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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is it may we ask ? "
It's a rave / night club / social
Very LGBTQIA orientated
Mainly very young
Safe space
Play rooms
( my first time )
Looking incredibly naughty for my eyes
I feel like I need to experience that
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Hope you have an amazing time! I went last weekend and had a brilliant night. The staff are amazing, and the crowd totally chilled and inclusive.
So many sexy people. Great music. Just do your thing
AB
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I am pushing my boundaries, off to crossbreed tomorrow.
Anyone ???"
So ........
I purchased tickets
I planned meticulously my outfit
Read rules
I wanted go by myself
But ....
I meet someone he wanted to go
Fine
I was very clear with him
Read the rules
Dress code
- he came in t shirt dragon ball z
Green cargo trousers trainers
Didn't read rules
WE BEEN SEND HOME
and he goes I never read rules  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I am pushing my boundaries, off to crossbreed tomorrow.
Anyone ???
So ........
I purchased tickets
I planned meticulously my outfit
Read rules
I wanted go by myself
But ....
I meet someone he wanted to go
Fine
I was very clear with him
Read the rules
Dress code
- he came in t shirt dragon ball z
Green cargo trousers trainers
Didn't read rules
WE BEEN SEND HOME
and he goes I never read rules "
For a tolerant and inclusive community that doesn’t seem particularly tolerant and inclusive but hey, the rules are the rules!
Sorry to hear it was a wasted trip, hope you get in next time (just make sure he dresses more like a deviant!) |
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By *horty4Man
over a year ago
london |
"Well I am pushing my boundaries, off to crossbreed tomorrow.
Anyone ???
So ........
I purchased tickets
I planned meticulously my outfit
Read rules
I wanted go by myself
But ....
I meet someone he wanted to go
Fine
I was very clear with him
Read the rules
Dress code
- he came in t shirt dragon ball z
Green cargo trousers trainers
Didn't read rules
WE BEEN SEND HOME
and he goes I never read rules
For a tolerant and inclusive community that doesn’t seem particularly tolerant and inclusive but hey, the rules are the rules!
Sorry to hear it was a wasted trip, hope you get in next time (just make sure he dresses more like a deviant!) "
The guy is a dick, it’s absolutely clear what the event is and what the vibe is. If it’s not for you then don’t go, entirely his fault. Zero sympathy, hope you find a like minded soul next time |
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By *horty4Man
over a year ago
london |
"I’m not sure they can continually claim tolerance and inclusivity when their website and rules regularly states they won’t tolerate or include people….. "
Well not including people who have a problem with the kind of event it is isn’t ‘intolerance’. Not allowing a homophobe to attend would be absolutely correct for example. People really need to get a grip about clubs policy. Don’t like, don’t go |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
It's not the sort of event I go to these days but have only ever heard good things about Crossbreed. Love that they are marketing a kink event outside of the normal channels and love that they have a lot of people that dint neccesarily go to other London events attending by focusing so much on the LGBTQIA community. |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
"I’m not sure they can continually claim tolerance and inclusivity when their website and rules regularly states they won’t tolerate or include people….. "
I don't see anything wrong with their rules, just creating an atmosphere of inclusion ahd safety surely? |
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I’ve been to Crossbreed and would recommend.
One caveat is the crowd are very young…no problem for me as I used to be young too!
As you found out the dress code is strict…keeps out the ‘tourists’ so in my eyes no bad thing.
Hope you get there one day soon OP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT 
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO |
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We've thrown caution to the wind and just booked with friends to go to the Manchester Crossbreed @ Hidden on 9th September. We'll be sure to report back to those who cant make it, otherwise we'll hopefully see some of you there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO "
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
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"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
"
This.
Plus, if the OP knew the dress code and dressed accordingly, presumably she knew the bloke she was meeting wasn't coming with the code.
Options,
Tell him to go change.
Go in on your own.
Both result in a no drama situation.
Winston |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
"
The girl was wrong 100%
The guy was - a clown ??
But she could not be the kind they preache they go against apparently meaning judgment and being ridiculed
Like I said
Underground parties been not created by kids living on Internet
Do I take her rejection personally 100% .
Why
Cos of their agenda
And cos I can.! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
This.
Plus, if the OP knew the dress code and dressed accordingly, presumably she knew the bloke she was meeting wasn't coming with the code.
Options,
Tell him to go change.
Go in on your own.
Both result in a no drama situation.
Winston "
You are right only if girl at the door was honest to their spoken word .
SHE CHOSE TO BE IMPORTANT LOL
I LET HER BE
PREACHING TO THE WORD OF ACCEPTANCE
NOT ACCEPTING THOSE WHO WHERE ON POINT
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
This.
Plus, if the OP knew the dress code and dressed accordingly, presumably she knew the bloke she was meeting wasn't coming with the code.
Options,
Tell him to go change.
Go in on your own.
Both result in a no drama situation.
Winston
You are right only if girl at the door was honest to their spoken word .
SHE CHOSE TO BE IMPORTANT LOL
I LET HER BE
PREACHING TO THE WORD OF ACCEPTANCE
NOT ACCEPTING THOSE WHO WHERE ON POINT
"
Given you knew your friend was nowhere near the dresscode, do you not think by attempting to gain admission you were BOTH disrespecting the event, the staff and everyone attending?
He turned up dressed for an afternoon on the pub, zero effort on his part abd you still tried to get in?
It would be different if he'd made a bit of effort and had been turned away because his outfit wasn't up to scratch but that's not what happened is it?
It feels like you are projecting your disappointment at your friends lack of effort on to a perceived slight on the part of the event rather than be annoyed at him completely disrespecting you and the event.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
This.
Plus, if the OP knew the dress code and dressed accordingly, presumably she knew the bloke she was meeting wasn't coming with the code.
Options,
Tell him to go change.
Go in on your own.
Both result in a no drama situation.
Winston
You are right only if girl at the door was honest to their spoken word .
SHE CHOSE TO BE IMPORTANT LOL
I LET HER BE
PREACHING TO THE WORD OF ACCEPTANCE
NOT ACCEPTING THOSE WHO WHERE ON POINT
Given you knew your friend was nowhere near the dresscode, do you not think by attempting to gain admission you were BOTH disrespecting the event, the staff and everyone attending?
He turned up dressed for an afternoon on the pub, zero effort on his part abd you still tried to get in?
It would be different if he'd made a bit of effort and had been turned away because his outfit wasn't up to scratch but that's not what happened is it?
It feels like you are projecting your disappointment at your friends lack of effort on to a perceived slight on the part of the event rather than be annoyed at him completely disrespecting you and the event.
"
Tell me then
What actually happened
Clearly you know more then me
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
This.
Plus, if the OP knew the dress code and dressed accordingly, presumably she knew the bloke she was meeting wasn't coming with the code.
Options,
Tell him to go change.
Go in on your own.
Both result in a no drama situation.
Winston
You are right only if girl at the door was honest to their spoken word .
SHE CHOSE TO BE IMPORTANT LOL
I LET HER BE
PREACHING TO THE WORD OF ACCEPTANCE
NOT ACCEPTING THOSE WHO WHERE ON POINT
Given you knew your friend was nowhere near the dresscode, do you not think by attempting to gain admission you were BOTH disrespecting the event, the staff and everyone attending?
He turned up dressed for an afternoon on the pub, zero effort on his part abd you still tried to get in?
It would be different if he'd made a bit of effort and had been turned away because his outfit wasn't up to scratch but that's not what happened is it?
It feels like you are projecting your disappointment at your friends lack of effort on to a perceived slight on the part of the event rather than be annoyed at him completely disrespecting you and the event.
Tell me then
What actually happened
Clearly you know more then me
"
You tried to get in to an event knowing your companion had made zero effort in attempting to meet the dresscode and were turned away. At least that's whst you said in your initial post, but now it's evolved in to an attack on the event staff?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
This.
Plus, if the OP knew the dress code and dressed accordingly, presumably she knew the bloke she was meeting wasn't coming with the code.
Options,
Tell him to go change.
Go in on your own.
Both result in a no drama situation.
Winston
You are right only if girl at the door was honest to their spoken word .
SHE CHOSE TO BE IMPORTANT LOL
I LET HER BE
PREACHING TO THE WORD OF ACCEPTANCE
NOT ACCEPTING THOSE WHO WHERE ON POINT
Given you knew your friend was nowhere near the dresscode, do you not think by attempting to gain admission you were BOTH disrespecting the event, the staff and everyone attending?
He turned up dressed for an afternoon on the pub, zero effort on his part abd you still tried to get in?
It would be different if he'd made a bit of effort and had been turned away because his outfit wasn't up to scratch but that's not what happened is it?
It feels like you are projecting your disappointment at your friends lack of effort on to a perceived slight on the part of the event rather than be annoyed at him completely disrespecting you and the event.
Tell me then
What actually happened
Clearly you know more then me
You tried to get in to an event knowing your companion had made zero effort in attempting to meet the dresscode and were turned away. At least that's whst you said in your initial post, but now it's evolved in to an attack on the event staff?
"
I tried to enter event ( you mean I paid for tickets I was appropriately dressed ) get the facts right
My companion lol was not dressed for occasion - no - so he should not enter
But now......!
There is nothing now !going on
I stated from the start
That I was not allowed to enter even though I didn't broke any rule .
ATTACK ON A STAFF ???
I am just stating the facts
She could let me in but she chose not to.
The organizationa that preaches about equality does completely opposite
It's called hypocrisy
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
This.
Plus, if the OP knew the dress code and dressed accordingly, presumably she knew the bloke she was meeting wasn't coming with the code.
Options,
Tell him to go change.
Go in on your own.
Both result in a no drama situation.
Winston
You are right only if girl at the door was honest to their spoken word .
SHE CHOSE TO BE IMPORTANT LOL
I LET HER BE
PREACHING TO THE WORD OF ACCEPTANCE
NOT ACCEPTING THOSE WHO WHERE ON POINT
Given you knew your friend was nowhere near the dresscode, do you not think by attempting to gain admission you were BOTH disrespecting the event, the staff and everyone attending?
He turned up dressed for an afternoon on the pub, zero effort on his part abd you still tried to get in?
It would be different if he'd made a bit of effort and had been turned away because his outfit wasn't up to scratch but that's not what happened is it?
It feels like you are projecting your disappointment at your friends lack of effort on to a perceived slight on the part of the event rather than be annoyed at him completely disrespecting you and the event.
Tell me then
What actually happened
Clearly you know more then me
You tried to get in to an event knowing your companion had made zero effort in attempting to meet the dresscode and were turned away. At least that's whst you said in your initial post, but now it's evolved in to an attack on the event staff?
I tried to enter event ( you mean I paid for tickets I was appropriately dressed ) get the facts right
My companion lol was not dressed for occasion - no - so he should not enter
But now......!
There is nothing now !going on
I stated from the start
That I was not allowed to enter even though I didn't broke any rule .
ATTACK ON A STAFF ???
I am just stating the facts
She could let me in but she chose not to.
The organizationa that preaches about equality does completely opposite
It's called hypocrisy
"
You said "we got sent home"
You were obviously with him when he tried to enter? Did you think they might make an exception?
Dresscodes are nothing to do with equality. There is no hypocrisy. You knew the dresscode, he ignored it. You weren't turned away for anything that can be compared to equality, you were turned away because you turned up to a kink event with a very clear dresscode more suitably dressed for an afternoon drinking on Upper Street and still tried to get in.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
This.
Plus, if the OP knew the dress code and dressed accordingly, presumably she knew the bloke she was meeting wasn't coming with the code.
Options,
Tell him to go change.
Go in on your own.
Both result in a no drama situation.
Winston
You are right only if girl at the door was honest to their spoken word .
SHE CHOSE TO BE IMPORTANT LOL
I LET HER BE
PREACHING TO THE WORD OF ACCEPTANCE
NOT ACCEPTING THOSE WHO WHERE ON POINT
Given you knew your friend was nowhere near the dresscode, do you not think by attempting to gain admission you were BOTH disrespecting the event, the staff and everyone attending?
He turned up dressed for an afternoon on the pub, zero effort on his part abd you still tried to get in?
It would be different if he'd made a bit of effort and had been turned away because his outfit wasn't up to scratch but that's not what happened is it?
It feels like you are projecting your disappointment at your friends lack of effort on to a perceived slight on the part of the event rather than be annoyed at him completely disrespecting you and the event.
Tell me then
What actually happened
Clearly you know more then me
You tried to get in to an event knowing your companion had made zero effort in attempting to meet the dresscode and were turned away. At least that's whst you said in your initial post, but now it's evolved in to an attack on the event staff?
I tried to enter event ( you mean I paid for tickets I was appropriately dressed ) get the facts right
My companion lol was not dressed for occasion - no - so he should not enter
But now......!
There is nothing now !going on
I stated from the start
That I was not allowed to enter even though I didn't broke any rule .
ATTACK ON A STAFF ???
I am just stating the facts
She could let me in but she chose not to.
The organizationa that preaches about equality does completely opposite
It's called hypocrisy
You said "we got sent home"
You were obviously with him when he tried to enter? Did you think they might make an exception?
Dresscodes are nothing to do with equality. There is no hypocrisy. You knew the dresscode, he ignored it. You weren't turned away for anything that can be compared to equality, you were turned away because you turned up to a kink event with a very clear dresscode more suitably dressed for an afternoon drinking on Upper Street and still tried to get in.
"
Your own words
You knew the dresscode he didn't
Yes we been turned down
Even though I was dressed appropriately
You still don't see the hypocrisy
Is right there
SHE chose to disguised me
Even though
I was dressed appropriately
But he didn't
He was not me
You really don't see it
So I can't help you
Hypocrisy in her behaviour is right there |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
This.
Plus, if the OP knew the dress code and dressed accordingly, presumably she knew the bloke she was meeting wasn't coming with the code.
Options,
Tell him to go change.
Go in on your own.
Both result in a no drama situation.
Winston
You are right only if girl at the door was honest to their spoken word .
SHE CHOSE TO BE IMPORTANT LOL
I LET HER BE
PREACHING TO THE WORD OF ACCEPTANCE
NOT ACCEPTING THOSE WHO WHERE ON POINT
Given you knew your friend was nowhere near the dresscode, do you not think by attempting to gain admission you were BOTH disrespecting the event, the staff and everyone attending?
He turned up dressed for an afternoon on the pub, zero effort on his part abd you still tried to get in?
It would be different if he'd made a bit of effort and had been turned away because his outfit wasn't up to scratch but that's not what happened is it?
It feels like you are projecting your disappointment at your friends lack of effort on to a perceived slight on the part of the event rather than be annoyed at him completely disrespecting you and the event.
Tell me then
What actually happened
Clearly you know more then me
You tried to get in to an event knowing your companion had made zero effort in attempting to meet the dresscode and were turned away. At least that's whst you said in your initial post, but now it's evolved in to an attack on the event staff?
I tried to enter event ( you mean I paid for tickets I was appropriately dressed ) get the facts right
My companion lol was not dressed for occasion - no - so he should not enter
But now......!
There is nothing now !going on
I stated from the start
That I was not allowed to enter even though I didn't broke any rule .
ATTACK ON A STAFF ???
I am just stating the facts
She could let me in but she chose not to.
The organizationa that preaches about equality does completely opposite
It's called hypocrisy
You said "we got sent home"
You were obviously with him when he tried to enter? Did you think they might make an exception?
Dresscodes are nothing to do with equality. There is no hypocrisy. You knew the dresscode, he ignored it. You weren't turned away for anything that can be compared to equality, you were turned away because you turned up to a kink event with a very clear dresscode more suitably dressed for an afternoon drinking on Upper Street and still tried to get in.
Your own words
You knew the dresscode he didn't
Yes we been turned down
Even though I was dressed appropriately
You still don't see the hypocrisy
Is right there
SHE chose to disguised me
Even though
I was dressed appropriately
But he didn't
He was not me
You really don't see it
So I can't help you
Hypocrisy in her behaviour is right there "
Bur you turned up together and attempted to get in together when he had made zero effort?
I don't think turning you both away was harsh. I'm not seeing why it's hypocritical and it's certainly nothing to do with equality.
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"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
This.
Plus, if the OP knew the dress code and dressed accordingly, presumably she knew the bloke she was meeting wasn't coming with the code.
Options,
Tell him to go change.
Go in on your own.
Both result in a no drama situation.
Winston
You are right only if girl at the door was honest to their spoken word .
SHE CHOSE TO BE IMPORTANT LOL
I LET HER BE
PREACHING TO THE WORD OF ACCEPTANCE
NOT ACCEPTING THOSE WHO WHERE ON POINT
Given you knew your friend was nowhere near the dresscode, do you not think by attempting to gain admission you were BOTH disrespecting the event, the staff and everyone attending?
He turned up dressed for an afternoon on the pub, zero effort on his part abd you still tried to get in?
It would be different if he'd made a bit of effort and had been turned away because his outfit wasn't up to scratch but that's not what happened is it?
It feels like you are projecting your disappointment at your friends lack of effort on to a perceived slight on the part of the event rather than be annoyed at him completely disrespecting you and the event.
Tell me then
What actually happened
Clearly you know more then me
You tried to get in to an event knowing your companion had made zero effort in attempting to meet the dresscode and were turned away. At least that's whst you said in your initial post, but now it's evolved in to an attack on the event staff?
I tried to enter event ( you mean I paid for tickets I was appropriately dressed ) get the facts right
My companion lol was not dressed for occasion - no - so he should not enter
But now......!
There is nothing now !going on
I stated from the start
That I was not allowed to enter even though I didn't broke any rule .
ATTACK ON A STAFF ???
I am just stating the facts
She could let me in but she chose not to.
The organizationa that preaches about equality does completely opposite
It's called hypocrisy
You said "we got sent home"
You were obviously with him when he tried to enter? Did you think they might make an exception?
Dresscodes are nothing to do with equality. There is no hypocrisy. You knew the dresscode, he ignored it. You weren't turned away for anything that can be compared to equality, you were turned away because you turned up to a kink event with a very clear dresscode more suitably dressed for an afternoon drinking on Upper Street and still tried to get in.
Your own words
You knew the dresscode he didn't
Yes we been turned down
Even though I was dressed appropriately
You still don't see the hypocrisy
Is right there
SHE chose to disguised me
Even though
I was dressed appropriately
But he didn't
He was not me
You really don't see it
So I can't help you
Hypocrisy in her behaviour is right there
Bur you turned up together and attempted to get in together when he had made zero effort?
I don't think turning you both away was harsh. I'm not seeing why it's hypocritical and it's certainly nothing to do with equality.
Throughout this thread you've been boasting that you've been going to events for 20 years, what did you think was the likeky outcome? "
Lol
U r so funny
I never said I was going anywhere for 20 years
I said kids from Internet didn't create
Underground parties
They did exist 20 years ago lol
I know you don't like My approach of my topic - and that's great ??
U didn't been there
You constantly blaming me for actions
Of other guy - cos we came together
But we clearly didn't look.like we came together ??.
Equality is what CROSSBREED banging on about on their entire page
How they are with those who are being turned down by others .
But acting like they did towards me
- they showed true colours .
You can say and blame me - I really don't care love .
Here there is cookie for you lol
I paid money
I didn't break the rules
I been not allowed to enter
Simple
Would I ever go again
Wasting money and time !
NO FUCKING WAY
I know it's hard for you to understand
That I feelt the way I did
And express my opinions they way I did but that's how I feel
And you can't change that
Have a wonderful ?? day
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"What I am thinking right now
4 days after me - being dressed appropriately knowing what's the shtick ( look no offence peeps in your 20s you didn't invented underground parties) I done this kind off stuff when those kids where not born .
So been told off ( paid my hard earned money for tickets then been given card to be refunded - send email to get money back - silence )
I would say I won't ever support party that don't won't me .
GIRL at the door could say he is not comming
You are - but she choose to be DICK
I can't support place that preaches about teaching others about how to be kind and tolerate others but acting like a CUNT
Soooo
Yeah won't EVER GO
the dress code of the event is no different to other kink events. It is kink not vanilla so vanilla doesn't get you in. The guy you were with was in the wrong not the girl on the door.
This.
Plus, if the OP knew the dress code and dressed accordingly, presumably she knew the bloke she was meeting wasn't coming with the code.
Options,
Tell him to go change.
Go in on your own.
Both result in a no drama situation.
Winston
You are right only if girl at the door was honest to their spoken word .
SHE CHOSE TO BE IMPORTANT LOL
I LET HER BE
PREACHING TO THE WORD OF ACCEPTANCE
NOT ACCEPTING THOSE WHO WHERE ON POINT
Given you knew your friend was nowhere near the dresscode, do you not think by attempting to gain admission you were BOTH disrespecting the event, the staff and everyone attending?
He turned up dressed for an afternoon on the pub, zero effort on his part abd you still tried to get in?
It would be different if he'd made a bit of effort and had been turned away because his outfit wasn't up to scratch but that's not what happened is it?
It feels like you are projecting your disappointment at your friends lack of effort on to a perceived slight on the part of the event rather than be annoyed at him completely disrespecting you and the event.
Tell me then
What actually happened
Clearly you know more then me
You tried to get in to an event knowing your companion had made zero effort in attempting to meet the dresscode and were turned away. At least that's whst you said in your initial post, but now it's evolved in to an attack on the event staff?
I tried to enter event ( you mean I paid for tickets I was appropriately dressed ) get the facts right
My companion lol was not dressed for occasion - no - so he should not enter
But now......!
There is nothing now !going on
I stated from the start
That I was not allowed to enter even though I didn't broke any rule .
ATTACK ON A STAFF ???
I am just stating the facts
She could let me in but she chose not to.
The organizationa that preaches about equality does completely opposite
It's called hypocrisy
You said "we got sent home"
You were obviously with him when he tried to enter? Did you think they might make an exception?
Dresscodes are nothing to do with equality. There is no hypocrisy. You knew the dresscode, he ignored it. You weren't turned away for anything that can be compared to equality, you were turned away because you turned up to a kink event with a very clear dresscode more suitably dressed for an afternoon drinking on Upper Street and still tried to get in.
Your own words
You knew the dresscode he didn't
Yes we been turned down
Even though I was dressed appropriately
You still don't see the hypocrisy
Is right there
SHE chose to disguised me
Even though
I was dressed appropriately
But he didn't
He was not me
You really don't see it
So I can't help you
Hypocrisy in her behaviour is right there
Bur you turned up together and attempted to get in together when he had made zero effort?
I don't think turning you both away was harsh. I'm not seeing why it's hypocritical and it's certainly nothing to do with equality.
Throughout this thread you've been boasting that you've been going to events for 20 years, what did you think was the likeky outcome?
Lol
U r so funny
I never said I was going anywhere for 20 years
I said kids from Internet didn't create
Underground parties
They did exist 20 years ago lol
I know you don't like My approach of my topic - and that's great ??
U didn't been there
You constantly blaming me for actions
Of other guy - cos we came together
But we clearly didn't look.like we came together ??.
Equality is what CROSSBREED banging on about on their entire page
How they are with those who are being turned down by others .
But acting like they did towards me
- they showed true colours .
You can say and blame me - I really don't care love .
Here there is cookie for you lol
I paid money
I didn't break the rules
I been not allowed to enter
Simple
Would I ever go again
Wasting money and time !
NO FUCKING WAY
I know it's hard for you to understand
That I feelt the way I did
And express my opinions they way I did but that's how I feel
And you can't change that
Have a wonderful ?? day
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Did you ask them if you could enter on your own?
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