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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thinking of going today on my own for the first time. Anyone been and can tell me mid week afternoon what the mix of M and F is like. Would love to chill and chat with F or MF and meet new people. If you fancy joining wink or DM. Any advice welcome and appreciated too |
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Most of these places are always male heavy but if I was you I'd just go try it out for yourself they'll always be people to speak to
I'd hate the thought that as a single female or as part of a couple that I couldn't just go and relax and enjoy the environment that I'd be targeted for someone else's entertainment even if it's just for an innocent chat
Don't get me wrong I'll chat to anyone but the fact you want a female or couple to speak to and want to know the ratio of attendees implies it's not really just a chat you're looking for
& in my experience the successful guys in these environments are the ones that don't look out for the lone females or couples, they are the ones that join in any group conversation, chat to the guys, females, couples equally, don't follow people into the sauna, hottubs, breakout rooms etc they'll just be their enjoying the facilities |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah sounds like it ticks all boxes. Need a massage and then pool or jacuzzi asap"
Op - use reply + quote and we know who you’re responding to. Welcome to the forum btw  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah sounds like it ticks all boxes. Need a massage and then pool or jacuzzi asap
Op - use reply + quote and we know who you’re responding to. Welcome to the forum btw "
Aaaaahhh thanks for the help. Feel like I'm 90 haha. Now I'm golden. You been in the week before!? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah sounds like it ticks all boxes. Need a massage and then pool or jacuzzi asap
Op - use reply + quote and we know who you’re responding to. Welcome to the forum btw "
Also, love your profile. We are really similar and think I match a lot of your likes....RAISIN ahahah. Would love to chat more |
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There will definitely be plenty of men with chance of couples or single women.
It can't be stressed enough that it's a naturist spa and overt sexual behaviour or pestering women will end with you leaving.
They pride themselves with having women come in because they know they won't be hassled.
Go, enjoy the sauna, hot tubs and massage. Chat with everyone and have a great time.
Should anything happen it'll be a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There will definitely be plenty of men with chance of couples or single women.
It can't be stressed enough that it's a naturist spa and overt sexual behaviour or pestering women will end with you leaving.
They pride themselves with having women come in because they know they won't be hassled.
Go, enjoy the sauna, hot tubs and massage. Chat with everyone and have a great time.
Should anything happen it'll be a bonus."
Totally get that and after the 2 mad weeks I've had I can't wait to have a massage and a chill for a bit. Always been interested in naturism too so inside rather than a campsite a nice start ha |
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By *vi8PairCouple
over a year ago
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I have been a few times daytime on weekdays as a single female and all the times I’ve been I’ve been the only woman there.  from 3pm onwards you can see one or two couples, but 90% of the attendants at that time is guys.
I’ve found it difficult to relax to be honest because I get followed around and chatted up everywhere I go. When I was an athlete 3 years ago and training heavily for a competition and a marathon all I wanted to do was a soak and steam to relax my very sore muscles but that thing of being followed around put me off so much. Last time I was there this past January there were 2 guys who kept chatting to me and following me … one of them asked if I wanted a massage upstairs. I said no thank you. Then he waited until I was leaving to offer me a lift home despite me saying several times that I would make my own way.
Since then, I don’t think I’ll go again until I get a chance to go with one of my FWBs on a weekend night which is couples only. I have to add that I’ve never felt unsafe there, staff are great, but it’s too much aggro really… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have been a few times daytime on weekdays as a single female and all the times I’ve been I’ve been the only woman there. from 3pm onwards you can see one or two couples, but 90% of the attendants at that time is guys.
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No that sounds rubbish and not nice at all. Sorry to hear it was like that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are going Saturday afternoon for the couples day. Just looking forward to using the spa facilities and basically relax, meet some people for a chat etc. Hopefully do not get any aggro."
I'm taking a book today and chilling. Will see how it is and hope there's no one creeping about |
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"We are going Saturday afternoon for the couples day. Just looking forward to using the spa facilities and basically relax, meet some people for a chat etc. Hopefully do not get any aggro.
I'm taking a book today and chilling. Will see how it is and hope there's no one creeping about "
You don't say anything about wanting to chill out reading a book in your profile! |
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We personally do not go to BGHS even though we are local. It's a spa rather than a swinging establishment.
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The only time I've ever been to BGHS (I live in Yorkshire) I had the pleasure of joining a very friendly couple and we had lots of swinging fun. |
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"I have been a few times daytime on weekdays as a single female and all the times I’ve been I’ve been the only woman there. from 3pm onwards you can see one or two couples, but 90% of the attendants at that time is guys.
I’ve found it difficult to relax to be honest because I get followed around and chatted up everywhere I go. When I was an athlete 3 years ago and training heavily for a competition and a marathon all I wanted to do was a soak and steam to relax my very sore muscles but that thing of being followed around put me off so much. Last time I was there this past January there were 2 guys who kept chatting to me and following me … one of them asked if I wanted a massage upstairs. I said no thank you. Then he waited until I was leaving to offer me a lift home despite me saying several times that I would make my own way.
Since then, I don’t think I’ll go again until I get a chance to go with one of my FWBs on a weekend night which is couples only. I have to add that I’ve never felt unsafe there, staff are great, but it’s too much aggro really… "
In 20 years of attending bghs not once have we ever had any aggro from anyone. There have been occasions when we have had unwanted attention but a firm no puts a stop to it and if it doesn't then a quite word with the staff certainly would. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have been a few times daytime on weekdays as a single female and all the times I’ve been I’ve been the only woman there. from 3pm onwards you can see one or two couples, but 90% of the attendants at that time is guys.
I’ve found it difficult to relax to be honest because I get followed around and chatted up everywhere I go. When I was an athlete 3 years ago and training heavily for a competition and a marathon all I wanted to do was a soak and steam to relax my very sore muscles but that thing of being followed around put me off so much. Last time I was there this past January there were 2 guys who kept chatting to me and following me … one of them asked if I wanted a massage upstairs. I said no thank you. Then he waited until I was leaving to offer me a lift home despite me saying several times that I would make my own way.
Since then, I don’t think I’ll go again until I get a chance to go with one of my FWBs on a weekend night which is couples only. I have to add that I’ve never felt unsafe there, staff are great, but it’s too much aggro really…
In 20 years of attending bghs not once have we ever had any aggro from anyone. There have been occasions when we have had unwanted attention but a firm no puts a stop to it and if it doesn't then a quite word with the staff certainly would. "
That's good to hear guys |
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