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First time visit with a FAB friend.

By *ustmemyselfandi1 OP Man over a year ago

southampton

Hi all, my friend has just returned to FAB and we’ve always discussed going to a club.

We would go as a “couple” and wanted advice on the best place to visit as a pair of newbies.

She’s experienced in the site, as am I but neither of us have ever been to a club so we’d like somewhere we can feel relaxed and go with the flow.

Sounds a bit lame I know but we want to get involved without worrying.

We are Hampshire based so south coast is ideal.

Thanks all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try Hellfire on a Wednesday evening. Good for new people as it is nice and quiet and aimed for newbies

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Talk about your “rules”. If someone wants to go, do you both go? If someone wants to take someone back is that ok if you’re staying together? Is it ok to split up and get back together later.

It’s a bit clinical but helps make sure no one gets hacked off or left behind.

I’ve been clubbing with a fab friend but not interested in having sex with them so talk about that too.

V x

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By *ustmemyselfandi1 OP Man over a year ago

southampton

"Try Hellfire on a Wednesday evening. Good for new people as it is nice and quiet and aimed for newbies"

I’ll check it out for sure, thanks.

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By *ustmemyselfandi1 OP Man over a year ago

southampton

"Talk about your “rules”. If someone wants to go, do you both go? If someone wants to take someone back is that ok if you’re staying together? Is it ok to split up and get back together later.

It’s a bit clinical but helps make sure no one gets hacked off or left behind.

I’ve been clubbing with a fab friend but not interested in having sex with them so talk about that too.

V x "

Thanks V.

We have had quite a few of those chats just to be sure we are on the same page.

Was thinking more about how we meet people there….. do we literally just walk up and say hi or is there a list of unwritten rules?!

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Would you be playing as a couple ?

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By *ustmemyselfandi1 OP Man over a year ago

southampton

"Would you be playing as a couple ?"

Yes, definitely.

But also both open to meeting other people and watching each other etc.

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By *adylerieWoman over a year ago

Leatherhead, Surrey

I’d recommend Abfabs - lots of people do drive up from your area, I’m not aware of anything closer tbh. Saturday night is for couples or Friday night is a different vibe as it’s for single guys as well. The way you get involved is by chatting to people - the social part at the beginning is when you start to get to know people. You can politely start to make it known you’d like to play.

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By *arciocialWoman over a year ago

Leicester

There's no unwritten rules. Treat it like a normal club/pub, how you'd engage with people there.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

Chameleons is a great club and really chilled. A long as your relaxed and comfortable in a dress down environment because it is a dress down club (which helps the chilled environment imo).

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