Good for you! I hope you have a great night and a positive experience. Don't go with any expectations at all of having " sexy time". Just treat is going out in your own to a pub/club but with less clothing. Anything that happens after that is a bonus!
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"Thank you.
Ha, 'sexy time'. Pretty sure that will be going on with or without me.
Will definitely feedback on how I got on.
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Someone suggested yesterday that maybe post in the clubs forum and see if anyone going. Good way to start a chat and see if there are some going. |
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We had our first visit, but to a different club, last week. No doubt felt all the same nerves and doubts as you are. It was amazing though; everyone was very friendly and it was a relaxed atmosphere. Should have done this years ago! Good luck with your visit. Sure it'll be an amazing experience. |
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AbFabs is fine but beware of their slightly counter-intuitive dress code for gentlemen. If you use the pools / wet areas don't imagine you can nip up to the bar for a quick drink draped in a towel. It's back to the changing room for the likes of you to get back into your street togs.
Funnily enough they had no problem with Jayne wandering around the bar in basque, suspenders, stockings and heels.... |
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over a year ago
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"Amo I also have my first club visit Friday at pleasures and similarly I’m shitting it! I’m sure it’ll be a lot of fun and fine but it’s just the unknown and stepping out of comfort zone! "
Will send moral support.
Everyone has been so friendly with their advice.
Which I have summarised as:
1. Relax
2. No expectations
3. Enjoy the experience
4. Nothing is guaranteed but it will be fun
The following two especially useful from a message received earlier:
5. Take gum
6. Don't be pushy
7. Don't be a dick
That last one is useful for all things in life.
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By *mo512 OP Man
over a year ago
LONDON |
"AbFabs is fine but beware of their slightly counter-intuitive dress code for gentlemen. If you use the pools / wet areas don't imagine you can nip up to the bar for a quick drink draped in a towel. It's back to the changing room for the likes of you to get back into your street togs.
Funnily enough they had no problem with Jayne wandering around the bar in basque, suspenders, stockings and heels...."
Hugh. I don't think anyone would have a problem with Jayne wandering around like that! |
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"Amo I also have my first club visit Friday at pleasures and similarly I’m shitting it! I’m sure it’ll be a lot of fun and fine but it’s just the unknown and stepping out of comfort zone!
Will send moral support.
Everyone has been so friendly with their advice.
Which I have summarised as:
1. Relax
2. No expectations
3. Enjoy the experience
4. Nothing is guaranteed but it will be fun
The following two especially useful from a message received earlier:
5. Take gum
6. Don't be pushy
7. Don't be a dick
That last one is useful for all things in life.
"
1) Don't take gum, as plenty of clubs have banned chewing gum. Take some mints instead.
2) even if going with no expectations, do have some condoms on you, preferably ones that fit you well and you don't get an allergic reaction to. Some clubs do provide condoms, but it's usually one of the cheaper brands that not everyone gets on well with. |
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