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Maidstone - “Secret Night”
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I own several bars, which proves helpful.
Thinking of starting a “secret night” where you’ll need a password to enter. Blacked out windows..
Aimed exclusively at Fab Swingers.
Who would be interested… wanna know if it’s worth my time / effort ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I own several bars, which proves helpful.
Thinking of starting a “secret night” where you’ll need a password to enter. Blacked out windows..
Aimed exclusively at Fab Swingers.
Who would be interested… wanna know if it’s worth my time / effort ? "
We would be interested. |
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"I own several bars, which proves helpful.
Thinking of starting a “secret night” where you’ll need a password to enter. Blacked out windows..
Aimed exclusively at Fab Swingers.
Who would be interested… wanna know if it’s worth my time / effort ? "
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"I own several bars, which proves helpful.
Thinking of starting a “secret night” where you’ll need a password to enter. Blacked out windows..
Aimed exclusively at Fab Swingers.
Who would be interested… wanna know if it’s worth my time / effort ? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Initial idea.
A Friday Night.
More of a social, and see where it heads kind of thing… free entry, you buy your drinks
There will be a limit on single men. And it will be worked out on a ratio.
Lively music and dance floor.
Should it go well I will look to expand on these night to have themes, I.e hot tub night, masked dance etc
Let me k ow your thoughts
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Just an idea, thinking outside the box, there are socials and club nights all over the country where single guy numbers are restricted more so than couples. To create something different, what about limiting the number of couples and allow a greater number of vetted single guys. Chaps we have spoken to regarding clubs mostly say the same thing, that they feel the clubs are a bit Clicky when all the couples are engaging in conversations together and they don't feel comfortable approaching a group like that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just an idea, thinking outside the box, there are socials and club nights all over the country where single guy numbers are restricted more so than couples. To create something different, what about limiting the number of couples and allow a greater number of vetted single guys. Chaps we have spoken to regarding clubs mostly say the same thing, that they feel the clubs are a bit Clicky when all the couples are engaging in conversations together and they don't feel comfortable approaching a group like that. "
As I said, would be worked out on a ratio, or you could end up with 60 guys, 20 women… estimating that 50% of those guys would be straight rather than bi…. That then makes it potentially very uncomfortable for the women here… who then wouldn’t come back again.
Quite frankly if you have the confidence to turn up to these things, but don’t have the confidence to actually engage with anyone… then you need to check yourself… and give yourself a good talking to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Sounds like we are on…
I will start planning the evening and get all the right things in place.
If any F/CPL fancy helping me getting me verified before I do this, I would be eternally thankful, and free drink for you all night at my event ! |
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"Sounds like we are on…
I will start planning the evening and get all the right things in place.
If any F/CPL fancy helping me getting me verified before I do this, I would be eternally thankful, and free drink for you all night at my event ! "
You dont need a veri to do this, not with this much interest. If it does happen you will have plenty or veris after anyway   |
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Just a thought, if its to be fab exclusive would a guest list be a better option? At least you would know if its feasible and what the turn out would be before hand and so you can keep a good ratio and mix of people. I like the sound of what your plotting but as a single gal I would want to know, or see who is going before hand so Im not gonna turn up, say pineapple handbag or what ever the pass word was only to walk in and find 4 couples, 2 single girls and 3425 single guys. Also if you did just use a password there is nothing to stop that password being passed on to non fab members. So Keith who is the only fab member out of his mates could just be like "I got an idea for friday night, just say this word and you can get in" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Would anyone be up for a small private social gathering at the bar this Saturday?.. Closed to the public… I’d be interested in testing the water with a sample group before launching this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would anyone be up for a small private social gathering at the bar this Saturday?.. Closed to the public… I’d be interested in testing the water with a sample group before launching this. "
Watching the numbers.
Possibly. |
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"Would anyone be up for a small private social gathering at the bar this Saturday?.. Closed to the public… I’d be interested in testing the water with a sample group before launching this. "
Think there is a lot going on at the clubs this Saturday night eureka/DV8/pleasures all got event on so number will probably be low
But would be interested next time |
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Personally I can’t do this Saturday as I’m working.
Whilst some can do short notice I think a lot of people like to plan ahead so it might be better to give a date at least a couple of weeks in advance. To give time for people to plan.
Or if it’s just going to be a social then maybe midweek? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Just shelving the idea for a couple of weeks …
Needs a bit more planning etc, but thanks for the ideas…
Plus I’m slightly disillusioned with the site and the people within it at the moment … Not saying the people that have shown an interest in this thread are horrible … but there are some right rotten tomatoes on this site, ha ! |
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"Just shelving the idea for a couple of weeks …
Needs a bit more planning etc, but thanks for the ideas…
Plus I’m slightly disillusioned with the site and the people within it at the moment … Not saying the people that have shown an interest in this thread are horrible … but there are some right rotten tomatoes on this site, ha ! "
yes I agree maybe Recommendations might be the way forward |
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