I was ment to go to chams but got let down, I don’t suppose any ladies or couples wanna take me under their wing and go with me one of the days? I’m not brave enough or confident enough to just go on my own just get! Xxx |
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"Friday will be singles, Saturday is couples or single ladies; after 7pm. Depends on which you are more comfortable with."
What about Thursdays? I have put a meet on my couples profile for a Thursday as it’s the only day we can do for a while. |
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"Friday will be singles, Saturday is couples or single ladies; after 7pm. Depends on which you are more comfortable with.
What about Thursdays? I have put a meet on my couples profile for a Thursday as it’s the only day we can do for a while. "
I'd expect Thursdays to be relativity quiet. Both singles and couples; should be a good introduction to the scene but not necessarily representative of a busy weekend. But still worth going. You'll be ready then for a weekend as you'll already know the layout and what to expect.
Remember no pressure to play. Just find out what you're comfortable with. And enjoy the experience. |
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"Friday will be singles, Saturday is couples or single ladies; after 7pm. Depends on which you are more comfortable with.
What about Thursdays? I have put a meet on my couples profile for a Thursday as it’s the only day we can do for a while.
I'd expect Thursdays to be relativity quiet. Both singles and couples; should be a good introduction to the scene but not necessarily representative of a busy weekend. But still worth going. You'll be ready then for a weekend as you'll already know the layout and what to expect.
Remember no pressure to play. Just find out what you're comfortable with. And enjoy the experience."
Yea that’s what our thoughts were. |
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"Ahh ty. Do you have to be a member or can you sign up on the day?"
Not sure about single men. Obviously they try to keep the numbers proportionate. No one wants a club just of single guys if you want couples or single ladies to attend; not even the single men!
I'd probably call the club in advance |
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"Ahh ty. Do you have to be a member or can you sign up on the day?
Not sure about single men. Obviously they try to keep the numbers proportionate. No one wants a club just of single guys if you want couples or single ladies to attend; not even the single men!
I'd probably call the club in advance "
I’m going as a couple. Have set up a meet on my couples profile. |
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"Ahh ty. Do you have to be a member or can you sign up on the day?
Not sure about single men. Obviously they try to keep the numbers proportionate. No one wants a club just of single guys if you want couples or single ladies to attend; not even the single men!
I'd probably call the club in advance
I’m going as a couple. Have set up a meet on my couples profile. "
Couples will be fine joining on the day, just make sure you both have the necessary ID.
Chams is our favourite club, so chilled and friendly, plus the staff are fantastic! |
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"Ahh ty. Do you have to be a member or can you sign up on the day?
Not sure about single men. Obviously they try to keep the numbers proportionate. No one wants a club just of single guys if you want couples or single ladies to attend; not even the single men!
I'd probably call the club in advance
I’m going as a couple. Have set up a meet on my couples profile.
Couples will be fine joining on the day, just make sure you both have the necessary ID.
Chams is our favourite club, so chilled and friendly, plus the staff are fantastic! "
Yeah I have seen plenty of positives about the staff. |
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This thread seems to ignore the OP.
I completely understand why you're nervous but Chams is the only club I've been to which is where I'm comfortable to go alone because everyone is so welcoming.
If I could go as often as I wanted I would say come along with me but I don't know when I'll next be attending  there are some great couples and fems that go so hopefully someone will ping you a message. |
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"I have emailed and called and no one has come back to me about joining chams. I get that I'm not valuable as a single male but it's still not right"
It's probably because the waiting list for guys to join is long apparently. They probably get a similar volume of messages that single women get in here. |
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"I was ment to go to chams but got let down, I don’t suppose any ladies or couples wanna take me under their wing and go with me one of the days? I’m not brave enough or confident enough to just go on my own just get! Xxx "
My partners and I went at the weekend to the BBW event for our first time at the club. It was packed to the point where one of my partners was a little intimidated by the volume of people. A wonderful lady saw that we were new and came to look after us. Talking in the car on the way home there was a general feeling that the people who go to the club are very friendly more so than others we've attended. If you like to message me or my partners we'll give you a heads up when we next go but I wouldn't be too worried from our experience someone will look after you |
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"I was ment to go to chams but got let down, I don’t suppose any ladies or couples wanna take me under their wing and go with me one of the days? I’m not brave enough or confident enough to just go on my own just get! Xxx "
We have never been before but want to. Happy to arrange something where we could all go if you wanted.
Usually go to Xtasia but it's always good to branch out right?
Anyway send us a message if you want to arrange something |
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"Love to go to chams, but as a XD there is no membership for girls like me????"
Have you called and asked the staff?
They are always very welcoming of T girls and XD's, many are regulars, especially on Monday nights x |
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"I was ment to go to chams but got let down, I don’t suppose any ladies or couples wanna take me under their wing and go with me one of the days? I’m not brave enough or confident enough to just go on my own just get! Xxx "
Hello OP
I’ve been to chams twice. Both times on a Friday night and found there to be so many lovely people there who will happily chat away to you and make you feel at home.
I’ve not been on my own yet but meet a group there. We’ve all met through fab at social events.
Give the club a call if you’re going alone so they can notify the car park staff as they do their best to keep parking spaces available for single ladies x |
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