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"Yea most definitely limit the numbers and yes single men should always be charged more, I think couple should get a reduced rate and single females always be free. I’d say couple should pay half the cost of a SM And as I said single female at the most pay quarter of the SM fee. This enable clubs not to get overrun and lose the enjoyment." What that pricing structure encourages is single guys going in with single ladies as a couple to save money, and then leaving them once there in there. I mostly go to Club play and it's the same price for couples as it is for single guys so it's of no benefit price wise for a guy to go in as a couple. | |||
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" What that pricing structure encourages is single guys going in with single ladies as a couple to save money, and then leaving them once there in there. " Yeah! There's always a queue of single ladies outside waiting for all the single guys to take them in - not!  | |||
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 Seriously, I can end up spending less than girls!  | |||
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"As a single man, I much prefer if the entry is higher for us than for couples and ladies. I'm not into "gangbang setups", so I prefer the parties when we guys don't outnumber girls. And clubs are businesses, not charities, they need to make their money. Especially during these times, when their bills will hit the sky... You can't save money on heating when you run a swinger club... So, how else could they make some money and still encourage couples and ladies to attend, if not by charging single men a bit more? Plenty of men want to go to clubs, there will be always enough who are happy to pay the price. (And I'm not rich by any means, but I rather go to a bit more expensive but good party once a month than to "sausage-fests" weekly...) Those who feel they have entitled to anything more coz they paid more at the door should not be allowed in clubs anyway. The best practice that I met so far is OP4F's policy for Saturday night. Only 5 single men are allowed, you need to apply upfront for a ticket, and only those will be chosen who are known for following not only the hard rules but the etiquette too. The crowd usually "soaks up" those 5 men. There are usually 20-30 couples and 2-3 single girls, so those, who are not looking for lonely men, won't be approached every second minute. Though those who are looking for an extra guy, or single straight girls who want men can find what they are looking for too. Win-Win. Of course, financially it's only possible if we men pay more, but good things always come with a price. Anyway, if I calculate the price of beauticians, hairdressers, sexy lingerie, etc, ladies probably still spend more on the night than me. I just take a shower, jump into a clean shirt, and pair of trousers, brush my teeth and off to go. Seriously, I can end up spending less than girls! "Do you think the income from 5 extra men will really make any difference to the finances of the club ...? | |||
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"Most single women I know are predominantly looking for single guys, so avoid party nights where single guys are limited in number. We like to have a variety and a good chance of finding someone that ticks our boxes, which is much less likely to happen if there is only a couple of chaps let in." THIS! Tbh if there were nights that were just singles I’d go to clubs more. I’m uninterested in couples! | |||
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"Most single women I know are predominantly looking for single guys, so avoid party nights where single guys are limited in number. We like to have a variety and a good chance of finding someone that ticks our boxes, which is much less likely to happen if there is only a couple of chaps let in. THIS! Tbh if there were nights that were just singles I’d go to clubs more. I’m uninterested in couples!" Same here. | |||
"As a club we try not to hit the guys hard on entry. We don't charge membership for anyone as we don't feel people should be tied to just one club. We have had a few nights where we have limited men and found the couples tended to keep to themselves rather than mix however if there were guys in they approached the couples and got the night moving. We have single ladies that visit as they find the place a safe environment to take charge of their own sexuality . Unfortunately clubs have always charged men more but it can also mean that guys have expectations of guaranteed sex." 
A good mix of singles , especially guys gives a much better vibe in my experience as a single and a couple.
If it's a mixed night you get a lot of couples looking for guys ..and the guys are extremely sociable in my experience and if a couple isn't interested they aren't pestered and can meet other couples and generally enjoy the vibe ... | |||
"Yea most definitely limit the numbers and yes single men should always be charged more, I think couple should get a reduced rate and single females always be free. I’d say couple should pay half the cost of a SM And as I said single female at the most pay quarter of the SM fee. This enable clubs not to get overrun and lose the enjoyment. What that pricing structure encourages is single guys going in with single ladies as a couple to save money, and then leaving them once there in there. I mostly go to Club play and it's the same price for couples as it is for single guys so it's of no benefit price wise for a guy to go in as a couple." But is a SM goes in with a SF as a couple does that not keep the ratio men to women to couples at an even keel rather than having more single men than anyone else? | |||
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"As a single man, I much prefer if the entry is higher for us than for couples and ladies. I'm not into "gangbang setups", so I prefer the parties when we guys don't outnumber girls. And clubs are businesses, not charities, they need to make their money. Especially during these times, when their bills will hit the sky... You can't save money on heating when you run a swinger club... So, how else could they make some money and still encourage couples and ladies to attend, if not by charging single men a bit more? Plenty of men want to go to clubs, there will be always enough who are happy to pay the price. (And I'm not rich by any means, but I rather go to a bit more expensive but good party once a month than to "sausage-fests" weekly...) Those who feel they have entitled to anything more coz they paid more at the door should not be allowed in clubs anyway. The best practice that I met so far is OP4F's policy for Saturday night. Only 5 single men are allowed, you need to apply upfront for a ticket, and only those will be chosen who are known for following not only the hard rules but the etiquette too. The crowd usually "soaks up" those 5 men. There are usually 20-30 couples and 2-3 single girls, so those, who are not looking for lonely men, won't be approached every second minute. Though those who are looking for an extra guy, or single straight girls who want men can find what they are looking for too. Win-Win. Of course, financially it's only possible if we men pay more, but good things always come with a price. Anyway, if I calculate the price of beauticians, hairdressers, sexy lingerie, etc, ladies probably still spend more on the night than me. I just take a shower, jump into a clean shirt, and pair of trousers, brush my teeth and off to go. Seriously, I can end up spending less than girls!
Do you think the income from 5 extra men will really make any difference to the finances of the club ...? "Well 5 men paying £40 is an extra £200 a night. Depends on the club but that might be difference between making a profit or not or small profit vs larger profit. Margin are tight at lots of these places. If club has 4 events per week that's £800/week or £3.2k/month. That's the wage for the owners. | |||
"THIS! Tbh if there were nights that were just singles I’d go to clubs more. I’m uninterested in couples!" If you move to London, you should try Abfabs, OP4F or LB on Fridays, there are plenty of single men at all of these then. | |||
"THIS! Tbh if there were nights that were just singles I’d go to clubs more. I’m uninterested in couples! If you move to London, you should try Abfabs, OP4F or LB on Fridays, there are plenty of single men at all of these then." Good job I move to London next week then will be checking some clubs out for sure! | |||
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"I also think it's worth adding that single guys are important to the club scene for more than just their financial contributions. Clubs/parties with a reputation for quality gentleman will alway bring in the Ladies (especially the single ones). There are a lot of single ladies who don't want to be some couples Unicorn. Some that want loads of men and some that want a quality encounter one guy at a time but are not looking for couples. Lots of Ladies out there perfectly happy with plenty of guys providing they are decent guys. Does price guarantee quality guys and good experiences for guys. In my experience yes a little but generally no. I'm a member of a club as a couple which is my favourite club but the annual membership for single guys is eye watering and they have limits. The guys there in my experience tend to be better behaved than some other clubs I know but not always and I've seen some really poor behaviour in that club too. Likewise I have been in clubs over run by what you'd say are not the best guys. But I've been to clubs where its cheap for guys yet the ratios are still good and the standards and conduct from the guys is good. So I would say the driving factors when it comes to guys is not price, its the way the club is run, the clientele the club attracts and vibe of the club community that goes there." Absolutely...well said Chams on a Friday night is the best night going....lots of guys girls and couples..great vibe .and it's more or less the same price for a guy as a couple ... | |||
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