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"New couple on this site and scene and need advice about going to swinging clubs ? Annexe or jaydees
Any help would be so appreciated "
I would highly recommend jaydees we travel 3 to 4 hrs each way as we just love everything about this club.. The staff are amazing very friendly and always happy to help .Just by reading the reviews will give you an idea of what the club is like .. feel free to message us if you have any questions  |
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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
Hi! We went to Jaydees for the first time last weekend, we were SO nervous about going but we couldn’t of been made to feel more welcomed than we did! Everyone was friendly, happy and chatty! It really is a great place, so much so that we’re going back on Friday and potentially the weekend after too! Haha x |
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over a year ago
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We're probably going on Friday 11th for the newby night. We've been to VA twice, however I understand that Jaydees is a very different type of club experience.
We're still very much nervous newbys so hopeful that could be a good night to go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I took myself to Jaydee’s by myself as a club newbie a few weekends back. I felt so welcome, especially but staff but by members alike. So much so that I went back the Saturday night and the following Friday and Saturday. I can’t personally comment on any other clubs but for me Jaydee’s is the place to be. I feel safe, loved and happy there and have made some life long friends. Just make sure that you try Jaydee’s, even if it’s not this time as you’ll love it! I promise! |
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"I took myself to Jaydee’s by myself as a club newbie a few weekends back. I felt so welcome, especially but staff but by members alike. So much so that I went back the Saturday night and the following Friday and Saturday. I can’t personally comment on any other clubs but for me Jaydee’s is the place to be. I feel safe, loved and happy there and have made some life long friends. Just make sure that you try Jaydee’s, even if it’s not this time as you’ll love it! I promise! "
Take it u liked it as a single women |
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"We're probably going on Friday 11th for the newby night. We've been to VA twice, however I understand that Jaydees is a very different type of club experience.
We're still very much nervous newbys so hopeful that could be a good night to go."
Be interesting to hear how they are different and how they compare!
Hope you have a good time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I took myself to Jaydee’s by myself as a club newbie a few weekends back. I felt so welcome, especially but staff but by members alike. So much so that I went back the Saturday night and the following Friday and Saturday. I can’t personally comment on any other clubs but for me Jaydee’s is the place to be. I feel safe, loved and happy there and have made some life long friends. Just make sure that you try Jaydee’s, even if it’s not this time as you’ll love it! I promise!
Take it u liked it as a single women"
I loved it! I felt safer there dancing in my underwear (which you absolutely don’t have to!) then I do when I go out in my local town! The whole experience was so liberating and gave me such a buzz, I’m addicted |
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"New couple on this site and scene and need advice about going to swinging clubs ? Annexe or jaydees
Any help would be so appreciated "
Depends if "your face fits" at Jaydees to have fun and feel welcomed. Don't know if Annexe is better. |
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"New couple on this site and scene and need advice about going to swinging clubs ? Annexe or jaydees
Any help would be so appreciated "
Have a read through of the reviews. There’s over 2000 on Jaydees so they can’t be all wrong!  |
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One visit to Jaydees is never enough
There is NO clickiness and everyone talks to everyone .. as the above post says.. over 2000 reviews cant be wrong!
Be open, be honest, be respectful and most importantly be YOU! And you will have a blast ! |
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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"One visit to Jaydees is never enough
There is NO clickiness and everyone talks to everyone .. as the above post says.. over 2000 reviews cant be wrong!
Be open, be honest, be respectful and most importantly be YOU! And you will have a blast ! "
I agree! Been once and we’re hooked! |
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Totally on my to do list. Dying to get over and experience it. Is there set nights or anything that a single guy needs to do to get to it it? Always wanted to visit a UK club. Altho my accent may make them wonder what I'm saying haha. |
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"Totally on my to do list. Dying to get over and experience it. Is there set nights or anything that a single guy needs to do to get to it it? Always wanted to visit a UK club. Altho my accent may make them wonder what I'm saying haha."
At Jaydees there are single guys permitted both Saturdays and Fridays. You need to email the club beforehand to get on the list and pay a deposit |
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There's been many other fabbers who disagreed with the positive reviews. I think you go to what ever club that you like the sound of and see. I tried it and it wasn't at all like others described. But I tried it to know this. |
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"There's been many other fabbers who disagreed with the positive reviews. I think you go to what ever club that you like the sound of and see. I tried it and it wasn't at all like others described. But I tried it to know this."
Totally agree but you have decided NO swinging club is for you so it is more to do with the context of a club than any actual club so any opinion is going to be negative on any club regardless of the club itself. I have attended many and all have their good and not so good aspects, I do not blanket review neither do I have one experience and believe my opinion is total truth, opinion is a personal thing and I wish you all the best in your swinging journey |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's been many other fabbers who disagreed with the positive reviews. I think you go to what ever club that you like the sound of and see. I tried it and it wasn't at all like others described. But I tried it to know this.
Totally agree but you have decided NO swinging club is for you so it is more to do with the context of a club than any actual club so any opinion is going to be negative on any club regardless of the club itself. I have attended many and all have their good and not so good aspects, I do not blanket review neither do I have one experience and believe my opinion is total truth, opinion is a personal thing and I wish you all the best in your swinging journey "
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"There's been many other fabbers who disagreed with the positive reviews. I think you go to what ever club that you like the sound of and see. I tried it and it wasn't at all like others described. But I tried it to know this."
I've been following your reviews on Jaydees and the forums, and after attending Jaydees for a year and visiting other clubs, I can see that lifestyle clubs are not for you. You have left your comments and your view for everyone to read, but it seems that you continue to slat the club at every opportunity. We were at the Halloween evening, and it was extremely busy, and throughout the evening, newbies were introduced to us by the excellent staff, and we chatted to each. We have never felt more welcome and valued than at Jaydees and the amazing people. Good luck in finding what to are looking for. |
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"There's been many other fabbers who disagreed with the positive reviews. I think you go to what ever club that you like the sound of and see. I tried it and it wasn't at all like others described. But I tried it to know this.
I've been following your reviews on Jaydees and the forums, and after attending Jaydees for a year and visiting other clubs, I can see that lifestyle clubs are not for you. You have left your comments and your view for everyone to read, but it seems that you continue to slat the club at every opportunity. We were at the Halloween evening, and it was extremely busy, and throughout the evening, newbies were introduced to us by the excellent staff, and we chatted to each. We have never felt more welcome and valued than at Jaydees and the amazing people. Good luck in finding what to are looking for. "
Yeah we are looking around for a good social with fun |
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"Totally on my to do list. Dying to get over and experience it. Is there set nights or anything that a single guy needs to do to get to it it? Always wanted to visit a UK club. Altho my accent may make them wonder what I'm saying haha.
At Jaydees there are single guys permitted both Saturdays and Fridays. You need to email the club beforehand to get on the list and pay a deposit "
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"There's been many other fabbers who disagreed with the positive reviews. I think you go to what ever club that you like the sound of and see. I tried it and it wasn't at all like others described. But I tried it to know this."
I've said this before and I'll say it again, no two nights are the same at Jaydees, you want on one of the busiest nights of the year and was lost among the sea of people, I can guarantee if you had gone on maby a newbie night, it would have been a completely different experience for you, but hay looks like you have made up your mind witch is a real shame |
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"New couple on this site and scene and need advice about going to swinging clubs ? Annexe or jaydees
Any help would be so appreciated "
Jaydees all day long, it's somewhere you can go meet lots of friendly new people, party you socks off and come away with friends for life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Can we ask, do you need to be more like proper Swingers to consider going to one of these clubs?
Like, is it less suitable for soft swap same room couples, who only occasionally meet/play with others?? |
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"Can we ask, do you need to be more like proper Swingers to consider going to one of these clubs?
Like, is it less suitable for soft swap same room couples, who only occasionally meet/play with others?? "
I'd be comfortable taking some of my vanilla friends that are couples to Jaydees for a night of partying on the dance floor, it really is a friendly, no pressure environment.
I can't speak for anywhere else though. |
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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago
St Neots/Wisbech |
"Can we ask, do you need to be more like proper Swingers to consider going to one of these clubs?
Like, is it less suitable for soft swap same room couples, who only occasionally meet/play with others?? "
Jaydees is a no pressure and very inclusive club. Like most other things in life, if you arrive with an open mind and no expectations, everything becomes a bonus. Everyone who comes along enjoys the evening because they go at their own pace. The team are excellent at making you feel welcome, happy to answer questions and generally make your experience one to remember.
The reviews will give you a very good indication of how your evening will go.
R & H x |
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"Can we ask, do you need to be more like proper Swingers to consider going to one of these clubs?
Like, is it less suitable for soft swap same room couples, who only occasionally meet/play with others?? "
We’ve been many many times and not even played with each other as being social is what felt right at the time. The bonus with Jaydees is that the open play is upstairs and so can be avoided if it’s not your thing (however there may be less noticeable open play downstairs at some point as well).
The private rooms downstairs allow a space to do what you want behind closed doors.
All in all swingers clubs are inclusive for everyone but to me Jaydees ticks every box |
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that sounds great 
