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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey folks,
What’s your view on single guys at clubs? I’m quite new to the whole club thing, but I imagine there are mixed ideas and experiences of single blokes being there.
Curious to hear your views.
(Apologies if this has been asked before!). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do you mean?
What is the view in general? Great. Same view for everyone else in a club. "
That’s fair enough. I just wasn’t sure whether single guys often stepped out of line or just weren’t as welcome as couples. Clearly a poor assumption.
I’m thinking about going to more, but just wanted to get the lay of the land before I venture out again.  |
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"Hey folks,
What’s your view on single guys at clubs? I’m quite new to the whole club thing, but I imagine there are mixed ideas and experiences of single blokes being there.
Curious to hear your views.
(Apologies if this has been asked before!). "
Love single guys at clubs - I’m a single girl and love one to ones and gangbangs, as do my other single female friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you mean?
What is the view in general? Great. Same view for everyone else in a club.
That’s fair enough. I just wasn’t sure whether single guys often stepped out of line or just weren’t as welcome as couples. Clearly a poor assumption.
I’m thinking about going to more, but just wanted to get the lay of the land before I venture out again. "
Well that's on the individual. A single girl might or a couple might.
Some people look for single guys, some look for single girls, some look for couples. Everyone has their place
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By *iBloomCouple
over a year ago
Carmarthen |
"Hey folks,
What’s your view on single guys at clubs? I’m quite new to the whole club thing, but I imagine there are mixed ideas and experiences of single blokes being there.
Curious to hear your views.
(Apologies if this has been asked before!). "
Nope, that topic has never been discussed here before. Not ever  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only attend clubs when single guys are allowed in. That’s our thing.
Some single guys we’ve met really know the game. They’re approachable, smart with good conversational skills and appropriately flirty.
Sadly though the majority of single guys that we come across in clubs seem to be socially awkward borderline sex offenders. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single guy attendee, I’ve always found most guys to be very respectful of the ladies and couples around them. Obviously there are some that get overly excited and cannot behave themselves or get pushy but they are dealt with quickly and calmly. And peoples nights are not disturbed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have to admit, my first - and only - club visit ended in tragedy.
I was quite nervous so accidentally got a bit too d*unk. I tried to swing around the pole just once (god knows why!) and couldn’t let go.
As a result of impaired reactions and being not realising just how skippy those poles are, I ended up flying off into some people (sorry,guys!!!) and was subsequently asked to leave. How embarrassing.
Not usually my style, but there you go.  |
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At first we went on couples nights but the last few times we've been when there have been single guys; and we've had more fun so probably going to stick to that for now. Mrs likes to flirt and play; and I prefer to watch than play myself so it suits us better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only attend club events with unlimited single guys - some clubs let in "select" single gents on a Friday or Saturday but I like a good variety
Most single girls I know in the scene are also looking for guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to admit, my first - and only - club visit ended in tragedy.
I was quite nervous so accidentally got a bit too d*unk. I tried to swing around the pole just once (god knows why!) and couldn’t let go.
As a result of impaired reactions and being not realising just how skippy those poles are, I ended up flying off into some people (sorry,guys!!!) and was subsequently asked to leave. How embarrassing.
Not usually my style, but there you go. "
This is hilarious. We've all done things we would rather forget (I'm still trying to forget my d*unken antics from last Friday). |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I have to admit, my first - and only - club visit ended in tragedy.
I was quite nervous so accidentally got a bit too d*unk. I tried to swing around the pole just once (god knows why!) and couldn’t let go.
As a result of impaired reactions and being not realising just how skippy those poles are, I ended up flying off into some people (sorry,guys!!!) and was subsequently asked to leave. How embarrassing.
Not usually my style, but there you go.
This is hilarious. We've all done things we would rather forget (I'm still trying to forget my d*unken antics from last Friday). "
I completely loved hearing about Friday!!!! |
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Your experience is mostly to do with you, your character, your expectations and how you conduct yourself. However good selection of club/party for you and just the luck of who's there has a factor too. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Hey folks,
What’s your view on single guys at clubs? I’m quite new to the whole club thing, but I imagine there are mixed ideas and experiences of single blokes being there.
Curious to hear your views.
(Apologies if this has been asked before!). "
. As a single guy who didn’t go to a adult club until one month short of his 50th birthday I feel that I have been accepted at my club of choice as I am respectful , non pushy and understand that no means no.I think rather than what people’s views are you should go with the intentions of having a good night out and if adult fun happens then it’s a bonus no expectations no disappointments.There will always be single ladies and couples that are looking for single guys just like there are couples only interested in other couples. |
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Prefer nights when single guys can go
It’s annoying that the best places tend not to have single guys on a Saturday because Fridays (the usual single guys night) is almost impossible for me to attend due to work commitments
Even one Saturday a month would be great lol |
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"I only attend club events with unlimited single guys - some clubs let in "select" single gents on a Friday or Saturday but I like a good variety
Most single girls I know in the scene are also looking for guys."
I’d love to visit a club in the South, would be nice to see some single women in a club for a change…… |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Most single guys in clubs are great.
There are a few who are very creepy and Leery.
Single guys might help their reputation by policing this in clubs.
It might be a good policy for ladies too.
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Our view on single guys in clubs is this- we love to play with single guys. We are always up for multiple single guys in a club.
However- we generally find that very few make the effort. We’ve had guys with bad b.o try and chat to us, guys who looked like they’d wandered into the wrong place having made no effort to present themselves well. Guys who smelt of smoke (admittedly that might not bother smokers) etc
We’re not over fussy but do expect men to make an effort- look at how much effort women make! |
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"I only attend club events with unlimited single guys - some clubs let in "select" single gents on a Friday or Saturday but I like a good variety
Most single girls I know in the scene are also looking for guys.
I’d love to visit a club in the South, would be nice to see some single women in a club for a change……"
We have over 20 down to come to our next party!?  |
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I don't think you can long term have a successful club without single guys. Couples nights are great but not all the time.
That said, I also think clubs and/or party hosts need to police the amount of single males admitted to parties as too many is a sausage fest and that's generally no fun unless a greedy girl night where its warrented.
Just make sure you'll be able to get in on the night in question before going as you don't want to risk disappointment  |
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"I only attend club events with unlimited single guys - some clubs let in "select" single gents on a Friday or Saturday but I like a good variety
Most single girls I know in the scene are also looking for guys.
I’d love to visit a club in the South, would be nice to see some single women in a club for a change……
We have over 20 down to come to our next party!? "
It’s a pity your guest list is closed for single males now, as more than 3 single women in a club would have been a sight to behold!
Enjoying the benefits of your hosting skills would have been a treat too, something sadly lacking in other NW clubs I could mention…… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We only attend clubs when single guys are allowed in. That’s our thing.
Some single guys we’ve met really know the game. They’re approachable, smart with good conversational skills and appropriately flirty.
Sadly though the majority of single guys that we come across in clubs seem to be socially awkward borderline sex offenders. "
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"I only attend club events with unlimited single guys - some clubs let in "select" single gents on a Friday or Saturday but I like a good variety
Most single girls I know in the scene are also looking for guys.
I’d love to visit a club in the South, would be nice to see some single women in a club for a change……
We have over 20 down to come to our next party!?
It’s a pity your guest list is closed for single males now, as more than 3 single women in a club would have been a sight to behold!
Enjoying the benefits of your hosting skills would have been a treat too, something sadly lacking in other NW clubs I could mention…… "
We can always add guys to a reserve list for if/when spaces come free.... It was open for several weeks with no limitations too I will add!
And thank you for the compliments, we do indeed host good parties, hence we have been doing it so long  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I much prefer attending nights where single guys are at a club . I've no interest in playing with couples, so the guys are the reason I attend. Majority of them are respectful and make an effort where I tend to go.
Attending a new club you'll get a tour and can chat about rules and asks for tips too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One club we did go to told us we had to play with single men as the men had pay to get in on a Sunday a lo to of couple stop going to that club ?
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Really!? I hope you told them to fuck off!  |
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"Hey folks,
What’s your view on single guys at clubs? I’m quite new to the whole club thing, but I imagine there are mixed ideas and experiences of single blokes being there.
I personally prefer club nights that allow single guys in on such nights.
Curious to hear your views.
(Apologies if this has been asked before!). "
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"I only attend club events with unlimited single guys - some clubs let in "select" single gents on a Friday or Saturday but I like a good variety
Most single girls I know in the scene are also looking for guys.
I’d love to visit a club in the South, would be nice to see some single women in a club for a change……
We have over 20 down to come to our next party!?
It’s a pity your guest list is closed for single males now, as more than 3 single women in a club would have been a sight to behold!
Enjoying the benefits of your hosting skills would have been a treat too, something sadly lacking in other NW clubs I could mention……
We can always add guys to a reserve list for if/when spaces come free.... It was open for several weeks with no limitations too I will add!
And thank you for the compliments, we do indeed host good parties, hence we have been doing it so long "
Thanks, if I ever feel like a change of scenery, I’ll look to see if I can attend one of your events. Club Play put me off attending as a solo guy again, but never say never right…..?
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"I only attend club events with unlimited single guys - some clubs let in "select" single gents on a Friday or Saturday but I like a good variety
Most single girls I know in the scene are also looking for guys.
I’d love to visit a club in the South, would be nice to see some single women in a club for a change……
We have over 20 down to come to our next party!?
It’s a pity your guest list is closed for single males now, as more than 3 single women in a club would have been a sight to behold!
Enjoying the benefits of your hosting skills would have been a treat too, something sadly lacking in other NW clubs I could mention……
We can always add guys to a reserve list for if/when spaces come free.... It was open for several weeks with no limitations too I will add!
And thank you for the compliments, we do indeed host good parties, hence we have been doing it so long
Thanks, if I ever feel like a change of scenery, I’ll look to see if I can attend one of your events. Club Play put me off attending as a solo guy again, but never say never right…..?
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What put you off |
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"I only attend club events with unlimited single guys - some clubs let in "select" single gents on a Friday or Saturday but I like a good variety
Most single girls I know in the scene are also looking for guys.
I’d love to visit a club in the South, would be nice to see some single women in a club for a change……
We have over 20 down to come to our next party!?
It’s a pity your guest list is closed for single males now, as more than 3 single women in a club would have been a sight to behold!
Enjoying the benefits of your hosting skills would have been a treat too, something sadly lacking in other NW clubs I could mention……
We can always add guys to a reserve list for if/when spaces come free.... It was open for several weeks with no limitations too I will add!
And thank you for the compliments, we do indeed host good parties, hence we have been doing it so long
Thanks, if I ever feel like a change of scenery, I’ll look to see if I can attend one of your events. Club Play put me off attending as a solo guy again, but never say never right…..?
What put you off "
I just didn’t feel welcome at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a single male and attend lots of different clubs. I always treat people with respect and don't follow couples around. Instead stay by the bar or pool table for example and say hello to couples when they approach. I'm always lucky and have a 100% success rate of always having multiple fun everytime I go. Everybody is there for a fun time so as long as you don't make life uncomfortable for them you'll be ok. And yes always have a shower etc before going and never get d*unk. 2 bottles of beer and lots of water. That's my opinion and it works well for me. |
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"I'm a single male and attend lots of different clubs. I always treat people with respect and don't follow couples around. Instead stay by the bar or pool table for example and say hello to couples when they approach. I'm always lucky and have a 100% success rate of always having multiple fun everytime I go. Everybody is there for a fun time so as long as you don't make life uncomfortable for them you'll be ok. And yes always have a shower etc before going and never get d*unk. 2 bottles of beer and lots of water. That's my opinion and it works well for me. "
Fair play to you fella, you're obviously much more aesthetically pleasing than I am |
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We prefer the single guy nights in fact we avoid couples only nights as they seem to be a bit more clicky. She likes cock and i like her liking cock. We may well be in the attic on friday so if youre there then llok us up  |
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The post on this thread (especially from the single ladies) have just reinforced what I always thought and knew. That the majority welcome single men on club nights.
As already said, it’s a shame some of these clubs aren’t willing to give up at least one Saturday night a month to be open to all as not everyone can attend an event on a Friday night.
From the perspective of a single male myself, I can hands down say I’ve met some awesome people and had some my best swinging experiences in clubs and I ain’t never seen any funny business or untoward behaviour from pesky blokes. |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts |
"The post on this thread (especially from the single ladies) have just reinforced what I always thought and knew. That the majority welcome single men on club nights.
As already said, it’s a shame some of these clubs aren’t willing to give up at least one Saturday night a month to be open to all as not everyone can attend an event on a Friday night.
From the perspective of a single male myself, I can hands down say I’ve met some awesome people and had some my best swinging experiences in clubs and I ain’t never seen any funny business or untoward behaviour from pesky blokes. "
Some clubs do, like penthouse playrooms tomorrow, midnight affairs event |
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"The post on this thread (especially from the single ladies) have just reinforced what I always thought and knew. That the majority welcome single men on club nights.
As already said, it’s a shame some of these clubs aren’t willing to give up at least one Saturday night a month to be open to all as not everyone can attend an event on a Friday night.
From the perspective of a single male myself, I can hands down say I’ve met some awesome people and had some my best swinging experiences in clubs and I ain’t never seen any funny business or untoward behaviour from pesky blokes.
Some clubs do, like penthouse playrooms tomorrow, midnight affairs event"
I know they do, I’ve attended Penthouse Playrooms on a Saturday night in the past. I reckon though there should be clubs across the country for single men to attend on a Saturday as well |
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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago
Cowdenbeath |
"The post on this thread (especially from the single ladies) have just reinforced what I always thought and knew. That the majority welcome single men on club nights.
As already said, it’s a shame some of these clubs aren’t willing to give up at least one Saturday night a month to be open to all as not everyone can attend an event on a Friday night.
From the perspective of a single male myself, I can hands down say I’ve met some awesome people and had some my best swinging experiences in clubs and I ain’t never seen any funny business or untoward behaviour from pesky blokes.
Some clubs do, like penthouse playrooms tomorrow, midnight affairs event
I know they do, I’ve attended Penthouse Playrooms on a Saturday night in the past. I reckon though there should be clubs across the country for single men to attend on a Saturday as well "
It feels like there's a gap in the market for a singles only club. Open every weekend. I for one would attend no matter where in the U.K. it was |
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"The post on this thread (especially from the single ladies) have just reinforced what I always thought and knew. That the majority welcome single men on club nights.
As already said, it’s a shame some of these clubs aren’t willing to give up at least one Saturday night a month to be open to all as not everyone can attend an event on a Friday night.
From the perspective of a single male myself, I can hands down say I’ve met some awesome people and had some my best swinging experiences in clubs and I ain’t never seen any funny business or untoward behaviour from pesky blokes.
Some clubs do, like penthouse playrooms tomorrow, midnight affairs event
I know they do, I’ve attended Penthouse Playrooms on a Saturday night in the past. I reckon though there should be clubs across the country for single men to attend on a Saturday as well "
From what I read in the forums, and based on my own experiences, I can’t help thinking the clubs in the South are more single guy friendly |
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One of the things we love about The Attic is that they allow single guys on Saturday nights.
Yes there are some who are just a nuisance, but most - the respectful, well dressed, talkative ones - are most welcome as far as we're concerned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only attend club events with unlimited single guys - some clubs let in "select" single gents on a Friday or Saturday but I like a good variety
Most single girls I know in the scene are also looking for guys.
I’d love to visit a club in the South, would be nice to see some single women in a club for a change……
We have over 20 down to come to our next party!?
It’s a pity your guest list is closed for single males now, as more than 3 single women in a club would have been a sight to behold!
Enjoying the benefits of your hosting skills would have been a treat too, something sadly lacking in other NW clubs I could mention……
We can always add guys to a reserve list for if/when spaces come free.... It was open for several weeks with no limitations too I will add!
And thank you for the compliments, we do indeed host good parties, hence we have been doing it so long
Thanks, if I ever feel like a change of scenery, I’ll look to see if I can attend one of your events. Club Play put me off attending as a solo guy again, but never say never right…..?
What put you off
I just didn’t feel welcome at all "
When we went to club play as club sx a
Nov 19 we had a fantastic night and everyone was made to feel welcome from our observations.
Are you sure it wasnt in your head? Or can you list some specific tangible events and things that happened that led you to that conclusion?
I'm asking this as club play has just as good a reputation for been friendly and inclusive (they have a permanent bi play room) as the clubs in the South.
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"I only attend club events with unlimited single guys - some clubs let in "select" single gents on a Friday or Saturday but I like a good variety
Most single girls I know in the scene are also looking for guys.
I’d love to visit a club in the South, would be nice to see some single women in a club for a change……
We have over 20 down to come to our next party!?
It’s a pity your guest list is closed for single males now, as more than 3 single women in a club would have been a sight to behold!
Enjoying the benefits of your hosting skills would have been a treat too, something sadly lacking in other NW clubs I could mention……
We can always add guys to a reserve list for if/when spaces come free.... It was open for several weeks with no limitations too I will add!
And thank you for the compliments, we do indeed host good parties, hence we have been doing it so long
Thanks, if I ever feel like a change of scenery, I’ll look to see if I can attend one of your events. Club Play put me off attending as a solo guy again, but never say never right…..?
What put you off
I just didn’t feel welcome at all
When we went to club play as club sx a
Nov 19 we had a fantastic night and everyone was made to feel welcome from our observations.
Are you sure it wasnt in your head? Or can you list some specific tangible events and things that happened that led you to that conclusion?
I'm asking this as club play has just as good a reputation for been friendly and inclusive (they have a permanent bi play room) as the clubs in the South.
KJ"
Ahh, but you went as a couple though.
Dec 17, it wasn’t the busiest of nights. Once I’d had ‘The Tour’, that was it, I was on my own. I was able to observe the staff engaging with the couples hanging around the top of the bar area, but none of them spoke to me again, until I checked out.
It’s a shame there weren’t more people in, to strike up a bit of chat with, make my visit memorable for good reasons, but I guess it just wasn’t my night. |
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"I have to admit, my first - and only - club visit ended in tragedy.
I was quite nervous so accidentally got a bit too d*unk. I tried to swing around the pole just once (god knows why!) and couldn’t let go.
As a result of impaired reactions and being not realising just how skippy those poles are, I ended up flying off into some people (sorry,guys!!!) and was subsequently asked to leave. How embarrassing.
Not usually my style, but there you go. "
That's funny as fuck mare. Is buy you a drink even if you fell into me |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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They are what you make of them.
I would always advise against drinking though, or if you do, keep it modest as aside from getting d*unk and making a tit of yourself you don’t want anything to affect your performance should you get invites to join in. |
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