously and unfortunately I as a single female no longer feel safe there. She made a complaint and heard nothing. Very disappointed. Pandora on the other hand had her in reassuring her and us of safety measures. It is a big club but as someone said above all u need is q couple of regs and its a great night.
10th should be a good night too have fun stay safe xx |
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1 million percent Pandoras especially as a single female!
Club is extremely clean, it's over 3 floors so lots of variety and the as a submissive this club has the best dungeon by far! I have never tried quest although it was on my list of clubs to visit until recently when a female friend of mine had a very scary and unprovoked experience in there and quest did nothing about it!
Pandoras all the way for me |
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I was the girl that was threatened with assault in quest for rejecting someone in the smoking area. Staff knew and witnessed it and expected me to leave the premises rather than the attacker, the attacker themselves told people it was because I rejected them so there was no doubt about who was at fault. There was also plenty of witnesses. The man in question (who was part of a couple) was allowed to remain in the club after I left and I heard afterwards that he had been aggressive towards others also.
I had been a member of quest since 2016 with no arguments, no drama - and yet the paid staff and owners did not even give me the time to respond to my official complaint let alone be concerned about my actual safety on the night.
Since people have heard what happened to me, a few have come out with similar stories leading me to believe that my experience was not just a one off error of judgement on the part of the club.
In contrast, the manager of Pandoras took the time to sit down with me in person and reassure me about the steps they take now she is in charge to ensure single women feel safe in a club environment. I don’t think without this I would have returned to clubs. The events I have been to at Pandoras since have had obvious staff presence upstairs in case anything develops and I have felt pretty safe.
I hope I haven’t broken any forum rules sharing this, as I feel safety is something that is important to be discussed, especially for women in this lifestyle. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"I went to Pandora's for the first time yesterday, it's a nice place with lots of rooms and fun to be had, however, it was almost dead. Luckily I found a couple of regulars who were very friendly, gorgeous and a lot of fun! So it was well worth it in the end x"
Sunday nights in most clubs are quieter and with a club as big as Pandora it takes a lot of people to make it busy. Glad you enjoyed your night though!
I now host parties in Pandora and have never been to Quest as a Pandora host I am apparently unable to now attend Quest which is a shame as I would like to try all clubs. |
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"I went to Pandora's for the first time yesterday, it's a nice place with lots of rooms and fun to be had, however, it was almost dead. Luckily I found a couple of regulars who were very friendly, gorgeous and a lot of fun! So it was well worth it in the end x
Sunday nights in most clubs are quieter and with a club as big as Pandora it takes a lot of people to make it busy. Glad you enjoyed your night though!
I now host parties in Pandora and have never been to Quest as a Pandora host I am apparently unable to now attend Quest which is a shame as I would like to try all clubs. "
This!!!!  |
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Personally, we prefer Quest, just better to get chatting to people, no waiting for drinks to be served, more intimate chatty atmosphere and its big plus wearing heels, no stairs and no dangerous trip hazard carpets or slippy floors. pandoras is big, so obviously more people, longer to wait for drinks, 100's of stairs, harder to meet people really. BUT does have a good dance floor and good music... depends what you want from the night really. |
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