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"Anyone from here going? What to expect and bring? "If you haven't been to Jaydees before bring your own booze as they don't have a bar. Also a towel for the hot tub is always a good shout. | |||
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"Bring a fun attitude and a great outfit and you'll have a ball! Even if you only bring a fun attitude you'll still have a ball." Yourself is enough here ... if this is your first taste of a club then you will never be disappointed! We love this place heart and soul bring the fun and savour the night | |||
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"Bring a fun attitude and a great outfit and you'll have a ball! Even if you only bring a fun attitude you'll still have a ball." Does everyone make a big effort? Does it get really warm in the building as I have a full length vampire costume which is quick thick. | |||
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"Bring a fun attitude and a great outfit and you'll have a ball! Even if you only bring a fun attitude you'll still have a ball. Yourself is enough here ... if this is your first taste of a club then you will never be disappointed! We love this place heart and soul bring the fun and savour the night "Yes this be my first pretty much everything to do with swinging, total newbies | |||
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"Bring a fun attitude and a great outfit and you'll have a ball! Even if you only bring a fun attitude you'll still have a ball." Or maybe a pair of balls | |||
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"Bring a fun attitude and a great outfit and you'll have a ball! Even if you only bring a fun attitude you'll still have a ball. Yourself is enough here ... if this is your first taste of a club then you will never be disappointed! We love this place heart and soul bring the fun and savour the night
Yes this be my first pretty much everything to do with swinging, total newbies "In our opinion you could nit choose a better club to dip your toes (or anything else).. such a friendly social vibe that after an hour you'll truly believe you've been here for years!
And the club has air con on the dancefloor, upstairs and patio doors, windows to leave open in other areas and a large open area to cool down so never found it an issue
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"Following as I’m hoping Mr will agree to pop our club cherry for this! "Oh you are most definitely in for a treat. This is one of the pinnacle nights of the year at Jaydee's and is always a massive hit. You've certainly picked a cracker to pop your cherry with. | |||
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"Following as I’m hoping Mr will agree to pop our club cherry for this! "We will keep trying to persuade him won't we Ginge | |||
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"Following as I’m hoping Mr will agree to pop our club cherry for this!
We will keep trying to persuade him won't we Ginge "Haha indeed! He’s been looking for a costume so…. | |||
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"Following as I’m hoping Mr will agree to pop our club cherry for this!
Oh you are most definitely in for a treat. This is one of the pinnacle nights of the year at Jaydee's and is always a massive hit. You've certainly picked a cracker to pop your cherry with. "Ooooo sounds exciting | |||
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"Fancy this too " It'll be a great night. | |||
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"We went last year and wow what a night!!. You are definitely in for some treats "Hope you guys are coming this year too, I can't imagine a party weekend with out you there now | |||
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"We went last year and wow what a night!!. You are definitely in for some treats
Hope you guys are coming this year too, I can't imagine a party weekend with out you there now"Aw thanks 
We will definitely be there. In fact we are driving to Bedford on the Monday just to make sure we get there ok! | |||
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"Fancy this too It'll be a great night. " Can’t wait | |||
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 Halloween is my favourite event x | |||
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"What date is it " 29th October | |||
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"How do I get a ticket? Are they single guys friendly? " The club is yes, so long as you stick to the rules, single guys have to email club and pay a deposit to be put on the list | |||
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"How do I get a ticket? Are they single guys friendly? " The email address can be found in the clubs section | |||
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"What date is it 29th October " Ffs we got a family party | |||
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"How do I get a ticket? Are they single guys friendly? The club is yes, so long as you stick to the rules, single guys have to email club and pay a deposit to be put on the list" Couples can buy tickets at the door though? | |||
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"How do I get a ticket? Are they single guys friendly? The club is yes, so long as you stick to the rules, single guys have to email club and pay a deposit to be put on the list Couples can buy tickets at the door though?" Yes as far as I know it's just single guys that need to book a place, but if your unsure just drop the club an email | |||
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"What date is it 29th October Ffs we got a family party " Anything happening on the Friday before (28th) | |||
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"What date is it 29th October Ffs we got a family party Anything happening on the Friday before (28th)" https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/1368455 | |||
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"What date is it 29th October Ffs we got a family party Anything happening on the Friday before (28th)https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/1368455" Shame not Halloween night | |||
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"Sorry what time are people arriving? I never been before " The club opens at 8.30pm shuts at 2.30am | |||
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"Sorry what time are people arriving? I never been before The club opens at 8.30pm shuts at 2.30am "Thanks we get there for 9ish | |||
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"Could always come along both nights "I’d love to but out on 29th | |||
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"This is going to be one epic night! "If last years party is anything to go by you are in for one amazing night . Be nice to meet you both | |||
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"Does anyone know if the single men tickets have sold out?" Stil a couple available email the club to get them booked in | |||
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"This is going to be one epic night!
If last years party is anything to go by you are in for one amazing night . Be nice to meet you both "We've heard about last year!
Jaydees is such a great club the atmosphere is always awesome . | |||
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"Hoping to go bump in the night! x"I'm sure there will e plenty of bumps | |||
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"Hoping to go bump in the night! x"Can bump into us if you want haha | |||
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"Hoping to go bump in the night! x
Can bump into us if you want haha "Deal x | |||
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"Hoping to go bump in the night! x
I'm sure there will e plenty of bumps"I’m counting on it!! x | |||
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"I still don’t know what to wear…Mr is sorted finally! " Looks like it will just have to be your birthday suit then | |||
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" Looks like it will just have to be your birthday suit then "I know it’s Halloween but I wouldn’t want to scare everyone haha x | |||
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" Looks like it will just have to be your birthday suit then
I know it’s Halloween but I wouldn’t want to scare everyone haha x"Haha i think it would be totally the opposite | |||
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"We are really looking forward to this….costumes are a bit problematic do we may not be on theme x" . There will be many in the same boat. And at jaydees…it makes odds. All are appreciated equally and welcomed simply for attending. What a trick ‘n’ treat Let’s Dance™   | |||
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" Looks like it will just have to be your birthday suit then
I know it’s Halloween but I wouldn’t want to scare everyone haha x
Haha i think it would be totally the opposite "100% agree | |||
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" Looks like it will just have to be your birthday suit then
I know it’s Halloween but I wouldn’t want to scare everyone haha x
Haha i think it would be totally the opposite
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"Anyone doing fri and sat night? " Yep I am | |||
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x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx"You're both treats surely | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx"Who's birthday???? .. need to work out my lap dance routine | |||
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"Anyone doing fri and sat night? " Yup, we are | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx
Who's birthday???? .. need to work out my lap dance routine "If I had to guess I'd say there talking about a certain princess | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx
Who's birthday???? .. need to work out my lap dance routine
If I had to guess I'd say there talking about a certain princess "Aaah yes, totally forgot... ahem... lol  | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx
Who's birthday???? .. need to work out my lap dance routine
If I had to guess I'd say there talking about a certain princess
Aaah yes, totally forgot... ahem... lol "It's also another special ladies birthday on the Friday night too | |||
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"Anyone doing fri and sat night? Yup, we are "Cool | |||
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"Anyone doing fri and sat night? " Of course | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx
Who's birthday???? .. need to work out my lap dance routine
If I had to guess I'd say there talking about a certain princess "Gold star for you ! | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx
You're both treats surely "Haha if only | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx
You're both treats surely "Haha if only | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx
Who's birthday???? .. need to work out my lap dance routine
If I had to guess I'd say there talking about a certain princess
Aaah yes, totally forgot... ahem... lol "#awkward! | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx
You're both treats surely
Haha if only ". Ok you may be right…we have no actual personal evidence to our claims lol | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx
You're both treats surely
Haha if only
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Ok you may be right…we have no actual personal evidence to our claims lol "Haha that can always be rectified | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx"Think there is a few more birthdays aswell now | |||
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"We will be there Sat night to help celebrate a certain persons birthday!! x one of us is the trick the other the treat!!! But who’s who!! :-0 xx"You're both a treat in our eyes | |||
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"What’s the rules on fancy dress? " No rules at all, dress up,don't dress up, dress as anything you want you don't have to stick to the AHS theme  | |||
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"Fantastic news "Can't wait to see you guys! | |||
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"Fantastic news
Can't wait to see you guys! "It's going to be a fantastic night the preparations start tomorrow | |||
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"Fantastic news
Can't wait to see you guys!
It's going to be a fantastic night the preparations start tomorrow "Getting excited now | |||
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"Fantastic news
Can't wait to see you guys!
It's going to be a fantastic night the preparations start tomorrow
Getting excited now "Not "over before it began" excited I hope ? | |||
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"Looks like a saterday night at jaydees then guys" Definitely in for a great one | |||
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"Is EVERYONE dressing up, last minute decision and dont fly BACK to UK till Friday evening.... "Amazon Prime | |||
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"Is EVERYONE dressing up, last minute decision and dont fly BACK to UK till Friday evening.... "Most people will dress up but its optional.. and as you know clothes dont stay on long anyway | |||
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 ((. Have fun, everyone! | |||
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"I was so looking forward to Halloween night at Jaydees but sadly managed to test positive for Covid yesterday ((. Have fun, everyone! "O no sorry to hear that | |||
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"I was so looking forward to Halloween night at Jaydees but sadly managed to test positive for Covid yesterday ((. Have fun, everyone!
O no sorry to hear that "Thank you. At least I'm not poorly with it, feels just like a mild cold. | |||
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"Always a well attended party event of every year. Jaydees Halloween …business as usual "Kind of hoping for unusual | |||
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"Always a well attended party event of every year. Jaydees Halloween …business as usual
Kind of hoping for unusual "Unusual and unexpected great combination | |||
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"Always a well attended party event of every year. Jaydees Halloween …business as usual "My friend thinks it be quiet with couples playing with single men in private rooms. Another words he won't get a chance to look or wank over any couples. He's such a cynic lol | |||
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"Always a well attended party event of every year. Jaydees Halloween …business as usual
My friend thinks it be quiet with couples playing with single men in private rooms. Another words he won't get a chance to look or wank over any couples. He's such a cynic lol"It will be very busy. Has your friend been before? | |||
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"Always a well attended party event of every year. Jaydees Halloween …business as usual
My friend thinks it be quiet with couples playing with single men in private rooms. Another words he won't get a chance to look or wank over any couples. He's such a cynic lol". Tell him if he sees us…feel free to look and have a lil touch of himself. We won’t be hiding..and we are confident all other couples won’t all be playing at the same time and for the entirety of the night lol | |||
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"Always a well attended party event of every year. Jaydees Halloween …business as usual
My friend thinks it be quiet with couples playing with single men in private rooms. Another words he won't get a chance to look or wank over any couples. He's such a cynic lol"It’s normally busy and ppl are always so friendly I can’t wait for tomorrow will be a fantastic night | |||
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"Always a well attended party event of every year. Jaydees Halloween …business as usual
My friend thinks it be quiet with couples playing with single men in private rooms. Another words he won't get a chance to look or wank over any couples. He's such a cynic lol
It’s normally busy and ppl are always so friendly I can’t wait for tomorrow will be a fantastic night "Have to agree it will be busy for sure and definitely the most friendliest club you will ever go to | |||
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"Always a well attended party event of every year. Jaydees Halloween …business as usual
My friend thinks it be quiet with couples playing with single men in private rooms. Another words he won't get a chance to look or wank over any couples. He's such a cynic lol
It’s normally busy and ppl are always so friendly I can’t wait for tomorrow will be a fantastic night
Have to agree it will be busy for sure and definitely the most friendliest club you will ever go to ". Will be jaydees Halloween all over again….MASSIVE! Let’s Dance™ | |||
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"Always a well attended party event of every year. Jaydees Halloween …business as usual
My friend thinks it be quiet with couples playing with single men in private rooms. Another words he won't get a chance to look or wank over any couples. He's such a cynic lol
It will be very busy. Has your friend been before?"No he's just a cynic from all the clubs he's been in the past and the one we went together. There was 25 people in the last one we went to. To us that was quiet | |||
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"Always a well attended party event of every year. Jaydees Halloween …business as usual
My friend thinks it be quiet with couples playing with single men in private rooms. Another words he won't get a chance to look or wank over any couples. He's such a cynic lol
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We won’t be hiding..and we are confident all other couples won’t all be playing at the same time and for the entirety of the night lol "Oh he be happy if couples invite him to look. That make his day as he doesn't get women asking for him lol | |||
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"I was so looking forward to Halloween night at Jaydees but sadly managed to test positive for Covid yesterday ((. Have fun, everyone!
O no sorry to hear that
Thank you. At least I'm not poorly with it, feels just like a mild cold. "I was hoping we come together...Get well soon.xx | |||
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so many sexy people are going it will be a fab night | |||
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"Excited for our first visit! "Your in for treat going to be a amazing night | |||
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"Excited for our first visit!
Your in for treat going to be a amazing night " | |||
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"Hoping to go bump in the night! x
Can bump into us if you want haha
Deal x"And us | |||
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"Does anyone know if it's best to come at 8:30 pm? I also forgotten to bring utility bills to get my membership, will this be a issue?" I'd email the club and check if I was you. | |||
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"Does anyone know if it's best to come at 8:30 pm? I also forgotten to bring utility bills to get my membership, will this be a issue?" Do you have any onliine bills? this may help. Speaking to the club is the best answer | |||
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"I maybe able to go now! I have emailed them and paid a deposit but waiting to hear back " Don't panic. They are very busy and will do their best to accommodate. Yes, it's rich coming from me...irt will be a gret night once you get there. Good luck. | |||
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"I'm going to be brutally honest. I didn't enjoy the night. It really put me off wanting to go club again. But I'm sure the regulars had fun. It was like going to a party that I clearly didn't belong to. Spoke to noone there as everyone stayed in their own bubble. But some people really did well with the costumes. " I'm sorry you felt like that but I've always found Jaydees to be the complete opposite and all the regulars really inclusive especially if they know people are new there, I think if you had been on a quieter night it would have been a complete different story as people would have noticed that you where new and made sure you was included. | |||
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"I'm going to be brutally honest. I didn't enjoy the night. It really put me off wanting to go club again. But I'm sure the regulars had fun. It was like going to a party that I clearly didn't belong to. Spoke to noone there as everyone stayed in their own bubble. But some people really did well with the costumes. I'm sorry you felt like that but I've always found Jaydees to be the complete opposite and all the regulars really inclusive especially if they know people are new there, I think if you had been on a quieter night it would have been a complete different story as people would have noticed that you where new and made sure you was included." Staff introduced us to someone who clearly wasn't interested in talking to us. I don't smoke so going into smoking area wasn't right place. We walked through there but everyone was grouped up with their own friends so sorry I didn't find the place to be very welcoming. | |||
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"I'm going to be brutally honest. I didn't enjoy the night. It really put me off wanting to go club again. But I'm sure the regulars had fun. It was like going to a party that I clearly didn't belong to. Spoke to noone there as everyone stayed in their own bubble. But some people really did well with the costumes. I'm sorry you felt like that but I've always found Jaydees to be the complete opposite and all the regulars really inclusive especially if they know people are new there, I think if you had been on a quieter night it would have been a complete different story as people would have noticed that you where new and made sure you was included. Staff introduced us to someone who clearly wasn't interested in talking to us. I don't smoke so going into smoking area wasn't right place. We walked through there but everyone was grouped up with their own friends so sorry I didn't find the place to be very welcoming." Sorry to hear you feel this way. As someone who attends regularly as a single woman, there's always plenty of people to talk to - if you make the effort. I personally don't wait for people to talk to me and I just say hello, regardless of who's in a group or not or whether I'm smoking or not. I've a fair few single Female friends who don't smoke but still come out and mingle as its quite a social area however there is always the rest of the club. Nevertheless, it's a shame you feel the way you do and hopefully it doesn't put you off clubs altogether. | |||
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"I'm going to be brutally honest. I didn't enjoy the night. It really put me off wanting to go club again. But I'm sure the regulars had fun. It was like going to a party that I clearly didn't belong to. Spoke to noone there as everyone stayed in their own bubble. But some people really did well with the costumes. " That's sad to hear. The club has two different vibes on a Friday and Saturday night. Fridays are more social, so the kitchen will be busy and the room with the couches and chairs. The upstairs area tend to busier then. If you give Friday a chance you will see a different crowd and might have, hopefully a better experience. It can feel like putting your favourite shoes on the wrong feet and that's going to be frustrating. Hope you give the club another chance. | |||
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"I'm going to be brutally honest. I didn't enjoy the night. It really put me off wanting to go club again. But I'm sure the regulars had fun. It was like going to a party that I clearly didn't belong to. Spoke to noone there as everyone stayed in their own bubble. But some people really did well with the costumes. " Oh no that's a shame. No bubbles here honestly. Best crowd on the planet. Shame you felt that way. We were chatting to anyone as we do. Hit us up with a convo! | |||
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"I'm going to be brutally honest. I didn't enjoy the night. It really put me off wanting to go club again. But I'm sure the regulars had fun. It was like going to a party that I clearly didn't belong to. Spoke to noone there as everyone stayed in their own bubble. But some people really did well with the costumes. " I'm sorry you didn't enjoy your visit. Its great to experiment and find out your likes and dislikes but I'm not sure its a fair comment to say everyone was in their own bubbles or to say you didn't feel welcome because people didn't talk to you. Could it be your own confidence made it difficult rather than the clientele? I have been to a few clubs, many times and Jaydees has to be one of the most inclusive environments. The reviews always say 'friendly' 'welcoming and 2000 people can't all be wrong
You develop friendship groups of course, this isn't a bad thing but new friendships start with strangers meeting and talking right?.. you have to start somewhere and to base your thoughts on one introduction that didn't go well is not, in my opinion, a true reflection of the people who go there at all.
Jaydees is famous for newbie nights and pride themselves in making them feel as relaxed and comfortable as possible (we were all newbies once lol)
The staff and others work tirelessly throughout the night and so much more behind the scenes and they always ensure where possible, connections are made to make any newcomers welcome but to be honest this is usually something that occurs naturally rather than a forced introduction as everyone talks to everyone.
Last night was exceptionally busy as you know so even I didn't get round to talking to so many people! Maybe this was also why you felt a little alone or left out.. we are all human and with so many people and things to keep an eye on it was understandable that not everyone got undivided attention but they did their very best to keep all safe which is paramount.
You also said this was your first club visit but your review stated you were more welcomed at another club.
Maybe clubs are not for you and thats absolutely cool, maybe you just need to break out of the nervous shell as to be involved you usually have to get involved
That's the great thing about swinging, experience all and continue what you enjoy
Personal opinion is what reviews are all about and the club always takes on board constructive feedback which is why people return week after week.
Whatever you choose to partake in, in the future I wish you all the best
Anya (Maleficent costume)
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"I'm going to be brutally honest. I didn't enjoy the night. It really put me off wanting to go club again. But I'm sure the regulars had fun. It was like going to a party that I clearly didn't belong to. Spoke to noone there as everyone stayed in their own bubble. But some people really did well with the costumes. I'm sorry you didn't enjoy your visit. Its great to experiment and find out your likes and dislikes but I'm not sure its a fair comment to say everyone was in their own bubbles or to say you didn't feel welcome because people didn't talk to you. Could it be your own confidence made it difficult rather than the clientele? I have been to a few clubs, many times and Jaydees has to be one of the most inclusive environments. The reviews always say 'friendly' 'welcoming and 2000 people can't all be wrong
You develop friendship groups of course, this isn't a bad thing but new friendships start with strangers meeting and talking right?.. you have to start somewhere and to base your thoughts on one introduction that didn't go well is not, in my opinion, a true reflection of the people who go there at all.
Jaydees is famous for newbie nights and pride themselves in making them feel as relaxed and comfortable as possible (we were all newbies once lol)
The staff and others work tirelessly throughout the night and so much more behind the scenes and they always ensure where possible, connections are made to make any newcomers welcome but to be honest this is usually something that occurs naturally rather than a forced introduction as everyone talks to everyone.
Last night was exceptionally busy as you know so even I didn't get round to talking to so many people! Maybe this was also why you felt a little alone or left out.. we are all human and with so many people and things to keep an eye on it was understandable that not everyone got undivided attention but they did their very best to keep all safe which is paramount.
You also said this was your first club visit but your review stated you were more welcomed at another club.
Maybe clubs are not for you and thats absolutely cool, maybe you just need to break out of the nervous shell as to be involved you usually have to get involved
That's the great thing about swinging, experience all and continue what you enjoy
Personal opinion is what reviews are all about and the club always takes on board constructive feedback which is why people return week after week.
Whatever you choose to partake in, in the future I wish you all the best
Anya (Maleficent costume)
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"I'm going to be brutally honest. I didn't enjoy the night. It really put me off wanting to go club again. But I'm sure the regulars had fun. It was like going to a party that I clearly didn't belong to. Spoke to noone there as everyone stayed in their own bubble. But some people really did well with the costumes. That's sad to hear. The club has two different vibes on a Friday and Saturday night. Fridays are more social, so the kitchen will be busy and the room with the couches and chairs. The upstairs area tend to busier then. If you give Friday a chance you will see a different crowd and might have, hopefully a better experience. It can feel like putting your favourite shoes on the wrong feet and that's going to be frustrating. Hope you give the club another chance." I'm really well travelled and can speak to nearly anyone. Worked in the hospitality industry for many years so don't think it's my social skills was the issue. The whole crowd just seem too involved with eachother. For example, I went to the kitchen, people were in transistion. I sat in the quiet lounge. I looked at a couple, they looked quite vacant. Another couple joined them and the conversation sounded intense. I sat there on my own for 10 minutes. Noone else came. So went in the hot tub. Again the couple in there were having an intense conversation with themselves. Single men just wondered in and out, probably hoping to see any action. The single men that did speak to me asked for the toilet and hurried off. They didn't seem to speak English fluently which made it difficult. One guy turned around and told me he loved my costume but as I looked at his partner, her face didn't look impress so I just didn't feel it was right to continue the conversation so I said thank you and left it as that. Yes, the only other club I went to for 1 night, I ended up chatting to about 10 people who all were friendly and we hanged out for abit. The staff were too were very nice, the host had afew chats with me. So I came to the conclusion Jaydees just wasn't my scene, I just couldn't gel with anyone there. Shame as I really love the actual building and it's facilities but ultimately it's all about the people. I spoke to one couple on fab who experienced the same as me. So I know I'm not alone. I get the impression that Jaydee is a amazing place for regulars and for people who "face fits". | |||
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"I'm going to be brutally honest. I didn't enjoy the night. It really put me off wanting to go club again. But I'm sure the regulars had fun. It was like going to a party that I clearly didn't belong to. Spoke to noone there as everyone stayed in their own bubble. But some people really did well with the costumes. I'm sorry you felt like that but I've always found Jaydees to be the complete opposite and all the regulars really inclusive especially if they know people are new there, I think if you had been on a quieter night it would have been a complete different story as people would have noticed that you where new and made sure you was included. Staff introduced us to someone who clearly wasn't interested in talking to us. I don't smoke so going into smoking area wasn't right place. We walked through there but everyone was grouped up with their own friends so sorry I didn't find the place to be very welcoming. Sorry to hear you feel this way. As someone who attends regularly as a single woman, there's always plenty of people to talk to - if you make the effort. I personally don't wait for people to talk to me and I just say hello, regardless of who's in a group or not or whether I'm smoking or not. I've a fair few single Female friends who don't smoke but still come out and mingle as its quite a social area however there is always the rest of the club. Nevertheless, it's a shame you feel the way you do and hopefully it doesn't put you off clubs altogether. " I prefer to get eye contact first and openness to engage conversation. I just didn't get that feeling there so I didn't try. I tried smiling at people but they were just too involved with eachother. | |||
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"I'm going to be brutally honest. I didn't enjoy the night. It really put me off wanting to go club again. But I'm sure the regulars had fun. It was like going to a party that I clearly didn't belong to. Spoke to noone there as everyone stayed in their own bubble. But some people really did well with the costumes. I'm sorry you felt like that but I've always found Jaydees to be the complete opposite and all the regulars really inclusive especially if they know people are new there, I think if you had been on a quieter night it would have been a complete different story as people would have noticed that you where new and made sure you was included. Staff introduced us to someone who clearly wasn't interested in talking to us. I don't smoke so going into smoking area wasn't right place. We walked through there but everyone was grouped up with their own friends so sorry I didn't find the place to be very welcoming. Sorry to hear you feel this way. As someone who attends regularly as a single woman, there's always plenty of people to talk to - if you make the effort. I personally don't wait for people to talk to me and I just say hello, regardless of who's in a group or not or whether I'm smoking or not. I've a fair few single Female friends who don't smoke but still come out and mingle as its quite a social area however there is always the rest of the club. Nevertheless, it's a shame you feel the way you do and hopefully it doesn't put you off clubs altogether. I prefer to get eye contact first and openness to engage conversation. I just didn't get that feeling there so I didn't try. I tried smiling at people but they were just too involved with eachother." Sounds like I've been miss reading people all this time, I've always had people make eye contact and smile at me there but I've always took it as people just being friendly and smiled back then carried on with my night with the people that actually make an effort and say hello | |||
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"Oh have to add, I find it sad that the social hub is the smoking area. Really alienates non smokers, as I can't stand the smell of cigarettes, but it seems that place was the only real way of chatting to people properly. This does reminds me of one episode of Friends, where Rachel had to start smoking in order to get her promotion and build her relationship with her boss. Makes me giggle. Just be nicer if clubs had two socialising areas. The only two choices was stand outside in the cold with smokers and try talking in the loud disco area. Neither places easy for me as a nonsmoker or drinker, slightly deaf newbie. Lol. " But we do have a non smoking social area in the lounge where there is no music playing gor people to chat and make eye contact? We pride ourselves on making sure we Try to cater for everyone. From social to open play private rooms and couples only area and a smoking area for the smokers. Saturday night was an unprecedented night and everyone worked there socks off to make this club the best it can be and I think by the reactions that others that attended are quite offended by your comments and you club review. Please feel free to message me and I will happily refund your membership Matt | |||
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but still had a great night lots of friendly people and a great atmosphere and some amazing costumes, will definitely be back xx | |||
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"Oh have to add, I find it sad that the social hub is the smoking area. Really alienates non smokers, as I can't stand the smell of cigarettes, but it seems that place was the only real way of chatting to people properly. This does reminds me of one episode of Friends, where Rachel had to start smoking in order to get her promotion and build her relationship with her boss. Makes me giggle. Just be nicer if clubs had two socialising areas. The only two choices was stand outside in the cold with smokers and try talking in the loud disco area. Neither places easy for me as a nonsmoker or drinker, slightly deaf newbie. Lol. But we do have a non smoking social area in the lounge where there is no music playing gor people to chat and make eye contact? We pride ourselves on making sure we Try to cater for everyone. From social to open play private rooms and couples only area and a smoking area for the smokers. Saturday night was an unprecedented night and everyone worked there socks off to make this club the best it can be and I think by the reactions that others that attended are quite offended by your comments and you club review. Please feel free to message me and I will happily refund your membership Matt " Matt I’m pretty sure she was at a different club! The rest of us had a bloody brilliant time. The time and effort you guys all put in is very much appreciated. Dee x | |||
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"Oh have to add, I find it sad that the social hub is the smoking area. Really alienates non smokers, as I can't stand the smell of cigarettes, but it seems that place was the only real way of chatting to people properly. This does reminds me of one episode of Friends, where Rachel had to start smoking in order to get her promotion and build her relationship with her boss. Makes me giggle. Just be nicer if clubs had two socialising areas. The only two choices was stand outside in the cold with smokers and try talking in the loud disco area. Neither places easy for me as a nonsmoker or drinker, slightly deaf newbie. Lol. " This is why the social room works for me and my partner for all of the the exact reasons you just said. We don't like the smell either. It's like at school the smoking kids will never understand why the nonsmoking kids won't give them a fag...this rot kicks in from such an early age. If you for want to try again, why don't you try on a Friday and come and sit with us. We have been known to have mentor new visitors to the club, who vey quickly settle in and make new friends. I know how awkward it is to spend the evening not speaking to people. It felt like that at the Halloween. PM me if you're interested. | |||
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"I'm going to be brutally honest. I didn't enjoy the night. It really put me off wanting to go club again. But I'm sure the regulars had fun. It was like going to a party that I clearly didn't belong to. Spoke to noone there as everyone stayed in their own bubble. But some people really did well with the costumes. I'm sorry you felt like that but I've always found Jaydees to be the complete opposite and all the regulars really inclusive especially if they know people are new there, I think if you had been on a quieter night it would have been a complete different story as people would have noticed that you where new and made sure you was included. Staff introduced us to someone who clearly wasn't interested in talking to us. I don't smoke so going into smoking area wasn't right place. We walked through there but everyone was grouped up with their own friends so sorry I didn't find the place to be very welcoming." We was there Friday and found it to be the complete opposite and very freindly people including John the owner lovely fella! Maybe give it another try on a less busy night | |||
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"I'm going to be brutally honest. I didn't enjoy the night. It really put me off wanting to go club again. But I'm sure the regulars had fun. It was like going to a party that I clearly didn't belong to. Spoke to noone there as everyone stayed in their own bubble. But some people really did well with the costumes. I'm sorry you felt like that but I've always found Jaydees to be the complete opposite and all the regulars really inclusive especially if they know people are new there, I think if you had been on a quieter night it would have been a complete different story as people would have noticed that you where new and made sure you was included. Staff introduced us to someone who clearly wasn't interested in talking to us. I don't smoke so going into smoking area wasn't right place. We walked through there but everyone was grouped up with their own friends so sorry I didn't find the place to be very welcoming. We was there Friday and found it to be the complete opposite and very freindly people including John the owner lovely fella! Maybe give it another try on a less busy night " This. Everyone deserves a second chance, even clubs. | |||
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