 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I'm looking to join and visit chams in darlaston for the first time....as in it would be my first time ever in a swinging club....I'd be going as a single male just to see what it's like really.....
I'd obviously be abit nervous and I was just wondering what the atmos is like when your a single guy going on your own??
Thanks guys,any pointers would be much appreciated
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Here are some pointers based on my experiences as a single male at clubs.
1. Dress smartly in trousers & shirt, make sure you have showered and smell nice.
2. Take the time to talk and chat to couples & single fems in the social areas and that includes the male half of the couple, after all with luck you are going to be playing with his OH so he will be just as interested in what you are like as she is.
3. Don't assume that just because I female is dressed sexily or semi naked that its an open invite to play with her or grope her.
4. Same applies in the playrooms, never touch or get involved without asking and getting a yes or being invited...NO always means NO!!
5. Lastly...have your own condoms on you before playing and use them.
Using the above common sense rules gave me a pretty good level of success, at the worst you may not have any fun but you may have had some stimulating and interesting chats.
Fusion |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
As FruitFusion says, but also check the admission policy for single males at Chams as frankly it's difficult to become a member, there is/isn't a waiting list for single males and I think you definately have to join on a day 6that isn't a Friday/Saturday. In addition the club is couples only on a Saturday night. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
fully agree with admissions issue - and if you want a fun place at chams the cinema, jacuzzi or sauna are the headline places in my experience
have fun ! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
we would say its good to talk to people in the bar also other single men . but we are put off when the single men walk around the club in groups or 3 or more . good luck |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
thanks for the replys guys.....
i'll give them a phone and see if its possible to join to save me wasting a trip up their....id only be going in the week between 11-2pm anyway so i'll keep my fingers crossed.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *heRainManMan
over a year ago
Warrington & Glasgow |
All good info, but
"1. Dress smartly in trousers + shirt, make sure you have showered and smell nice."
doesn't necessarily apply as Chams is a "towel club", so you can have shower when you arrive, but do take some deodorant as you'll want to re-apply after sauna/jacuzzi/shower/play!
Also, to give the club a try out, keep an eye on the forums as there are a number of socials held there, and these don't require Chams membership. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
