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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello all,
I was going to go to Chams in the evening on Thursday 8th with a fellow Fabber, but due to unforeseen circumstances I'd have to go in the day and that person isn't available to go with me. I'm bricking it, but really want to go. Any tips for me as a single woman going alone? Will I be hounded by single men? I just want to be safe. I'd prefer to go with someone though.
Any tips are much appreciated.  |
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you'll be fine on your own. The single men won't hound you, just let them know if your interested or not and they'll either stay or go.
What you don't yet realise, is that it is a woman's world in Chameleons. You make the rules. Once you become confident with this, you'll have a great time.
Remember women are in charge, the single guys are no more then organic vibrators
Have fun |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I've been to Chams twice now as a single woman and had fun both times. I must admit it's easier with a partner - men tend to approach couples a lot more easily than they do single women, probably because they don't want to be thought of as being a nuisance. If you decide you want to play, YOU will have to approach THEM (don't believe what you read about conga lines of men following women, It's not true.)
If you decide you don't want to play, just sit at the bar and smile. Someone will be chatting to you pretty quick. Above all, have fun! I wish I was going myself, so enjoy yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to Chams on my own, and have not experienced any issues with being hounded by single gents or couples.
A stern "no thank you" usually does the trick in stopping any unwanted attention.
The staff are always available to deal with any unpleasantness if required.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you very much for the replies. I'm quite excited but still nervous also. Maybe there's still time yet to find someone to go with or meet up there. |
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By *elphiWoman
over a year ago
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You'll be fine sweetheart. I have been to a couple of clubs now as a single woman for the last 18 months and sometimes find it more fun I can play with whoever I like and don't play if I don't want to. The men won't hound you, they may follow you round for a little while to see what you're about and if you're playing etc... but they will respect you but if you find you are being hounded and you're not interested in playing with them then just tell them nicely and they will respect your wishes. Clubs are the safest place for a single woman to go and play sweetheart, trust me. The management and staff will look out for you too. Enjoy xxx |
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If anyone crosses any boundaries then just summon your inner Mary poppins and be strict, firm but polite and use a calm, pleasant tone. 
And do say as it happens - if you don't it will bug you and spoil your visit.
If you want to play in an open room but are nervous then make sure you and your chosen partner(s) are more than arms reach from the edge of the bed.
Oh, and the room with the circular bed? If you play in there it will be interpreted as an invite to the audience...
But don't worry, in all probability everyone you encounter will have great manners and be lovely.
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I prefer to go alone to be honest because i can be in charge of what happens. I agree that sometimes as a single woman single men dont talk to you and eye contact is needed and perhaps you may need to start the conversion. I've never had a problem with guys not accepting No as an answer and of course the staff are always very helpful if needed.
I hope you have a great time alone or otherwise - weeks since I've been and missing the place. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Not sure how to take the "organic vibrators" comment... I would never imagine any lady an "oranic fleshlight"  "
Well if I ever met a guy who vibrated like my vibe does i would start worrying.
Don't take it personally. I prefer blokes to plastic penises.  |
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